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Wonke umuntu wesifazane udlula esigabeni esithile empilweni yakhe lapho ehlaselwa imibuzo enjengokuthi- 'Ushada nini ?,' 'Kungani ungatholi indoda bese ushada?', 'Impilo imayelana nokushada, ukuba nezingane futhi ukuhlala ngokujabula nabo. '
Hhayi abavela emphakathini, kepha isikhathi esiningi ngamalungu abo omndeni, omakhelwane, nabangane ababeka abesifazane ezimweni eziyingozi. Abazi neze ukuthi lokhu kungadala ukucindezeleka nokudangala nakulowo wesifazane.
Kwesinye isikhathi, ngenxa yezimo ezicindezelayo, abesifazane abakwazi ukuhambisa imizwa yabo ngokufanele futhi bagcina bezizwa bebhajwe esimweni futhi bengakwazi ukwenza isinqumo. Baningi abesifazane abazinikeleyo phambi kwengcindezi yomshado futhi baxegise imisebenzi yabo ngenxa yamalungu emindeni yabo.
Ngokufanayo, indaba kaVani (igama lishintshiwe) kusuka kuPatna ayihlukile. Ngemuva kokuphothula iziqu zakhe zobunjiniyela, njengamantombazane amaningi, uVani wacindezelwa kakhulu ngabazali nezihlobo zakhe ukuthi angashada. Ekuqaleni, akazange abanake futhi wathi ufuna ukusebenza njengonjiniyela wesoftware kunalokho. Uthe, 'Umsebenzi ochumayo yikho konke engikufunayo manje. Ake ngibe yilokhu ebengifuna ukuba yikho. '
Kepha, ngubani onendaba nombono wowesifazane, akunjalo? Noma esejoyine njengonjiniyela wesoftware enkampanini enethemba lokuthi umndeni wakhe uzogcina ngokuyekisa ukumcindezela ngomshado. Izimo zaba zimbi kakhulu futhi ekugcineni ngemuva kwezinyanga ezintathu, kwadingeka ayeke umsebenzi wakhe ukuze ashade.
Kuyacaca ukuthi ukube akazange acindezelwe umshado, wayezogxila emsebenzini wakhe futhi enze okuthile ngawo.
Funda futhi: Umshado Akusikho Lokho Okubonakala Njalo: Ngaphakathi Kwempilo Yesithandani SaseNdiya
Ngokufanayo, kokunye, owesifazane obizwa ngoNiti (igama lishintshiwe) waseKoderma, eNdiya, washada ngemuva kokuzalwa kwakhe kweminyaka engama-21. Njengabesifazane abaningi abaphupha ngobuhlobo obuhle nomlingani wakhe, naye wayejabule ngomshado wakhe futhi kwakuyisikhathi senjabulo kuye. Ubephupha ngezikhathi ezinhle zokuthumela umshado wakhe, kepha, izinto azihambanga njengoba bekuhleliwe futhi kuphela ngemuva konyaka, wacindezelwa ukuba nezingane.
Watshelwa ngumama wakhe nomalokazana wakhe ukuthi, 'Ukuba ngumama kuzokuqeda njengomuntu wesifazane.' UNiti akazange aqiniseke nakancane njengoba kwakusekuseni kakhulu ukuthi angaba ngumama futhi akhulise ingane.
Echithe iminyaka emi-2 yempilo yakhe yomshado, ulokhu engakunaki okushiwo amalungu omndeni wakhe nezihlobo zakhe. Wayengaphikisani nokuba ngumama, konke ayekufuna kwakuwukulungela ngokwengqondo nangokwezimali ukwamukela ingane. Konke ayekufuna kwakungukusebenza, into ayemthanda ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakhe.
Kwakukhona isikhathi lapho kwakuphoqelekile ukuthi abesifazane bashade ngemuva kokufinyelela eminyakeni ethile. Kepha, kunzima kubantu abanengqondo yezinzalamizi ukuthi baqonde ukuthi abesifazane banezinye izinto eziseqhulwini futhi. Banentshisekelo yabo kanye nokukhetha amakhondo omsebenzi futhi bayathanda ukuchitha 'isikhathi-sami'. Manje, sonke sesiqonde ukuthi ukuzinakekela akukhona ukuzicabangela wena wedwa. Ukushada noma ukuba nezingane kungahluka kusuka kowesifazane kuye kowesifazane futhi umphakathi awukwazi ukunika laba besifazane umnqamulajuqu othize wokwenza lezi zinqumo.
Muva nje, umkhankaso obizwa nge-'Timelines 'wenziwe yi-SK-II, inkampani yokunakekelwa kwesikhumba, ukuhlola okulindelwe impilo yabesifazane abane abavela emazweni amane ahlukene, benombono ohlukile. Izikhathi zesikhathi salaba besifazane zehlukile emibonweni kagogo, omama kanye nabangane babo abasondelene. Le ngxoxo yathathwa yintatheli nombhali waseMelika uKatie Couric.
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Ngaphambi kokuxoxisana nokungena engxoxweni nalaba besifazane abane,
UKatie uthe, 'Kwenzekani lapho amaphupho engqubuzana nokulindelwe? Sonke kufanele sishaye izingqopha-mlando ezithile: iziqu, umshado, umndeni. '
Umlingisi waseChina owine izindondo, uChun Xia wayengomunye wabesifazane abane okwaxoxwa nabo nguKatie Couric. UChun, owaziwa ngokuzwakalisa imibono yakhe nokukhuluma ngokunika amandla abanye besifazane abasha baseChina. Ukhumbule ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi, wayebuzwa ngabantu mayelana nomshado. Ngihlale ngibuzwa, 'Awufuni ukushada? Awufuni ukuqala umndeni futhi ube nezingane njengoba kufanele kule minyaka yakho? ' Kepha iqiniso ukuthi angifuni manje. Angikakulungeli okwamanje, 'kusho yena. Ukholelwa ukuthi injabulo ingavela emithonjeni ehlukene futhi futhi ayikhawulelwanga emshadweni.
Ngenkathi ekhuluma noKatie, omunye wesifazane, uMaina (25) uthe, abantu baseJapan bababiza kanjani abantu besifazane 'njengezimpahla ezingathengisiwe', uma bengashadi phakathi kweminyaka yobudala engama-25-30. Umama wakhe uphinde wathi, 'Ngifuna ngempela ukuthi athole indoda efanele futhi ashade, abonakale njengezinto zomshado.'
Inhlolokhono ngeposi, uKatie usize laba besifazane nemindeni yabo ukuthi baqonde izikhathi zabo ezifanele. Izikhathi zimelela indlela lapho wonke umuntu wesifazane abone khona impilo yakhe ngokungafani nalokho imindeni yabo kanye nezihlobo ababekucabanga futhi bekucabanga.
Owesifazane ngamunye osemusha, kwenziwa imigqa emibili. Eyodwa imele okulindelwe. Enye, izifiso zabo, 'kuchaza uKatie. 'Kuhlala kunqamuka phakathi kwamaphupho nokulindelwe. Kodwa ingabe ukubona umehluko kungaholela ekuqondeni okwengeziwe? '
Ngemuva kokubona nokuqonda umehluko kulokho okulindelwe nezifiso amalungu omndeni kanye nabesifazane bakwazile ukuba nengxoxo engcono maqondana nomshado nempilo ezayo.
Funda futhi: Izinkinga Ezijwayelekile eziyi-9 Abesifazane BaseNdiya Ababhekana Nazo Namuhla!
Akukho lutho olubi ngokukhathazeka ngamadodakazi akho noma ukuwashada eneminyaka yobudala abazali bazizwa 'kulungile', kodwa, umuntu kufanele futhi abheke izifiso nokulindelwe yizingane zabo, ikakhulukazi amadodakazi.
