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Abantu bavame ukuthi kunzima ukujabulisa umuntu wesifazane. Yebo, akunzima kangako uma eyintokazi yakho. Ungahlala wenza owesifazane wakho ajabule ngokumenzela izinto ezimbalwa ezimnandi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengesoka, awusoze wafuna ukuyicasula intombi yakho noma uyithole ikudangele.
Uma usuvele unwaya ikhanda lakho futhi uyazibuza ukuthi yiziphi izindlela ongamjabulisa ngazo, lapho-ke usufike endaweni efanele. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi namuhla sibhale phansi ezinye izindlela ezinhle ongathokozisa ngazo intombazane yakho futhi uyenze ijabule.
1. Mlalele Uma Ekhuluma
Kuwubuwula impela ukungamnaki umuntu okhuluma nawe, ikakhulukazi uma lowo muntu eyintandokazi yothando lwakho. Enye yezindlela ezinhle futhi ezilula zokwenza intombi yakho ijabule ngokulalela lokho ekushoyo. Ngezinye izikhathi, ungahle ungabi nentshisekelo yokulalela lokho akushoyo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kungcono umazise ukuthi awukho esimweni sokukhuluma okwamanje. Kepha ukusebenzisa ifoni yakho noma ukwenza okunye, lapho ekhuluma ngento ebalulekile noma ukuhlanganyela imicabango yakhe kukhombisa ukuthi awunandaba naye.
2. Thembeka Futhi Umethembe
Ukwethembeka kubaluleke kakhulu kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo. Ukwenza ubuhlobo benu buhlale isikhathi eside futhi buhlale buqinile, kubalulekile ukuthi nihlale nithembekile komunye nomunye. Lokhu kuzophinde kujabulise intombi yakho. Abesifazane ngaso sonke isikhathi bafuna abalingani babo bathembeke futhi babeke ithemba labo kubo (funda: abesifazane). Abesifazane bayazonda lapho amadoda abo engathembekile noma besola isikhathi esiningi. Ngakho-ke, uma ungumuntu ohlale ezinzwaneni zakhe ukuhlolela owesifazane wakho noma ungakhathaleli ukuthembeka kuye, khona-ke kungcono ukuthi ushintshe lo mkhuba.
3. Khuluma Uthando Lwakho Ngaye
Le ngenye indlela elula yokwenza owesifazane wakho ajabule futhi athandwe. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuxhumana nothando lwakho ngentombazane yakho. Ungahlala umtshela ukuthi umthanda kangakanani nokuthi uzizwa unenhlanhla enjani ukuba naye empilweni yakho. Ungazama ukusho izinto ezimnandi kuye ngenkathi ubheke emehlweni akhe. Lokhu nakanjani kuzomjabulisa futhi uthando lwakhe ngawe luzokhula lujule.
4. Zinike Isikhathi Sakhe
Akukho okungaba ngcono njengokuthatha isikhathi sothando lwakho lwentokazi. Noma uhlala unesimiso esiqinile, zama ukuchitha isikhathi esithile sekhwalithi naye. Lokhu ngeke kulethe ukumamatheka ebusweni bakhe kuphela kepha kuzomenza azizwe ebalulekile. Uzobona ukuthi wenza lokhu ukumenza azizwe ejabule ngakho-ke, uzokwazisa nakakhulu.
5. Simangaze Ngezikhumbuzo
Uma uhlela ukuthatha uhambo lwebhizinisi noma uhambo lomgwaqo nabangane bakho, ke qiniseka ukuthi uletha izikhumbuzo zothando lwakho lwentokazi. Kungaba yinoma yini efana noshokoledi, izesekeli, isikhwama semali, njll. Lena indlela enhle yokubonisa ukuthi uyamthanda futhi wayesengqondweni yakho noma ngabe wawungekho. Lokhu kuzomenza azizwe ejabule impela.
6. Thumela Imibhalo Emnandi Kuye
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esithile nowesifazane wakho ngenxa yesimiso sakho esimatasa noma ngoba usemizini ehlukene, ungazama ukuthumela imiyalezo emnandi kuye. Sithembe, nakanjani lokhu kuzokusebenzela. Isibonelo, ungambhalela izingcaphuno ezimnandi, noma ukuthi uzizwe kanjani lapho umbona okokuqala. Ungabhala nokuthi ukhetheke kanjani noma ungabelana ngezinkumbulo ezimnandi enizihlanganyele nomunye.
7. Bhala Amanye Amanothi Amnandi
Ukuthumela imiyalezo emnandi ngokungangabazeki kuyindlela enhle yokuveza uthando lwakho ngaye futhi umenze azizwe ejabule. Kepha kungani ungazami ukumbhalela inothi elincane. Yize izincwadi zothando zingazwakala njengezidala, zisengenza izimangaliso ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ungayibhalela phansi imizwa yakho bese uyislayida esikhwameni semali, esikhwameni noma ezindaweni okungenzeka ukuthi uzithole khona. Awudingi ukubhala incwadi ende yothando. Esikhundleni salokho, ungabhala 'Ngiyakuthanda' noma eminye imiyalezo emnandi ukumenza amomotheke.
8. Mhloniphe
Sonke sifuna inhlonipho kozakwethu. Khombisa uhlangothi lwakho lwe-chivalrous othandweni lwakho lwentokazi futhi ube umnumzane wakhe. Ungamjabulisa ngokuhlonipha imizwa yakhe, imicabango, imibono kanye nezinqumo zakhe. Lokhu kuzomenza akholelwe ukuthi uyamkhathalela futhi uyajabula ukumamukela ngale ndlela ayiyo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, inhlonipho iyinto edingeka kakhulu ekwenzeni ubudlelwano buhlale isikhathi eside futhi buhlale buqinile.
9. Nikeza Ukuncoma Kwangempela Kuye
Abesifazane bayathanda ukuthola ukuncoma kozakwethu, inqobo nje uma kuyiqiniso. Ngakho-ke kungani ungamncomi futhi umenze ajabule? Asisho ukuthi udinga njalo ukuncoma ukubukeka kwakhe. Ungayincoma nendlela yakhe yokuphatha izinto emsebenzini noma indlela akunakekela ngayo. Ungabazisa ubuholi bakhe, ukuxhumana namanye amakhono. Isibonelo, uma epheka kahle, khona-ke umazise ngokufanayo.
10.Menze Azizwe Ebalulekile
Ukuthatha umlingani wakho kancane noma ukumziba kwesinye isikhathi, kungamenza azizwe engabalulekile kakhulu. Siyaqiniseka ukuthi njengesoka elinothando nelinakekelayo, awusoze wakufuna lokhu. Ngakho-ke, kunconywa ukuthi wenze intombi yakho izizwe ibalulekile. Ngalokhu, mnake uma ngabe kukhona akushoyo, funa iseluleko sakhe, uhloniphe ukukhetha kwakhe futhi umfake ezinhlelweni zakho. Uma kwenzeka, awuvumelani naye, ungamazisa okufanayo.
11.Mmangaze Ngokudla Okumnandi
Nawe ungayinqoba inhliziyo yentombi yakho ngokupheka ukudla akuthandayo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi hhayi kuphela amadoda indlela eya ezinhliziyweni zawo ingaphakathi kwezisu zawo. Abesifazane nabo bayakuthanda ukudla. Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ngezindlela zokumjabulisa, khona-ke ungacabanga ngokummangaza ngezibiliboco ezithile. Kepha uma ungapheki kahle ekuphekeni, ungathatha usizo kuzindlela zokupheka ezitholakala kwi-inthanethi noma u-ode ukudla akuthandayo.
12.Msekele Ngezikhathi Ezinzima
Yini enye indlela yokumjabulisa ngaphandle kokumeseka ngezikhathi ezinzima? Ulindele ukuthi umbambe futhi umsize lapho izinto zingahambi kahle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngale ndlela ungasiza intombi yakho ekwenzeni isinqumo esifanele nokufeza izinhloso zayo. Ungakwazi ukuhlala eceleni kwakhe futhi umxhase ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo.
Zingaba khona ezinye izindlela eziningi zokwenza intombazane yakho ijabule. Kepha lezi ngezinye zezindlela ezizosebenza nakanjani kunoma ngubani onjengawe. Lokhu ngeke nje kwenze intokazi yakho ithande injabulo kodwa futhi kuzoqinisa nezimpande zobudlelwano bakho.