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Buyini ubudlelwano bendoda yowesifazane uma bungahlushwa ubandlululo? Ukubandlululwa kobulili kungezinye zezinto ezicatshangelwayo ezijwayelekile mayelana nabobulili obuhlukile esibambelela kuzo futhi sizisebenzise ukuze zisetshenziswe esikhathini esizayo. Noma nini lapho i-ego yethu isongelwa yilunga lobulili obuhlukile, imvamisa oshade naye noma isithandwa sethu sibuyela emuva kulezi zinkolelo zobulili ukuze sizivikele bese umzabalazo uyaqhubeka.Lokhu akuyona into entsha kepha yisiko eselinikezwe izizukulwane zethu ngokhokho bethu nomama. Uma sihlaziya ngokuhlakanipha, iningi lezinkinga zobudlelwano obujwayelekile livela kulezi zinkolelo zobulili ezigxiliswe kakhulu ebuntwini bethu. Nayi eminye imbandlululo yobulili evame kakhulu ukugwema ebuhlotsheni bendoda yowesifazane.
Izinhlobo zobulili ezifanele ukugwema ebudlelwaneni bendoda nowesifazane:
- Akakwazi ukuthola ngaphezulu kwami.Futhi kungani kufanele kube njalo? Kufanele ujabule uma enza kanjalo, kuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo wamahlombe akho. Yebo i-ego yakho yesilisa isongelwa yilokhu kodwa ihlakaniphile. Ukuthi yimali engakanani engenayo okubalulekile ekugcineni.
- Akakwazi ukupheka:bese umfundisa ukwenza. Ukube izakhi zofuzo zesilisa bezinqunyelwe ukuthi zingaphenduli kumakhono okupheka ngabe bonke abapheki bezinkanyezi abahlanu abaphezulu bekungeke kube ngamadoda! Abesifazane banezinto ezikhona ekhishini kodwa ntombazane engenangqondo kusizani lokho kutholakala uma kukwenza wenze wonke umsebenzi. Khululeka isikhashana bese umenza enze umsebenzi onzima noma ngabe uyaxaka.
- Akakwazi ukushayela:Ya kwesokudla! Kukhona abesifazane abagijima abashayeli bezimoto manje. Kungenzeka abe nokwesaba noma ukwethuka noma imiqondo yakhe ingacaci. Mqeqeshe ukushayela. Kepha yini ekufanele? Kunenzuzo ebaluleke kakhulu ongayithola uma umngane wakho wentombazane noma unkosikazi eshayela kahle. Ukhululekile ukudakwa kuwo wonke amaphathi futhi uzokushayela ekhaya!
- Ulindele ukuthi ngenze ukuzinikela emsebenzini:akulungile kodwa ngakho-ke. Ungamxhaphaza ngakho. Ebudlelwaneni besifazane besifazane, owesifazane kulindeleke njalo ukuthi azidele ngomsebenzi. Ake sithi uthola umsebenzi phesheya, kulindeleke ukuthi ushiye owakho umlandele. Kepha buyisela emuva isimo futhi ngeke! Kepha lokho kulungile, kungani ufuna ukuthatha isikweletu sakhe. Uma ufuna ngempela ukumfundisa isifundo yeka umsebenzi wakho bese uchitha imali yakhe kokuqukethwe yinhliziyo yakho. Lokho kufanele kumfundise okuthile noma nakho ngokuba 'yilungu elihola kakhulu' lomndeni.
Lapho udlala ummeli kasathane ebudlelwaneni besifazane besifazane nazo zonke izinkinga zabo kanye nama-nuances amancane, kufana nokubuka umdlalo wethenisi phakathi kwabaphikisi ababili abafanayo. Kodwa-ke, amahlaya ahlukanisiwe ngaso sonke isikhathi kungcono ukuba nobudlelwano obuvuthiwe ngabe lolu hlobo lobandlululo aluzange luboniswe.
