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Ngezinye izikhathi, ungahlangana nabantu abajabule kakhulu futhi abanelisekile ezimpilweni zabo. Ukubona lokhu, ungazibuza ukuthi yini eyenza impilo yabo ibe yinjabulo? Futhi, ungahle uzicabange uphila impilo egcwele ukwaneliseka kepha ngemuva kokubhekana neqiniso, ungahle udabuke.
Yize ubuchopho bomuntu bukwazi ukwenza izinto nokuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani, kungahle kungakwazi ukuthola injabulo ngaphandle kokuthi uvumele okufanayo. Noma ungajabula okwesikhashana, ungazithola uzungezwe yimizwa engemihle.
Ngakho-ke uma kunjalo, iyiphi indlela yokuthola ukwaneliseka futhi uphile impilo ejabulisayo? Yebo, awusoze wanqunywa ukuze uphile impilo enenjongo nejabulisayo kepha kunemithetho ethile yegolide engakusiza ekutholeni injabulo empilweni yakho. Ukuze wazi okufanayo, sicela uskrole futhi ufunde ngezansi kwemithetho yegolide.
1. Yazi Okukujabulisa
Into yokuqala nephambili yokuphila impilo enenjongo nejabulisayo ngokwazi nokwenza lokho okukujabulisa. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi uma wenza lokho okukwenza uzizwe ujabule, ukukwenza ngenhliziyo yakho yonke. Ubeka umzamo wakho omuhle futhi ngenxa yalokho, kuvela ukuthi kube yimpumelelo. Ukuchitha iminyaka yakho eyigugu ngokwenza into ongayithandi akusona isinqumo esihlakaniphile. Thola ukuthi yini ekujabulisa futhi uzame ukukwenza umsebenzi wakho.
2. Smile Futhi Hleka Ngokuvamile
Akunakwenzeka ukuhlala ujabule uma ungazami ukumamatheka. Awudingi ukubheka okuthile okuhlekisa kakhulu ukuhleka. Eqinisweni, amamatheke futhi uhleke ngoba impilo ikunikeza olunye usuku nethuba lokwenza impilo yakho ifanele. Futhi, amamatheke izingane ezitaladini nalapho oweta ekunikeza insizakalo endaweni yokudlela. Uma usuqale ukumamatheka nokuhleka, uzozithola uhlala kude nokunganaki.
3. Yiba Nozwela
Uzwela yinto okumele thina bantu sihlakulele kuyo uqobo. Lapho uzwelana nabanye, uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuhlupheka kwabo futhi wenze izimpilo zabo zibe ngcono. Futhi, ukuba nozwelo ngezinye izidalwa eziphilayo kuzokwenza uphile impilo enokuthula nenenjongo. Uzojabula ngemuva kokusiza abanye.
4. Shiya ngemuva kwesaba lokwahlulelwa
Inqobo nje uma wenza okuthile okubonakala kulungile kuwe futhi kungalimazi muntu, awudingi ukuthi ukhathazeke ngokuthi abantu bacabangani ngawe. Awudingi ukujabulisa wonke umuntu. Esikhundleni salokho, udinga ukuphikelela kunoma yini oyenzayo kunokuba wesabe ukwahlulelwa.
5. Tshala Isikhathi Sakho Nemizwa Ebudlelwaneni Obunenjongo
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuxhumana nabanye nokwakha ubuhlobo nabo. Kepha-ke kufanele uqonde ukuthi injabulo nobungani kufanele kuhambisane. Uma othile engakugqugquzeli ukuthi ufeze izinhloso zakho futhi ulethe izinguquko ezinhle, akunasisekelo ekutshaleni isikhathi sakho nemizwa yakho kulowo muntu. Esimweni esinjalo, ungazizwa unesizungu ngisho noma uzungezwe abantu abaningi.
6. Yiba Nguwe
Ukuzama ukuba ngomunye umuntu ngenhloso yokwenza wonke umuntu ajabule eduze kwakho, akukho ngaphansi kokuzihlupha. Esikhundleni sokukopisha abanye, veza okwakho uqobo futhi ube yilokho oyikho. Unempilo eyodwa ngakho-ke, ungenzi impilo yakho ibe nomoya omncane wokuphila ngokuzama ukujabulisa wonke umuntu. Esikhundleni salokho, yamukela amaphutha akho futhi uzithuthukise nsuku zonke.
7. Gcina Ibhalansi Yomsebenzi-Nempilo
Kunesisho esidumile esithi, 'Wonke umsebenzi futhi akukho ukudlala, kwenza uJack abe umfana omncane.' Lokhu kuyiqiniso impela njengoba umuntu kufanele asebenze ukuze aphile kepha angaphili ngokusebenzela ukusebenza. Umsebenzi ngokungangabazeki udla isikhathi sethu esiningi kepha lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele wenze umsebenzi ofanayo usuku lonke. Udinga ukubekela eceleni isikhathi sokuzilibazisa, izintshisekelo nabathandekayo bakho. Ukuzithanda akukaze kube yinto embi ngakho-ke, udinga ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe unikeza isikhathi esanele ezintweni ozithandayo, ingabe uzama ukuzigcina ulungile futhi uma uchitha isikhathi nomndeni wakho nabangane?
8. Zivuze Ngokunqoba Okuncane
Noma impilo yakho igcwele amahla-ndenyuka, kungaba nempumelelo encane phakathi kwalezo zikhathi ezinzima. Njengomuntu, akumele uziyeke zingabonakali. Udinga ukubungaza lokho kunqoba okuncane. Njengokuthi ungazincoma ngokuvuka ekuseni noma ngokuya ejimini noma ngokuxazulula ukuzivocavoca kwe-maths obukuhlehlisa isikhathi eside.
9. Gwema Ukudlala Umdlalo Osolwa
Ukusola abanye nokuthola amaphutha kuzo mhlawumbe kuyinto elula kunazo zonke umuntu angayenza. Kepha kunzima ukuthola amaphutha akho noma uthathe ubunikazi balokho okwenzayo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi omunye umuntu ubhekene nosizi obhekene nalo namuhla, kuzodingeka uqonde ukuthi kungaba ngenxa yezinketho zakho futhi.
Isibonelo, uphathwa kabi njengoba ukhethe ukwamukela imikhuba emibi yabanye. Ngaphambi kokusola abanye, zinike isikhashana uhlaziye, ngabe wazimela uma izinto zingahambi kahle kwasekuqaleni?
Futhi, bhekela noma yini okwenzayo. Ukusola abanye ngoba nje izinto zingahambanga ngendlela obulindele ngayo, akuyona into ehlakaniphile.
10. Funda Emaphutheni Akho
Kukhona esinye isisho esithi, 'Ukwenza iphutha kungumuntu' njengoba abantu abaphelele bengakaze babe khona. Sonke sinokungapheleli okuthile kithi ngakho-ke, senza amaphutha. Kepha okungamukeleki ukungafundi emaphutheni ethu. Akudingeki ukuthi uzame ukuba umuntu ophelele noma uzisole ngalokho okwenzile. Esikhundleni salokho, ungafunda kulawo maphutha futhi wenze okungcono kakhulu empilweni yakho.
11. Sebenzisa Imali Ngokuhlakanipha
Kusobala ngathi ukuthi sikholwe ukuthi ukuba nemali ethe xaxa kuzokwenza impilo yethu ibe lula futhi inethezeke. Indlela oyisebenzisa ngayo imali oyisebenzele kanzima nayo iyanquma ukuthi uzophila impilo enenjabulo nenokuthula noma cha. Ukuchitha imali ezintweni ezingenasidingo kuzokulethela usizi. Esikhundleni sokuchitha imali enjabulweni yezinto ezibonakalayo, zama ukusebenzisa imali yakho ekuhloleni umhlaba, emsebenzini wesisa nezinye izinto ezinhle.
12. Gwema Ukuziqhathanisa Nabanye
Abekho abantu ababili abafanayo ngakho-ke, ukuziqhathanisa nabanye akubalulekile. Eqinisweni, akumele uqhathanise izinto zakho nezinye. Ngokwanda okwandayo kwemithombo yezokuxhumana, ungazizwa uphansi ngemuva kokubona izithombe zabanye nokuthi ukuphi kepha-ke awudingi ukwazi konke okubonayo kuyiqiniso. Funda ukuhlala ujabule futhi wanelisekile nganoma yini onayo.
13. Beka Izinjongo Ezincane Zansuku Zonke
Sonke sinemigomo ehlukene okufanele siyifinyelele ezimpilweni zethu. Indlela enhle yokufeza leyo nhloso ukusetha izinhloso ezincane zansuku zonke. Ngalokhu, ungasetha okungenani imigomo emibili-emithathu ngosuku bese uzama ukuyifeza. Njengoba ungazibekela imigomo yokuvuka ekuseni kakhulu, uphuze izingilazi zamanzi eziyi-8-9 ngosuku bese ulawula intukuthelo yakho. Lapho usukwazi ukufeza lezi zinhloso nsuku zonke, uzokwazi ukuphokophela phezulu empilweni.
14. Thuthukisa Ukubonga
Ukuveza ukubonga kwakho kothile kuhlale kuyinto enhle. Ungahle ungazi kepha ubonge labo abangakusiza noma bakusize ungenza izimanga empilweni yakho. Futhi, kukhombisa ubuntu bakho. Noma ukubonga kungaphatheki, kungaletha ukumamatheka ebusweni bomuntu futhi kuzokwenza uhlonishwe.
15. Thembela Emandleni Akho
Kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe ukwethemba amakhono akho. Ngaphandle kwalokho, akekho omunye umuntu ozothembela kuwe. Abantu bangakucabanga njengomuntu ongenalwazi. Ngezinye izikhathi kusobala ukuthi uzizwe ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuqedela umsebenzi ngoba ubukeka ulukhuni kakhulu. Kepha-ke ukungathembi amakhono akho futhi unikezele kalula kuzokwenza ungakwazi ukwenza izinto.
16. Nikeza okuningi, Lindela okuncane
Kuhle ukusiza abanye kepha ukulindela ukuthola okuthile ngakho, akuyona into elungile. Ekuqaleni, ungacabanga, wenza into efanele njengoba ikulethela okuthile, kepha lokhu kungenzeka kungasebenzi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Uma ulindele okuncane kubantu, unamathuba amancane okulimala kubantu. Ngakho-ke, ukunikela okuningi nokulindela okuncane kwabanye, kuzokwenza uphile impilo enokuthula.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, zama ukuba ushintsho ofuna ukulubona emhlabeni futhi uphathe abanye ngendlela ongathanda ukuthi nawe uphathwe ngayo. Kufanele futhi uzame ukuphinde uvakashele imizila yezinkumbulo ezimnandi futhi uyazise kuze kube phakade.
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Yize ingekho incwadi yemithetho yokuphila impilo yomuntu, la maphuzu angenhla azokusiza ekwenzeni impilo yakho ibe mnandi futhi ibe nokuthula. Sifisela wena impumelelo nokwaneliseka empilweni yakho.