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Ngaphambi kukaMashi 2020 - khumbula Ngaphambi Kwezikhathi Ze-COVID - ngenkathi uzwa igama elithi elope, kungenzeka ukuthi wathwebula umlingisi ongeyena u-Elvis wesonto laseVegas. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, i-elopements ingaba yi-chic kakhulu futhi ngempela isinqumo esihlakaniphile—ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa empilweni nokuphepha phakathi kwalolu bhubhane. Ngokungeziwe ekubeni yi-COVID pivot enengqondo, ukukhulumela phansi akusho ukuthi kufanele ubhuntshise uhlu lwakho lwezifiso zomshado. Ngokwesibonelo, thatha imishado emangalisayo kaRaleigh, North Carolina, uJenny noRob abasanda kushada. Yize lo mbhangqwana uthembisene umshado futhi washada ngaphambi kwe-COVID, isinqumo sabo sokuhlukana sisazozwakala emhlabeni we-coronavirus. Okokuqala, babengenaso isithakazelo sokungena ezikweletini zomshado njengoba kwakwenze abangane abaningi ngaphambi kwabo. Ngakho-ke besebenzisa inethiwekhi yabo ephanayo yabathandekayo, laba ababili bahlela umshado omncane we-Pinterest-perfect mini egcekeni labo, ogcwele umhlobiso omangalisayo we-DIY kanye nomcimbi wangempela nokwamukela.

Iseluleko sikamakoti? Zicabange, ‘Ngifunani?’ Cha, empeleni, ‘Ngifunani?’ Uma uthanda isiko, ligcine. Uma ungakwenzi, yeqe! Kunenkululeko enkulu uma unquma ukwenza izinto ngendlela wena ufuna ngempela, kunokuba ucabange ukuthi kufanele. USIZI. Nansi indlela uJenny apakishe ngayo wonke amaphupho akhe omshado wokugcina endaweni yokukhuluma engabizi ezothinta imibhangqwana esafuna ukugubha uthando lwabo ngesikhathi se-COVID.

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UMTHETHOZITHOMBE

Ukubamba umlingo wosuku kwakuyinto ehamba phambili kaJenny kanye nezindleko ezingaxoxiswana. Ngakho-ke, cishe sonke isabelomali saqonda kumthwebuli wezithombe wakhe omangalisayo UDanielle Riley (,000 ngephakeji ye-elopement). Ngemva kokubona isithombe esingenhla, sonke siyavumelana, akunjalo? Okuhle kakhulu. I-Splurge. Njalo. Futhi-njenganoma yibaphi abathengisi-dlula imihlahlandlela yezempilo nezokuphepha (okungukuthi ukugqoka imaski ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi uhambisane nemithetho yokuqhelelana komphakathi) yomcimbi wakho (ngokubhala kungcono kakhulu) futhi uqiniseke ukuthi bakulungele futhi bazimisele ukuyithobela. .

I-ATTIRE

Lapho kuziwa endabeni yokugqoka, uJenny waqala waya ezinkampanini ezimbalwa zomshado—kodwa akakwazanga ukuzithethelela. Ngemuva koku-oda izingubo zokhiye ophansi ezimbalwa azozama ukuzigqoka ekhaya, wagcina esekhethe ukushaywa umoya, i-boho white frock. Ngibonise uMama Wakho . Njengesengezo esijabulisayo sezithombe, umama kaJenny uhlobise ijazi ledenim eliyintandokazi yendodakazi yakhe ngezinhlamvu ezimhlophe zevinyl ezichaza ukuthi isanda kushada. Futhi ngezinwele nezimonyo, umngane kaJenny owazi ngobuhle waphatha ukusa njengesipho somshado esimnandi. (Psst: Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umdwebi wakho wezimonyo kanye nomdwebi wezinwele babe nolwazi lwakamuva ngezinqubo zokuphepha njengoba uhlobo lomsebenzi wabo ludinga ukuthi basondele kakhulu kuwe.)

IZIMBALI

Ukuqhakaza kukaJenny kudinga izimbali eziluhlaza okotshani kuye, umgijimi wetafula obekwe isicaba kanye nama-swags okuhlobisa i-altare. Lapha, uJenny wasebenzisa inethiwekhi yakhe ngobuhlakani: Umngane kanina wezimbali wamvumela ukuthi athenge uhlaza ngezindleko, futhi uJenny wabe ese-DIY'd amalungiselelo akhe, esebenzisa amabhodi e-Pinterest njengogqozi.

IZIHLALO ZOMCIMBI

Siyayithanda i-chapel yangaphandle efudumele ne-whimsical u-Jenny eyakhiwe ngezihlalo ezihlanganayo nezihambisanayo. Ukuqashwa kwephathi ye-Boho-chic, uyabuza? Cha, baletha isethi yabo yokudlela ngaphandle...futhi bathi abazali babo balethe ezabo zosuku ngokunjalo. Futhi emishadweni ye-COVID, zinike isikhathi sokunquma ukubekwa kwezihlalo ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi izivakashi zakho—nawe—ziphephile futhi zinethezekile. Kungumqondo omuhle ukwaba izindawo njengesizinda sasekhaya ukuze izivakashi zakho zigcine ibanga lomphakathi.

I-altare

Kuyavunywa, uJenny noRob babenendawo enhle kakhulu yokusingatha indaba yabo yasemuva. Leli chibi, i-lattice arbor lase likhona kakade, ngakho-ke okwakudingeka uJenny akwenze kwakuwukuqhakaza ngohlaza, ama-swags elineni kanye nemininingwane ye-rustic efana namabhodlela nezinhlamvu zakudala (eziningi zazo okwakuyizikolo ze-Goodwill!).

IZINHLELO

Izimpahla zephepha eziqondene nawe zaziyisici esibalulekile kuJenny, naphezu kwezinkinga zesabelomali, ngakho waba nezinhlelo ezihlakaniphile futhi eziklanyelwe kanye nezimemezelo zokukhuluma, wabe eseziphrinta ku-cardstock emsebenzini. Qaphela amasaka amancane amhlophe abekwe kuzo zonke izihlalo...

I-AISLE SWAGS

Ungabheka lokhu kunakekela emininingwaneni? Ukuze agqokise futhi ahlanganise izihlalo ezingafaneleki, u-Jenny wabophela izixha ze-lavender ezomisiwe esihlalweni sezikhala nge-twine. (Zombili izinto ezisetshenziswayo zazi-odwe ngobuningi e-Amazon.)

UPHAWU

Manje kuthiwani uma unedlanzana lezivakashi nendawo eqondile? Sithanda indlela u-Jenny ahlukanise ngayo isigaba ngasinye sokushada kwakhe ngeziqondiso ezithandekayo zopende webhodi lebhodi. Iya emikhosini...

I-LAVEDER TOSS

Ukugubha isimemezelo sendoda nomfazi! Izikhwama zikakotini ezincane ezimhlophe kanye ne-lavender evulekile, eyomile bekuyi-DIY'd ngenhloso eyodwa yokuthwebula lesi sikhathi somlingo.

ISIDLO SOKUDLA

Ingabe bekukhona isidlo esimnandi sokwamukela? Yebo lalikhona. Ukwamukela kwabo okusondelene kwabangu-22 bekunakekelwa ngendlela yomndeni indawo yokudlela eyintandokazi yabashadikazi yase-Mexico...ngama- ngekhanda ngalinye. Nikeza ukuhlelwa kokudla okunye ukunaka okwengeziwe emininingwaneni njengoba kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile ekugcineni izinto ziphephile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlu lwakho lwezivakashi luncane kangakanani, kufanele wazi kahle ukuthi ukudla kuzokwenziwa futhi kulethwe kanjani kubavakashi bakho ukuze uqinisekise ukuphepha kwawo wonke umuntu.

'INDAWO' YOKWAMUKELA

Yinhle kangakanani le sethaphu yesidlo sakusihlwa sepikiniki? Ukuze benze itafula, u-Jenny no-Rob bathenga ishidi elicinene leplywood e-Home Depot base belibeka phansi phezu kwamabhulokhi e-cinder. Izingubo zokulala zazibolekwe kubangani ngempela, futhi imicamelo yokujikijela yathengwa emisha kwa-IKEA ngama- lilinye. Ngokuqondene nalo mbhede okhazimulayo wezibani ezibenyezelayo? Bazicele kusenesikhathi, ebhukwini labo.

IZITHANDO

Ukuhalalisela okuthathu ngemininingwane yomuntu siqu. U-Jenny ungumuntu ozibiza ngekhofi futhi uqoqa izinkomishi kulo lonke uhambo lwakhe. Lokho kuhambisana neqiniso lokuthi umfowabo unesitolo sekhofi, kwakusho ukuthi indawo yokuphuza ikhofi yezivakashi lapho ifika yayibalulekile. (Yebo, lokho akulona iqiniso ngempela okwamanje—kodwa hey, ukudla okucatshangwayo!) U-Jenny waklama ilogo futhi izinkomishi zekhofi zaphindeka kabili njengenjabulo yomshado ezivakashini.

I-TABLEWARE

Lesi sithombe setafula elifanele i-Insta nakho bekungeke kube nokukhathalela kakhulu izindleko. Izimbiza zamasoni zathengwa ngobuningi e-Walmart, futhi amapuleti nezinto zokusika ziyalahlwa (!), enye i-Amazon ehlakaniphile etholwe nguJenny.

I-DECOR

Lunesithombe esingakanani lolu donga lwesici? Iqiniso elijabulisayo: Indwangu yokudonsa engu- kadadewabo kaJenny onekhono ayidweba ngesandla. Noma ubani omunye umuzwa kulahliwe ngakho konke lokhu kuthinta inhliziyo?

I-DESSERT

Okunye ukuxhumana kwenethiwekhi: Lawa maphaya amajikijolo amancanyana ayigugu, asebenze njengekhekhe lomshado lombhangqwana. Umbhaki esitolo sekhofi somfowabo ka-Jenny wababhaxabula bafika ku-0. I-dessert ye-serve-serve iyindlela ehlakaniphe kakhulu yokushaya wonke umuntu ngaphandle kokwesaba ukungcoliswa.

UKUDANSA

Esiteji sakhe sokudansa, u-Jenny wahlenga umata omkhulu, okhohliwe wasePheresiya endaweni engaphansi yomngane womndeni. Umbhangqwana ube nomdanso wokuqala odingekayo ndawonye ngaphambi kokumema izihambeli ukuthi zizodlala nazo. Umfowabo kaJenny omncane ube nelungelo lokusebenzisa i-DJ'ing phezu kwesistimu yomsindo we-Bluetooth. (Kuyathandeka kakhulu.) Ukuze uthole ukukhululeka kwe-COVID, cabanga ukuhlanganisa yonke indawo yokudansa noma ukuhlukanisa kahle izingxenye zayo ngeteyiphu emhlophe noma emnyama ukuze ugcine izivakashi zihlukene futhi ziphephile.

UKUKHANYA

U-Jenny uthole lezi ziphunzi zesihlahla ezimangalisayo (ezasebenza njengezisekelo zamakhandlela akhe) mahhala endaweni yemakethe ye-Facebook. Amakhandlela ngokwawo avela ku-IKEA, futhi amavazi wonke ayebolekwe ngosuku kubangane abahlukahlukene namalungu omndeni.

ABATHENGISI BAKAJENNY

Umthwebuli wezithombe: UDanielle Riley
Indawo yokudlela: Nana Taco
Gqoka: Ngibonise uMama Wakho

THUMELA

Sizosonga izinto ngokusho lokhu: Ukukhuluma yedwa akusona isizathu sokudela yonke imininingwane yomshado ethandekayo oyiphinele futhi Waphinwa iminyaka. Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sparkler egcekeni lakho elingemuva? Isihogo ku-yebo.

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