Ezweni lethu eliya ngokuya liba ku-inthanethi, kungase kube nzima kubazali ukulinganisela phakathi kokugcina izingane ziphephile ku-inthanethi nokuzivumela inkululeko yokuhlola. Kungakho uFareedah Shaheed ( @cyberfareedah ) yasungulwa Njengokuthi , inkampani yezemfundo yezokuphepha ku-inthanethi esiza abazali nezingane ukuthi basungule umbono wokuphepha kuqala ku-inthanethi, kuyilapho futhi ibasiza ukuthi baxhumane.
Ekukhuleni kwakhe, uFareedah wayethanda imidlalo yevidiyo , futhi wayevame ukuzithola esezingosini zezingxoxo eziku-inthanethi lapho ayewukuphela kowesifazane omnyama oyiMuslim. Ngangiba segumbini noma ngixoxe ngezwi nabanye abafana abangu-30 noma abangu-50 futhi kwakuyimina ngedwa owesifazane lapho, uyatshela. Ku Ukwazi . Kwangivuthwa ngokushesha futhi ngabona nokuthi abantu abaningi babenokusabela okuhlukile kimina ngingowesifazane Omnyama noma ngingowesifazane ongumSulumane.
Manje, uFareedah udweba kuye ebuntwaneni ukuzizwisa ukusiza abazali bazulazule ezindaweni eziku-inthanethi nezingane zabo. Ngakho-ke namuhla, ngisebenzisa into efanayo lapho ngikhuluma naye abazali . Ngiyabatshela ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami nokuthi kungani izingane zabo zisekulezo zindawo ngisho noma ziye zaba nokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle, uyachaza. Sonke siyathanda ukuxhumana kwabantu. Sonke siyathanda ukuzizwa sifunwa, ukuba ngabathile.
U-Fareedah waqala i-Sekuva hhayi nje ukufundisa abazali ngokuphepha ku-inthanethi, kodwa ukuze abafundise ukuthi bangasondelana kanjani nezingane zabo ku-inthanethi. Into enkulu engikholelwa ukuthi ukuxhumana phezu kwezilawuli, ngakho-ke izilawuli zabazali futhi ukuqapha kwabazali kungase kube nendawo, awufuni ukuthi kube yilokho okugxilwe kukho, etshela In The Know. Ukugxila kufanele kube ukwakha uxhumano.
Esikhundleni sokuvele bagade izingane zabo I-inthanethi imisebenzi, u-Fareedah uncoma ukuthi abazali babambe iqhaza ezintweni ezithandwa izingane zabo. Ngakho, isibonelo sokwakha uxhumano sidlala a umdlalo nezingane zakho, noma uma ingane yakho ithanda ngempela a izinkundla zokuxhumana akhawunti, bese eyilandela futhi axhumane nabo kuyo, uyachaza. Lokho kwakha ukwethembana nobuqotho, ngakho uvumelana phakathi kwenjabulo nenkululeko abayifunayo kanye nokuphepha nokuvikeleka abakudingayo.
UFareedah ufuna ukusiza abazali bavikele izingane ezilwaneni ezidla ezinye futhi abaduni , kodwa futhi ufuna abazali baqaphele izinsongo ezingabonakali kangako, njengomthelela ongaba nawo inkundla yezokuxhumana ekuzethembeni kwezingane. Usongo olukhulu ngaphandle kwezilwane ezidla ezinye kanye nabaduni bezingane ku-inthanethi, ngokweqiniso, yilo impilo yengqondo , uyachaza. Imvamisa izingane eziningi zibheka ama-akhawunti abanye abantu ku-Instagram noma i-TikTok bese zizwa sengathi zinempilo engcono, noma zinhle kakhulu noma ziphumelele kakhulu, ngakho kuba nomthelela endleleni izingane ezizibona ngayo nempilo yazo nomsebenzi wazo. , futhi lokho kungenye yezinsongo ezinkulu kakhulu.
UFareedah wethemba ukuthi uSekuva uzoba yinsiza abazali abangaphendukela kuyo ngokuphindaphindiwe, njengobudlelwano bengane yabo I-inthanethi iyaguquguquka. U-Sekuva empeleni usho umthombo wolwazi lwezokuphepha ongalokhu ubuyela kuwo, uyachaza. Lokho kuyisisekelo sebhizinisi lami, into abantu abangahlala bebuyela kuyo ukuze bathole ukondliwa kanye nendawo ephephile.
Eseyingane, u-Fareedah wayengavamile ukuzizwa emelwe ku-inthanethi, futhi kwakungavamile ukuba ahlangane nabanye besifazane abangama-Black Muslim. Manje, uFareedah unethemba lokuthi ukusebenza kwakhe noSekuva kuzokhuthaza abanye abazizwa bemelwe ukumelwa futhi kubabonise ukuthi bangaphumelela. Njengengane, uma ubheka isikrini, lapho upheqa ngokusebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana, uma ubheka ku-Instagram, uma ubona umuntu obukeka sengathi uyakwenza, okukuthinta ngokujulile, uyachaza. Ngithemba ukuthi kukhona intombazanyana eNsundu ebuka le vidiyo futhi iyabona futhi izwa ukuthi nayo ingayenza.
