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Iyini incazelo yothando? Kungaba yini okungalungile ukusho ukuthi ngamunye wethu unencazelo ehlukile kukho? Uthando luphethe izincazelo ezahlukahlukene zawo wonke umuntu futhi kuncike kakhulu kulokho esihlangabezana nakho. Yinye into eqinisekile - kuyasithatha ukusibekela amafu ayisishiyagalolunye. Isibhakabhaka siba luhlaza okotshani, utshani buluhlaza, imimoya iyaqubuka futhi ihlebezele ezindlebeni, amaconsi emvula ashaya inothi lomculo kanye nemvula yenjabulo evela kuzo zonke izinhlangothi. Futhi konke lokhu kwenzeka kuleyo ngxenyeni yomzuzwana lapho ubona ukuthi uyathandana, lowo mzuzu wokuqala kakhulu kukuthinta.
Kangakanani Uthando Olungaguqula Ubumuncu Bobudlelwano
Kodwa ingabe konke lokhu kuyenzeka lapho ubona umuntu othile? Ingabe uthando lapho ulubona okokuqala lungokoqobo noma alukho? Kunzima ukusho ukuthi uthando lwenzeka lapho uthi shazi kumuntu. Isikhathi sokuqala lapho sibona umuntu futhi sihlakulele umuzwa kusondele kakhulu ekukhangeni. Siqale sikhangwe ekubukekeni komuntu. Uthando yinto edlula ukubukeka. Ngokumane ubheke umuntu bese sithi siyathandana naloyo muntu kungaba ngumqondo oyindida kakhulu.
Kuthatha okuningi ukwazi umuntu futhi ubone ukuthi sikulungele ukuchitha impilo yethu yonke naloyo muntu oyedwa noma cha. Ukunquma ukwenza kanjalo lapho uqala ukuyibona kungaletha ukungabaza okuningi ngekusasa. Kukhona ama-plus amaningi kanye nama-minus ahlobene nalolu thando lokuqala lokubona.
Ngaphambi kokuthi sibheke ubuhle bothando ekuqaleni nje ake sibheke ezinye zezimpikiswano eziphikisana nalo olubuza ukuthi uthando olubonwayo lungokoqobo noma luyimbumbulu.
Ukuthatheka: Isikhathi sokuqala lapho sibheka umuntu kungukubonakala kuphela okusishayayo. Sidonseleka ekubukekeni komuntu futhi singazi lutho ngobuntu. Ukuwa ngokubukeka kufana nokuhehwa nokuthatheka. Uthando akwenzeki kalula kanjalo. Kuthatha okuningi kakhulu ukuzwa umuzwa wothando.
Akudingeki nibe nobumbano: Ungabheka umuntu bese ukhangwa. Ungahle ufune ukuba sebudlelwaneni nalowo muntu kepha uqinisekile ukuthi kukhona umuzwa ofanayo nakomunye umkhawulo? Umuzwa wakho ungaba nencazelo kuphela uma wazi ukuthi kuyavumelana.
Awazi lutho ngomuntu: Wazi kangakanani ngalomuntu othandana naye? Cishe akukho. Ezimweni ezinjalo ungasho kanjani ukuthi uyamthanda lowomuntu? Udinga ukwazi umuntu - okuhle kanye nezinto ezimbi - ukuthanda.
Ubudlelwano obufushane: Uhlangana nomuntu ushade! Buzohlala isikhathi esingakanani lobo buhlobo? Ngemuva kokushada niqala ukutholana. Kungahle kube nezinto ozithandayo ngomunye nomunye ngenkathi kungenzeka kube nezinto ongazithandi. Udinga ukwazana ngaphambi kokungena ebudlelwaneni obuzinikele.
Ngokuphikisana nazo zonke lezi zimpikiswano ezingezinhle zothando lapho uqala ukuzibona kunempikiswano eyodwa kuphela eyenzakalayo. Niyabonana, niyakhangana, nibe nothando futhi nithathe isinqumo sokuba ngabalingani impilo yonke. Futhi konke lokhu kwenzeka emizuzwini embalwa yokuqala yokuhlangana.
Izwi elijulile ngaphakathi kuwe likwenza ukholwe ukuthi usumtholile umlingani wakho womphefumulo. Kungumuzwa ohlangene ongathathi sikhathi ukuthuthuka. Uyazi ngokushesha ukuthi uthole lowo muntu okhethekile okulungele ukuhamba naye kuze kube sekupheleni kwalomhlaba. Lokhu kungenzeka noma ngasiphi isigaba sempilo futhi kungenzeka kakhulu ngezikhathi lapho ungakakulungeli khona.
Akulona iphutha ukusho ukuthi ukubona kuqala kungukukhanga nokuthatheka. Kepha uma lokhu kukhanga kokuqala kukhula kube uthando ngeke kube yiphutha ukusho ukuthi bekuluthando ekuqaleni kokubona. Ngakho-ke ungathini - ingabe uthando lapho ulubona okokuqala lungokoqobo noma alukho?
