Uma ushade ne-Aries enezimfanelo zenqama ezivamile (inkani, ama-obvs, kodwa futhi nokuncintisana, ukuzethemba, isifiso sokuvelela, ukuba nethemba lokuhle, ukukhuluma ngokungagwegwesi), usulungele ukugibela. Uma ushade nomuntu onabo bonke, lokho kugibela kungase kube i-roller coaster. Impilo ne-Aries ayisoze yaba yisicefe. Nazi izeluleko zokukhuphuka nokwehla.
Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliUma ushade no-Bossy McBosserton, i-CEO yoMndeni
Uyakholelwa kuye (ukubeka kancane). Ungumholi ozelwe ngokwemvelo owazi ukuphatha. Unenkani njengenqama. Uyanqikaza ukucela usizo (noma izikhombisi-ndlela) ngoba unokuncintisana okukhulu. Bheka futhi: ongenasineke futhi uyashesha ukuthukuthela. Zonke lezi zimfanelo ze-alpha zingashisa ekuqaleni-azibizi njengophawu lomlilo mahhala-ikakhulukazi uma ozakwethu abambalwa bokugcina bebengaqondi kahle noma bentula emnyangweni wokuzethemba. Kodwa umgomo wakho uwukuba uhhafu wombhangqwana onamandla, hhayi abasebenzi abasekelayo noma i-roadkill. Ukucindezeleka kungase kuvele lapho uzizwa umncane futhi ungenamandla kunomuntu oxhumana naye, kubhala uchwepheshe wobudlelwane nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uDkt. Susan Heitler. Ebudlelwaneni bothando phakathi kwabantu abadala ababili, amandla okwabelwana ngawo anempilo. Indlela esheshayo yokulinganisa amandla ashiwo ukuthi uhlale uzolile ngesikhathi sokungqubuzana. Umthetho wokuqala wesithupha ebusweni bomuntu onzima ukugcina upholile, kubhala umqeqeshi wezempilo oyedwa. Uma ungasabela kancane ekucasuleni, yilapho ungasebenzisa khona ukwahlulela okungcono kakhulu ukuze ubhekane nenselele.
Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliUma ushade nohlobo oluqinile, oluthule
Muhle futhi uhloniphekile kumgogodla wakhe, uthembekile njengeLabrador futhi uzwela buthule (ungakuzwa nje). Kodwa uma engcwaba imizwa yakhe ngokujulile, uzodinga i-PhD ku-geology ukuze uyigumbe. Izindaba ezinhle, izazi zezinkanyezi zithi, ukulungele ngokuphelele uma kuziwa othandweni. Udinga nje ukumsiza ukuthi akhulume. Kanjani? Ngokuhlala unethemba, uvulekile futhi ungaguquguquki. Angase azame ukukusunduza noma akutshele ukuthi uyaphila noma akadingi usizo lwakho, kodwa ngiyakunxusa ukuba uqhubeke, kubhala uchwepheshe wobudlelwane uKristen Brown esihlokweni samadoda acindezelwe. Phela ubhekene nomkhuba womphakathi. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uzomcindezela noma amthukuthelise. Kusho ukuthi umfundise ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuthi unomhlane wakhe. Ukuthi angakwethemba ngokungafani nabanye abantu kulo mhlaba. Ukuthi ubona kokubili amandla akhe nobuthakathaka bakhe futhi uyamthanda ngokufanayo.
Uma ushade ne-daredevil
Uthanda ukuthi akasabi, u-extroverted, uyaphana futhi uyazenzakalela. Uhlale ebheka ohlangothini olukhanyayo (umama wakho uthi yingoba ufaka izimpumputhe). Kodwa uyakukhulula endaweni yakho yokunethezeka futhi akukhuthaze ukuba wenze izinto ezifana nokutshuza emanzini, ukutshuza emanzini noma ungene esivumelwaneni se-Airbnb ngaphandle kokuhlola izithenjwa eziningi. Yiqiniso, kunomugqa omuhle phakathi kokuthatha ingozi enempilo nokunganaki. Uma ikusasa lakho—lezezimali, uchwepheshe, lomndeni—lihlanganiswe nomuntu odlala umdlalo oyingozi, kukuwe ukuthi wenze izinyathelo zokuphepha. Noma, ungazama ukufana naye kakhulu. Uma sifuna uthando olwengeziwe, kumelwe sinqobe ukwesaba, kubhala usosayensi wezenhlalo u-Arthur C. Brooks e I-New York Times . Kufanele sizifake engozini ukuze sithole imiklomelo emikhulu yothando. Khohlwa ukuhlola-ukushayela ubudlelwano iminyaka eyishumi, noma ukucinga othile ofanelana ngokuphelele ongase afane nengane yakini. Uthando kufanele luthuse kancane ngoba aluqiniseki ... Isibindi sisho ukuzwa ukwesaba ukwaliwa nokulahlekelwa kodwa ukuphishekela uthando noma kunjalo.
