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Ngesinye isikhathi ebudlelwaneni bakho, ngabe ngabe uphakamise izandla zakho wazibuza, ukuthi ungenza kanjani ukuthi umuntu wakho akuqonde. Abesilisa nabesifazane banezindlela ezihluke kakhulu empilweni iningi lamadoda alinembile njengabesifazane ekuqondeni imizwa noma ekufundeni izinkulumo. Ngakho-ke ungalindeli ukuthi indoda iqonde ngokwemvelo ukuthi abesifazane bazizwa kanjani.
Isithiyo esikhulu lapho ucabanga ukuthi ungayenza kanjani indoda ikuqonde isimo sethu samasiko njengabesifazane. Akufanele sicabange ngezidingo zethu ngokweqile noma sikhononde njengoba abesifazane kufanele bangazideli. Lokhu kusibeka thina namadoda ethu endaweni exineneyo - sifuna ukuthi baqonde izidingo zethu, ngenkathi bengasoli nokuthi kukhona okudinga ukukhuluma noma ukulungiswa!
NGABE UZIGCINA IZIMFIHLO KUMNTU WAKHO?
Ungenzi iphutha amadoda ayazwela futhi anemizwa futhi. Kodwa-ke, banentambo yokuba nendlela yokuxazulula izinkinga maqondana nempilo, kanti abesifazane bafuna imizwa yabo yamukelwe futhi iqondwe. Ngakho-ke, ungayenza kanjani indoda ikuqonde nemizwa yakho? Awekho amadoda amabili afanayo - amasu okuthi ungayenza kanjani indoda yakho ikuqonde, angahluka. Kepha, nazi ezinye izindlela zokukhuluma ngemizwa yakho nendoda yakho.
Khetha isikhathi esifanele. Khuluma naye lapho engakhathazekile noma ematasa (noma ebanjwe kwiNdebe Yomhlaba). Udinga ukunakwa kwakhe ngokugcwele noma uzokhungatheka. Mtshele ukuthi nidinga isikhathi sokuthula ndawonye.
Yazi ukuthi uthini
Hlela imicabango yakho. Khuluma ngezwi elilinganayo. Ukuba nengqondo yindlela yokwenza indoda ikuqonde. Yisho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokucacile, nokuthi kungani uzizwa ngaleyo ndlela.
Yisho ngokuqondile
Uma wenza ngokuvamile, ngeke aqonde. Khuluma ngezimo ezithile lapho uzwe sengathi akayizwisisi imizwa yakho. Phinda uthi kungani ukwesekwa kwakhe kubalulekile.
Lalela
Enye indlela yokwenza indoda ikuqonde ukuthi ube yisilaleli esihle. Zama ukuqonda indlela azizwa ngayo. Uzokwazisa intshisekelo yakho bese ekubuyisela umusa.
Ungamangaleli
Uma ufuna ukukhuluma ngezinkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho, yiba nobulungiswa. Ungasho ukuthi, 'Awukaze', 'Uhlala njalo'. Musa ukudonsa izingxabano ezidlule. Akuyona indlela yokwenza umuntu wakho akuqonde.
Qonda izimpendulo zakhe ezingokomzwelo
Xoxa ngesimo (inkinga yezimali, ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi) bese umbuza ukuthi wasisingatha kanjani. Bese ukhuluma ngokuthi uzobhekana kanjani nayo. Lokhu kuzonisiza nobabili ukuthi nibone umehluko.
Funda up
Indlela ephumelelayo yokwenza indoda yakho ikuqonde ukwaba izindatshana zobudlelwano noma izincwadi. Lezi zincwadi zikhuluma ngezimo zengqondo ezahlukahlukene zabesilisa nabesifazane ngemizwa.
Bhala
Enye indlela yokwenza indoda ikuqonde ukuthi ubhalele incwadi ngemizwa yakho. Lokhu kuhle ikakhulukazi ngoba ingxoxo engabhalwanga engaphenduka impikiswano.
Ungaqhathanisi
Ungakhulumi ngokuthi omunye umbhangqwana unokuxhumana okufudumele kanjani. Kuzokwenza umlingani wakho azizwe engafaneleki, futhi ekhuthazekile. Futhi, yazi ukuthi abukho ubudlelwano obuphelele.
Yazise imizamo yakhe
Kwesinye isikhathi, uma silimele, sivalela ngaphandle abantu abasithandayo. Vuma imizamo yomuntu wakho yokuqonda imizwa yakho. Lokhu kuzomkhuthaza.
Thola usizo lochwepheshe
Uma kungekho lutho olusebenzayo futhi unamathele ekutheni ungenza kanjani ukuthi indoda yakho ikuqonde, hamba uyokwelulekwa ndawonye futhi ngokuhlukile. Zizokusiza ukubhekana nale nkinga ngokomsebenzi.
