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Kumantombazane amaningi esizukulwaneni sethu, uthando nokuthandana yizinto ezihambisana. Sonke siyakujabulela lapho isoka lethu lithandana futhi lizwakalisa uthando lwalo ngathi. Eqinisweni, amanye amantombazane aya enyangeni lapho isoka lizitika ngothando obala emphakathini.
Ngempela lokho kuyinto eyodwa engenza noma iyiphi intombazane izizwe njengenkosazana. Noma ngabe ukuthandana kuyinto oyifunayo emigwaqweni noma ungathanda ukuba nayo ngaphakathi kwezindonga ezine zekamelo lokulala, iqiniso cishe bonke abesifazane bayathanda ukuba nothando oluncane ezimpilweni zabo zothando.
Ngokudabukisayo kithina, akuwona wonke amadoda ayihlobo 'lenkosana ethandekayo'. Kukhona amanye amasoka asebenzayo kakhulu futhi awakholelwa emcabangweni wezothando nhlobo. Kunabanye ababanda kakhulu ukuthi bangaze bacabangele ezothando. Abesifazane abathandana nabesilisa abanjalo bavame ukubonakala bengeneme ngokungabi bikho kothando empilweni yabo.
Ukwengeza osizini lwabo, nanamuhla, kwamukelwa emphakathini ukuthi yindoda enobudlelwano okufanele iqale lonke uthando olungena kulo.
Uma ungowesifazane onjalo ocasulwe iqiniso lokuthi isoka lakhe alithandani ngokwanele, nansi indatshana yakho. Lapha sizokhuluma ngezinyathelo eziyishumi ongazisebenzisa ukwenza isoka lakho lithandane ngokwengeziwe.
1. Mtshele Okudingayo
Amathuba ukuthi isoka lakho aliqapheli nokuthi alithandani. Ngakho-ke into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuxazulula le nkinga ukumtshela ukuthi inkinga ikhona. Lapho esekubonile ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthini kuwe, uzokubhala phansi azame ukuzilungisa. Lokhu kuzosindisa ubudlelwano bakho futhi kukunikeze okufunayo yingakho, kubalulekile ukuthi ungazizwa wesaba ukukhuluma ngomqondo wakho.
2. Gqoka kahle
Ngenkathi ungazizwa sengathi isoka lakho alisathandani, isizathu salokho kungaba ukuthi nawe awusakhangi manje. Ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi utshala imali ekuhlanzekeni komuntu futhi uzilungise kahle. Ngaleyo ndlela isoka lakho lizozizwa likhanga kakhulu kuwe futhi lokhu ngokusobala kuzomenza athandane ngokwengeziwe.
3. Ungamcimi
Kungahle kube nezinkulungwane zezizathu zokuthi kungani isoka lakho lingathandani nawe. Kungahle kube yisipiliyoni sobudlelwano obudlule noma esinye isizathu esimenza athukuthele uhlangothi lwakhe lwezothando. Ukuba yintombi efunayo noma ukumncikisela njalo ngokufana kuzomenza aqale ukukuzonda, futhi leyo yinto ongayifuni.
4. Musa Ukumqhathanisa Nabanye Abesilisa Abathandanayo
I-ego yesilisa iyinto ebucayi kakhulu futhi njengentombi kungumsebenzi wakho omkhulu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi okufanayo akunqandeki. Ngokuqhathanisa isoka lakho namanye amadoda athandanayo, ulimaza isithunzi salo. Lokhu ngeke kumenze athandane. Eqinisweni, lokhu kungamenza athandane kakhulu kunalokho ayikho manje. Okubi kakhulu ongakwenza ukuqhathanisa amakhono wesoka lakho nawomphathi wakho. Qiniseka ukuthi awukwenzi lokho.
5. Ukuyekethisa Emicimbini Ehlangene
Isoka lakho lingafuna ukuthi uzitike ngezinto wena ngokwakho ongazithandi. Yize lokhu kusuka kulokho komcimbi wezemidlalo kuye alindele ukuthi uchitha isikhathi naye ngenkathi edlala imidlalo yevidiyo, qiniseka ukuthi awunqabi noma yimuphi wayo. Ngaleyo ndlela uzokubonga ngakho konke okwenzile nangesikhathi esizayo lapho umcela ngaphandle kosuku lokuthandana, uyokujabulela ukukulalela.
6. Mazise
Uma usukuvezile ukuthi ufuna ukuthi athande kakhulu, maningi amathuba okuthi uzobe enza imizamo efanayo. Qiniseka ukuthi uyakwazisa okufanayo. Awukwazi ukulindela ukuthi aphendule iqabunga elisha ubusuku bonke. Ngokumbekezelela nokwazisa ukuhamba kwengane akwenzayo kuzokwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile futhi ube nakho konke lokho kuthandana obukade ukufuna.
7. Dlulela ngale kwe-Cliché Romance
Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi ezothando zingatholakala ezindaweni ezingalindelekile. Ngakho-ke phuma embonweni wokuthi ezothando zingenzeka kuphela esidlweni esikhanyayo samakhandlela. Kunalokho zama ukuhambela izinto enizithandayo nobabili. Uma umsebenzi uqobo ujabulisa, ezothando zizothola indlela.
8. Qalisa Ezothando
Uma ufuna okuthile kwezothando empilweni yakho yothando futhi ungakwazanga ukuthola lelo gumbi esokeni lakho, unganqikazi ukwethula okufanayo ebudlelwaneni bakho. Sezadlula izinsuku lapho indoda kuphela eyayingenza lokho. Ezweni lanamuhla lokulingana ngokobulili, asikho isizathu sokuthi kungani ungavele uqhubeke ukona isoka lakho.
9. Mtshele Ukuthi Ubaluleke Kangakanani Kuwe
Imvamisa sigcina ngokuthanda umuntu kodwa singamtsheli okufanayo. Sikuthatha kalula ukuthi omunye umuntu uzokwazi. Kepha khumbula ukuthi isoka lakho aliyona ingqondo yokufunda. Ngokumtshela ukuthi uyamthanda, empeleni umkhuthaza ukuthi avulele isifuba sakho kuwe, okuzomenza athandane kakhudlwana. Enye indlela yokumtshela ngokubaluleka kwakhe empilweni yakho ukumthelela ngezipho.
10. Kuningi Okwenzeka Empilweni Kunokuthandana
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uthole leli qiniso ngokuzwakalayo nangokucacile ekhanda lakho. Ukuthi akayena owothando akusho ukuthi uyakuthanda okuncane. Akuwona wonke umuntu onendlela efanayo yokubonisa uthando. Uma kwenzeka engathandani nhlobo, ungacabanga ukuyeka ukuzama ukumshintsha kepha uzame ukumamukela ukuthi ungubani. Ngaleyo ndlela uzozithola ujabula kakhulu othandweni.