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Enye yezinselelo ezinkulu ebudlelwaneni bebanga elide ukugcina uthando nokusondelana kulo. Ukuntuleka kothando, ukunakekelwa, ukuqonda noma ukwethembana kungenza kube nzima ngawe ukuthi ugcine ubuhlobo bakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kunezikhathi lapho ungazizwa ukuthi alukho uthando olusele ebudlelwaneni bakho ngenxa yebanga elingokomzimba.
Lokhu kungaholela ekungabazeni ubudlelwano bakho futhi ungazibuza ukuthi ngabe umlingani wakho ukufanele yini. Kepha ngaphambi kokuthi uthathe isinqumo sokuthatha izinqumo ezinzima ezihlobene nobudlelwano bakho bebanga elide, ake sibheke izimpawu nokuthi ngabe zikhuluma ngothando lweqiniso ebudlelwaneni bakho.
1. Nihlala Nixhasana Njalo
Uma wena nomlingani wakho nihlala nisekelana kungakhathalekile ukuthi umhlaba unjani noma ulwandle oluphakathi kwakho, lokhu-ke kungaba uphawu lothando lweqiniso ebudlelwaneni bebanga elide. Isibonelo, umlingani wakho ukubiza ukwazi ukuthi wenza okuhle noma cha noma impilo yakho injani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma unomhlangano obalulekile futhi umlingani wakho engakuphazamisi ngokukushayela ngokungenasidingo, khona-ke lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi umlingani wakho ukuthanda ngempela futhi uyakukhathalela, ngaphandle kwebanga elide phakathi kwenu nobabili.
2. Nenza Isikhathi Sokuzwana
Njengoba usebudlelwaneni bebanga elide, kusobala ukuthi uzobe unezimpilo zakho ezizimele. Ngezinye izikhathi, ungahle ube matasa emsebenzini wakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi indawo yakho yesikhathi yehluke komunye nomunye. Ngenkathi ushaya umbhede, kungenzeka ukuthi ulungiselela ukuya emsebenzini. Ungahle ungakwazi ukufanisa izoni yesikhathi yomunye nomunye. Kepha uma wena nomlingani wakho nisaqhubeka nokuzama ukubekelela isikhathi esithile ohlelweni lwenu ukuze nichithe omunye nomunye, lokho-ke kuyisibonakaliso sothando lweqiniso ebudlelwaneni bebanga elide.
3. Niyathembana
Ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi umlingani wakho uneqiniso kuwe futhi ebeka ithemba lakhe kuwe, kubalulekile ukuthi umethembe. Uma wena nomlingani wakho nithembana futhi nithembekile ebudlelwaneni benu, khona-ke ngeke zibe khona izimpawu ezingcono zothando lweqiniso. Uyazi ukuthi akudingeki ukhathazeke ngokuthi umlingani wakho uhlangana nobani kulezi zinsuku noma ukuthi usethole abangane abasha. Aninhloli ngomunye nomunye ukuqinisekisa ukuthi nikhuluma iqiniso komunye nomunye.
4. Nabelana Ngokusondelana Ngokomzwelo
Ukuba nokusondelana okungokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni bakho kungenye inkomba yothando lweqiniso kungakhathalekile ukuthi usebudlelwaneni obude noma cha. Ungaqiniseka ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho bebanga elide bunothando lweqiniso uma nixhumene ngokomzwelo. Nihlanganyela izinkinga zenu komunye nomunye futhi nizame ukuzixazulula.
5. Nizama Ukwenza Imizamo Yokuvakashelana
Ukuhlangana komunye nomunye ebudlelwaneni bebanga elide akulula kangako. Kungase kudingeke ulinde izinyanga ukuze ube nokubonana okuncane komunye nomunye. Kepha uma nobabili nisazama ngakho konke okusemandleni ukuhlangana futhi nibe nesikhathi esimnandi, lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi ubudlelwano benu bugcwele uthando. Ukubhuka amathikithi endiza nokuthengela omunye nomunye isipho esihle sokuvakashela umuntu omthandayo ngokungangabazeki uthando lweqiniso.
6. Niyekelana Niphile impilo yokuzimela
Uma ukungabikho komlingani wakho nokuzibophezela komunye nomunye kungakufaki kwingcindezi, lokho-ke kukhombisa ukuthi ubudlelwane bakho bebanga elide bugcwele uthando lweqiniso. Umlingani wakho akakuyekeli ukuthi uthokozele impilo yakho ngokusho kwakho futhi ukuvumela ukuthi uphile impilo yakho ngokuzimela. Eqinisweni, umlingani wakho ulungile ngendlela yakho yokuphila futhi uyaqonda ukuthi umhlaba wakho awugxili kuye.
7. Wenza Ngokushesha Ngemuva Kokulwa
Ukulwa okunempilo kuyadingeka ukuze kusinde noma yibuphi ubuhlobo. Kuqinisekisa ukuthi usukulungele ukuxoxa ngezihloko ezahlukahlukene bese ubeka imibono yakho ehlobene nanoma iyiphi inkinga. Ujwayele ukuveza imizwa yakho ngaphandle kokuhlukumezeka. Kukuvumela wazi imingcele ebudlelwaneni bakho, yini engalimaza umlingani wakho noma ukuthi umlingani wakho uguquguquka kanjani. Ngakho-ke, uma ulwa ngendlela enempilo, ngakho-ke qiniseka ngobudlelwano bakho bebanga elide.
8. Awusoze Wehluleka Ukwabelana nganoma yini
Uma nihlale nihlale nazi izinto ezenzeka empilweni yenu ngaphandle kokufihla noma yini, lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi kukhona uthando lweqiniso ebudlelwaneni benu. Yize ungahle ungathumelelani imilayezo ngayo yonke into eyodwa, awukhohlwa ukuhlanganyela lapho ukhona nezinye izinto ezibalulekile. Isibonelo, wazisa umlingani wakho ukuthi uzohamba yini noma ngabe ujoyine isifundo esisha.
9. Nobabili niyazwisisana ngezinhloso namaphupho enu
Ukuthi usebudlelwaneni, akusho ukuthi udinga ukuba nezinhloso namaphupho afanayo. Uma wena nomlingani wakho nikhululekile ngokugxila ezinhlosweni zenu futhi nisebenzela amaphupho enu, khona-ke lokhu kukhombisa uthando lweqiniso ebudlelwaneni bakho obude. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi uvumela umlingani wakho ukufeza izinhloso zakhe. Uyaqonda ukuthi kubalulekile ukugxila ezinhlosweni zakho.
10. Ungababona Ngekusasa Lakho
Lesi ngesinye isibonakaliso sokuthi ubudlelwano bakho bebanga elide bugcwele uthando lweqiniso. Ngisho nangemva kokungakwazi ukuhlangana futhi nichithe isikhathi, uma nisacabangana ezinhlelweni zenu zesikhathi esizayo, lokho-ke kukhombisa ngokusobala ukuthi ubudlelwano benu bunothando lweqiniso kulo.