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Uma ulapha, lokho kusikisela ukuthi awuqinisekile ngalokho indoda yakho ekufunayo ebudlelwaneni. Yebo, 'imigomo yobudlelwano indoda yakho ifunani ebudlelwaneni' imayelana nezifiso ezijulile zomuntu wakho ezivela ebudlelwaneni.
Izikhathi eziningi, sicabanga ukuthi uthando yilokho indoda ekulangazelelayo ebudlelwaneni. Kepha ukukhuluma iqiniso kunezinto eziningi ezibalulekile ngaphandle kothando ebudlelwaneni. Wonke umuntu wesilisa uyazifisa lezi futhi uma ungazinikeli ebudlelwaneni, khona-ke ubuhlobo buzophela.
Ufunani Owesifazane Kumuntu Wesilisa?
Inhliziyo idinga ikhaya, owesilisa udinga ubudlelwano, owesifazane udinga isithandwa, ubudlelwano budinga izithandani futhi ukufeza bonke laba bantu ababili bangene ebudlelwaneni bese beqedela konke okudingekayo. Into ngobudlelwano yindlela osebenzisana ngayo futhi wenze ngayo kubo. Uma kunguwe onikeza imizamo futhi usabona indoda yakho ingeneme ebudlelwaneni, kuzodingeka wazi ngalezi zinhloso zobudlelwano indoda ezifunayo ebudlelwaneni.
Izinhloso Zobudlelwano Yini Umuntu Wakho Ayifunayo Ebudlelwaneni?
1. Ukubambisana hhayi ubunikazi
Indoda ayifuni nje ubudlelwano ngenxa yayo, ifuna umlingani ezohlala nayo. Lapho abantu ababili bengena ebudlelwaneni, baba ngabalingani, bayalalelana futhi bayayazisa imibono yomunye nomunye, ikakhulukazi uma isinda ezintweni ezinkulu empilweni. Ozakwethu baqala ukuxhasana futhi abadilizelani.
Ngokubambisana, owesilisa nowesifazane abathintekayo kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi umuntu oyedwa akufanele anikele ngenkathi omunye enza konke lokhu njengobudlelwano beproto co-op. Lokhu kungasetshenziswa kunoma yini ekwenzeni umzamo wokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye ukuhlanganyela umsebenzi wasendlini lapho wena nomlingani wakho nihlala ndawonye. Indoda ihlale ilangazelela ubudlelwano obunjalo lapho ibona khona umfazi wayo njengozakwethu impilo yayo yonke.
2. Ukuxhumana
Indoda yakho ifuna ukwakha ubudlelwano nawe lapho nobabili nixhumana khona mayelana nayo yonke into eyodwa ngokuningiliziwe. Uthando olugeleza ngokuxhumana lumgcina enentshisekelo ngokwengeziwe. Amabhuloho wezokuxhumana anezikhala eziningi futhi indoda yakho izama njalo ukusondela kuwe ngosizo lokuxhumana. Ukukhulumisana okuhle ngokuqinisekile kuhlobene nokukhula ngokomzwelo kwalabo bobabili ebudlelwaneni. Ukugcina indoda yakho ijabule ebudlelwaneni, kufanele ube uxhumana njalo. Kuyimpumelelo ebudlelwaneni bakho.
3. Ukuvuthwa Ngokomzwelo
Wonke umuntu wesilisa ufuna owesifazane ovuthiwe njengomlingani. Akekho ofuna intombazane engavuthiwe ngokomzwelo engavele idale ingcindezi ebudlelwaneni. Ukuqonda kufanele kube nokusebenza kahle kakhulu maqondana nokungavumelani okuthile, intombazane iyakwazi okufanele ikwenze kunokuhlala nje iziphathe ingakavuthwa. Ukuvuthwa okungokomzwelo kwendoda ebudlelwaneni kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma ufuna ukuthi indoda yakho ijabule, khona-ke udinga ukuthi uvuthwe ngokomoya.
4. Ukuphepha Kokubambisana
Yonke indoda ebudlelwaneni ifuna ukuqiniseka ngobudlelwano. Ukuphepha kokubumbana kubaluleke kakhulu kuye. Ukuzizwa uvikelekile ebudlelwaneni kubalulekile njalo kowesilisa nowesifazane abathintekayo. Ukuba nomlingani onokwethenjelwa nothembekile kusiza indoda ukuba ikhululeke ebudlelwaneni. Abafana abahlukile kunamantombazane uma kukhulunywa ngokufuna ukuphepha ebudlelwaneni futhi bahlala bekucela kumfazi wabo.
5. Ezothando Indlela Yakho
Wonke umuntu uthanda ukuthandana nomlingani wakhe. Uma ungathandani nomlingani wakho, khona-ke indoda yakho ingahle ikulangazelele futhi ingahlala ingajabuli isikhathi eside. Kungcono ukuthandana kunokulahlekelwa yindoda yakho. Wonke umuntu wesilisa ufuna owesifazane abezwa ukuthi bangathandana naye obala futhi bangaba nesikhathi esingcono sokuthandana bangene ebudlelwaneni. Ubudlelwano buvame ukushiswa phansi ngenxa yothando oluphansi, okudala izingxabano neziphazamiso eziningi ezingadingekile.
6. Ukusondelana ngokomzimba
Wonke umuntu uyakufuna. Abesilisa nabesifazane bobabili banxanela ukuba ngokomzimba. Wonke umuntu wesilisa ufuna owesifazane ongaba obala ngokusondelana kwabo nabo nobudlelwano futhi angakujabulela ukusondelana naye. Ngenkathi abesifazane ngokuyisisekelo bexhuma kangcono ngesenzo sokuxhumana, abesilisa baziwa kangcono ngokuxhuma okuhle nesenzo sokuba ngokomzimba. Ukusondelana kuyingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke ubuhlobo.
Lezi yizidingo ezi-6 ezibaluleke kakhulu zendoda ebudlelwaneni. Ufisa ukuthi lezi zimfuno zakhe zifezeke futhi uma uhlela ukufeza izidingo zomuntu wakho, kungcono uqale ngazo futhi ubone ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho bukhula kahle kangakanani baba yinsimu yothando.
Uma ukuthandile ukufunda i-athikili, sicela unikeze impendulo yakho ngezansi esigabeni sokuphawula. Ungakhohlwa ukuyaba ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Uma unezinkinga zobudlelwano, bhala kithi ku-boldsky@oneindia.co.in
Halala!