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Kudala, kwakukhona le ntombazane eyayinamahloni, futhi ekhuthele. Isifiso sakhe esikhulu bekuwukuya ekolishi enze ucwaningo ezifundweni zakhe. Kepha, umndeni wakhe wawungaphilile kahle futhi kwakudingeka ukuthi onge iminyaka eminingi ngaphambi kokuba iphupho lakhe lifezeke.
Ngemuva kokuthi abhalise ekolishi, kwakungeyona into ethokozisayo kwisayensi eyayimlindile, kepha uthando.
Uthando lwalunamandla kakhulu, amagagasi amkhukulisa ibanga elide ukusuka ogwini ngaphambi kokuthi avele ngokwanele, amaphupho akhe ayephephezela esuka ogwini.
Kulesi simo angenzenjani, alahle uthando noma amaphupho akhe?
Lokhu kungahle kungabi okukhulu kakhulu kepha isimo sibhekene nabaningi bethu. Abanye abantu bawalahlile amaphupho abo ngenkathi abanye belahla uthando lwabo.
Kepha, bambalwa abahambe lokho kulinganisa intambo phakathi kwabo bobabili futhi ekugcineni babe namaphupho abo nothando lwabo oluqhakaza engadini yomphefumulo wabo.
Ukulinganisa ubudlelwano nezifundo akuyona into ehlekisayo. Kudinga ukuzinikela. Kokubili kudinga isikhathi sakho nokuzinikela kwakho ukuze ukhule futhi uthele izithelo ozifunile. Futhi, kungaphumelela kuphela uma usebudlelwaneni nomuntu oqonda uthando lwakho lolwazi nothando lwabo.
Nayi eminye imibono yokuphatha ubudlelwano nezifundo zenu ndawonye.
Ingabe kufanelekile ukukhathazeka?
Lo ngumbuzo wokuqala okufanele uwuphendule lapho ulinganisa ubudlelwano nesikole. Umbuzo wangempela odinga impendulo eyiqiniso ekugcineni kwakho. Izifundo zinengcindezi kanjalo nobudlelwano. Ngakho-ke, uma kungesona esingathí sina, inketho engcono ukubalekela ubudlelwano. Futhi uma kuyinto ebucayi kuzodingeka ulwe ngokufuna kwakho futhi udinga ukunqoba yomibili.
Udinga ukusebenza kanzima ngempela ukuze bobabili babe nakho.
Izifundo ezihlanganisiwe
Ithiphu eyodwa yokuphatha ubudlelwano nezifundo ukusebenzisa isikhathi kumtapo wezincwadi nomlingani wakho noma kwenye indawo lapho nobabili ningazinika khona isikhathi enisifunayo nenze nezifundo zenu. Yebo! Ukutadisha okuhlangene nomlingani wakho kusho ukuthi uzowenza umsebenzi wakho ngenkathi nichitha isikhathi esengeziwe ndawonye.
Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi
Lokhu kungenye into okufanele uyifunde ngenkathi ulawula ubudlelwano nezifundo.
Setha isikhathi sezifundo nesikhathi sokuthandana. Namathela esimisweni sakho. Letha umlingani wakho nakulolu hlelo. Lokhu kuzokusiza ekuxazululeni ngazo zombili. Lokhu ngeke kwanelise ukoma kwakho kokuba nothando lwakho kuphela kepha kuzokunika nesikhathi sokunqoba amaphupho akho. Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi kuyisidingo kulesi simo njengoba kuyisikhathi esingathatha izikhathi kude nawe futhi nesokunikeza isikhathi esanele sokuba nomuntu omthandayo.
Isikhathi sokuthembela futhi wenze ukuphathwa kwesikhathi esifanele futhi uzoklonyeliswa ngesikhathi ekugcineni.
Isikhathi sezivivinyo
Isikhathi sezivivinyo singaba sibi kakhulu ngenkathi kulinganiswa ubudlelwano nesikole. Nobabili kudingeka nidele okwengeziwe ngalesi sikhathi futhi nilangazelele ukuphela kwezivivinyo lapho nizokwazi ukugubha khona.
Ngalesi sikhathi unganciphisa amahora wokuchitha isikhathi nomunye futhi ugxile kakhulu ezifundweni zakho. Lokhu kuzonikhomba ukuthi nibe ndawonye ngemuva kwalokho njengoba nobabili ngabe senizuze imigomo yenu ezifundweni futhi manje sekuyisikhathi sokufeza amahora wokwenza uthando omunye nomunye. Ungalunqoba uthando lwakho ngemuva kwezivivinyo. Kepha ukwenza okuphambene kuzokuholela wena nomlingani wakho ekungafezekini nakho.
Ukuzikhuza
Udinga ukuziqeqesha ngokuzikhuza lapho ulinganisa ubudlelwano nesikole. Ubudlelwano bungawaqeda amaphupho akho kepha uma uyalwa futhi wazi ukuthi ulawula kanjani okufunayo, ulungile. Amaphupho emini angaba izitha ezinonya uma ulungiselela izivivinyo zakho.
Ukuzikhuza kubaluleke kakhulu futhi ngaphandle kwakho, uzowabhidliza amaphupho akho nothando lwakho. Yenza nomlingani wakho akwazi ukuzikhuza.
Izinto ezincane
Lapho usufunde ukuphatha ubudlelwano nezifundo, uyabona ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi nichithe isikhathi ndawonye kunendlela ebenivame ukuchitha ngayo isikhathi. Zama imibono emisha ezokwenza ubudlelwano bakho bufinyelele ezindaweni eziphakeme futhi unikeze i-vibe yokujabula.
Lezi izindlela onganqoba ngazo amaphupho akho futhi ungajabula ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ungakujabulela kokubili ngasikhathi sinye kuphela lapho uhamba endleleni nakho konke lokhu engqondweni yakho. Kunzima kepha akunakwenzeka neze ukuthi ukwenze.
Uma unezivivinyo zakho futhi ukhathazekile ngobudlelwano bakho kuzodingeka ulandele lezi zinyathelo futhi uphumelele ngokwengeziwe.
Uma uzwa sengathi le ndatshana ikusizile, sicela usho imicabango yakho esigabeni sokuphawula ngezansi.
Halala!