Zingaki Izimpelesi Eziningi Kakhulu?

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Ngithembisene umshado ezinyangeni ezimbili ezedlule, futhi ekugcineni sesiqalile ukuhlela umshado wethu ngobuqotho. Ngicacile ezinqumweni eziningi okufanele sizenze, kodwa ngokweqiniso ANGIbambekile embuzweni womakoti. Ngiyazifuna ngempela izintombi, kodwa zingaki eziningi kakhulu? Uma ngicela bonke abangani bami abakhulu kanye nomndeni kanye nabazala nayo yonke leyo jazz, ngineminyaka engu-14. Iqembu lesoka lami liza cishe iminyaka engu-10. Lokho abantu abaningi abengeziwe abangu-24 ezithombeni futhi basukume nathi...ingabe kuyahlanya lokho? Ngisize ngenze lesi sinqumo!

Ah, yebo, umbuzo wakudala: Bangaki omakoti abaningi kakhulu? Besicabanga ukuthi abantu abaningi bazoba nokuthatha okushisayo kulokhu, ngakho-ke saqonda kwethu PureWow Instagram abalaleli futhi bavotele abalandeli bethu…

…Futhi izimpendulo zahlukahluka kakhulu. Kwakukhona ama-outliers: Noma yikuphi umakoti omunye abaningi kakhulu, kuyilapho omunye ephawula ukuthi, empeleni, akukho umkhawulo. Kodwa isilinganiso sokuphendula sasicacile njengosuku: 7.17 omakoti. Ngakho-ke, uma wenza lesi sinqumo ngokusekelwe ekubalulekeni kwezibalo, izintombi ezingu-0.17 ezingaphezu kwesikhombisa ziyiphuzu lokuphothula.

Kodwa njengoba sithanda abafundi bethu, sinomuzwa wokuthi ngeke usenze lesi sinqumo ngokusekelwe ekutholeni abantu abaningi. Ungesabi, silethe iziphathimandla ezithile ukuze zisisize sikuphendulele.

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Ubani ongcono ukubuza lo mbuzo ukwedlula umakoti ochwepheshe? UJen Glantz, umsunguli we Umakoti Wokuqashwa futhi Ekugcineni uMlobokazi , uye wenza umsebenzi wokuba impelesi—ngokungathí sina, abantu baqasha uGlantz ukuba ajoyine iphathi yabo yomakoti futhi asize ukuhlela, ukusiza nokusekela umakoti.

Ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe, uGlantz usikhombe iqhinga lekheshi. Kulapho ucabanga khona ngokuthi empeleni ungafuna ukuvaleleka nobani ekheshini, ngoba uma unovalo, ulambile futhi udinga ukunyakaziswa okuhle eduze kwakho, uGlantz uthi, labo ngabantu okufanele babe yizimpelesi zakho. Uma lokho kungabantu abayishumi, kulungile. Uma kungabantu abahlanu, kuhle. Akukhona ngenombolo, kodwa mayelana neqembu labantu abenza uzizwe uphephile futhi ujabule.

Noma kunjalo, uGlantz uxwayisa ngoMthombo, ngangiyisimemo sabo somakoti. Ngoba nje othile unawe ephathini yakhe uyakwenza hhayi kusho ukuthi kufanele ube nazo kweyakho. Kodwa uma uqhubeka nokufika kuleyo ndawo efanayo, buyisela ingqondo yakho ekheshini. Njengokuthi, kuthiwani uma ubambekile lapho izinsuku ? Kukwenza ucabange, huh?

Ukuthatha komqeqeshi we-Etiquette

Kulungile, kodwa kuthiwani ngemikhuba yesimo? Sikhulume nochwepheshe bezokuziphatha u-Myka Meier, umbhali we Indlela Yokuziphatha Yesimanje Yenziwe Yalula , owavumelana noGlantz ngokuthi ngempela ayikho imithetho ekhawulela usayizi wephathi yomakoti. Nokho, wacabanga i-equation ukuze agcine usayizi wephathi ulawuleka: Inombolo yakho yezimpelesi akufanele ibe ngaphezu kokuphindwe kabili kwenani labakhaphi. Ngabakhaphi abane, i-max yakho ingaba izimpelesi eziyisishiyagalombili, Ngale ndlela, umkhwenyana ngamunye uzobe ephelezela izimpelesi ezimbili, eyodwa engalweni ngayinye, okuyinto enhle kakhulu. Futhi uma iqembu likhula ngendlela engalawuleki, u-Meier uphakamisa ukuhlonipha oseduze kwakho nomthandayo ngokubanika izindima zomcimbi, njengokufunda noma ukukhanyiswa kwamakhandlela.

Ukuthatha Umhleli Womshado

UJennifer Brisman , umhleli womshado waseNew York, uthola lo mbuzo kakhulu. Nasi umsebenzi awunikeza amaklayenti akhe: Ngiwatshela ukuthi acabange ngokuthi ubani ngempela oyingxenye yakhe lokhu uhambo—ngaphandle komngane wakho womshado, kunjalo. Ngokwalokho Brisman, abanye abantu ezimpilweni zethu bayajabulisa futhi bayamangalisa, kodwa abanye babalulekile kulokho esiyikho nesifuna ukuba yikho. Zizungeze ngombuthano wokuzivikela nothando olindele ukuthi lusazoba khona iminyaka eyi-15 phansi komugqa. Gwema ukucabanga ngabangane bakho ohlwini lwezikhundla, uyagcizelela, ngoba lokho kungaba yingozi futhi kushaqise. Futhi njengoba sonke sazi, idrama enobuthi yinto yokugcina noma ubani ayifunayo ngosuku lwabo lomshado. Futhi khumbula: Abangane bakho abajabulisayo nabahle bazojabulisa futhi bahle kakhulu uma belondoloza amandla abo endaweni yokudansa.

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Yize kungekho ubuncane bephathi yomakoti noma ubuningi—uziro ulungile ngokuphelele futhi u-49 upholile futhi (uma uthanda ukuxazulula amaphupho amabi okusebenza)—ochwepheshe bethu futhi izethameli zombili zibonakala zisho ukuthi cishe kunomkhawulo kulokho wena , umakoti, uyakwazi. Ngomunye umakoti, i-merrier eyengeziwe. Kokunye, ukuphatha abantu abangaphezu koyedwa ngaphandle kwabo ngalolo suku kukhulu kakhulu. Kufanele unqume ukuthi ukuxabana nezintombi eziyi-14 kanye nabakhaphi abayishumi bengoduso yakho kuwufanele yini lokho. Ingabe uyawathanda amandla esiphithiphithi eqembu elikhulu, elithanda ukuzijabulisa? Noma ingabe ukhathazekile ukuthi amandla asendle angenza izinto zibe nobuthi? Ingabe unabo abangani besondlo esiphezulu abazokwenza ukulungisa ikhanda libe buhlungu? Noma ingabe wonke ama-buds akho afana nezinyoni ezincane ezitshiyozayo namagundane asizayo I-Cinderella Gqoka?

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