Akukho cala, 20s, kodwa thina ngakho phezu kwakho . Eqinisweni, ukuba neminyaka engama-30 kuzwakala kumangalisa. Kuyingqopha-mlando okufanele ukubungazwa, kodwa njengoba ususondela ku-3-0 omkhulu, ukukhasa kwebha ngeke kunqamuke. Udinga iphathi ehlonipha owesifazane ophucuzekile osuphenduke waba yiyo. Kodwa kusafanele kube, uyazi, kumnandi. Sikuphathele imibono engamashumi amathathu yosuku lokuzalwa lweminyaka engama-30 yowesifazane osekhulile onguye.
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Amashumi amabili namashumi amabili1. Hamba Wine Tasting
Impelaviki e-Napa enaseduze kwakho nothandekayo kuzwakala njengendlela emnandi yokungenisa iminyaka engu-30. Kodwa uma lokho kukude kakhulu kuwe (ngokwendawo noma ngokwezimali), kunezindawo eziningi zewayini nezivini ezweni lonke ezingase zinikeze usuku olukhumbulekayo. Shayela ngaphambili ukuze ubhukhe ukubhukha kweqembu futhi uqashe iveni nomshayeli noma uthembele kwabakwa-Ubers ukuze bahambe. Injabulo.2. Thatha Ukuvakasha Kwendawo Yokuphuza utshwala
Yenza ubhiya ngaphezulu kwe-vibe yakho? Yiya endaweni edayisa utshwala ukuze uthole ntambama yokunambitha, ukufunda kanye (ngethemba) nokudla okumnandi. Yenza ucwaningo lwakho ngaphambi kokuhlanganisa uhlu lwakho lwezivakashi—amagumbi amaningi okuthinta alungele izinja futhi alungele izingane futhi amanye anikeza nomculo obukhoma.
3. Yenza i-Brunch
Amaqembu e-Dinner mahle futhi wonke, kodwa angaba umsebenzi omningi. Inketho elula kodwa nenhle ngendlela efanayo? Ibhrantshi elingenakucindezeleka elihlanganisa ibha ye-mimosa, ukukhethwa kwama-bagel namasaka, kanye nohlu lwamakhekhe amnandi. Njengoba yonke into ingalungiselelwa kusenesikhathi (okuhlanganisa nohlu lwadlalwayo olubulalayo), okudingeka ukwenze uma izivakashi sezifikile ukujabulela iphathi.
4. Zama i-Escape Room
Ayikho into efana nokuvaleleka ekamelweni eduze kwabangane bakho abakhulu ngemizuzu engama-60 nje yokubaleka. Ngokusobala, isipiliyoni esihle sokubambisana. Igumbi lokubalekela lakudala lihlale liyisikhathi esihle, kodwa futhi singabalandeli bokuzizwisa okunetimu (njenge-a I-Downton Abbey igumbi lokubalekela noma indaba yasebukhosini).
5. Vakashela Ipaki Yetimu
Ukuthi usukhulile akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuthola injabulo yakho epaki lokuzijabulisa. Shayela kusengaphambili ukuze ubuze ngezaphulelo zesilinganiso seqembu noma izinketho zephathi. Futhi khumbula ukwenza isabelomali sesithombe seqembu—uzofuna ukukhumbula lesi.
Izithombe zeMaskot/Getty6. Chitha Ubusuku Ehhotela Nabangane Bakho Abangcono Kakhulu
Kulezi zinsuku, kungase kube nzima ukunamathisela impelasonto lapho wonke umuntu ekhululekile (uJenny akakwazi ukuthola umhlali futhi u-Megan unomshado okufanele aye kuwo). Kodwa ukuhlala ubusuku obubodwa kuwukuzibophezela okuncane futhi ngokuvamile kujabulisa nakakhulu. Bhuka i-suite ehhotela likanokusho, isevisi yegumbi loku-oda, wenze imaski yobuso nendawo yokuphumula ezindaweni zokugeza ezithandekayo.7. Culela Inhliziyo Yakho Ku-Karaoke
Bhuka igumbi, gcina iziphuzo zigeleza futhi umvumele aklebhule.
8. Yiba nephathi Yasebusuku Kapende
Xhumana ne-Picasso yakho yangaphakathi ekilasini lokupenda nokusiphuca. Yebo, izingilazi ezintathu ze-Chardonnay zizosiza lawo majusi okudala ageleze. Izwa ukucindezelwa kweminyaka eyishumi edlule kuyancibilika njengoba uhlanganisa opende futhi uxuba amathunzi ukuze udale umsebenzi wakho wobuciko obuhle.
9. Noma i-DIY Pizza Party
Mema abangani abathile, qhumisa izingoma, ukhiphe i-Chianti bese uzenzela eyakho i-’z a. Uma usuyilungisile inhlama (eyenziwe ekhaya noma esitolo), hamba uhlanekezele ngama-toppings. Usuku lwakho lokuzalwa, ngakho akekho ovunyelwe ukwahlulela ukuthi uphayinaphu ne-prosciutto kuyinto yakho.
10. Bona Ikhonsathi
Uma isihloko sakho sokuqala sisedolobheni phakathi nenyanga yakho yokuzalwa, iyiphi indlela engcono yokuchitha ubusuku? Uma kungenjalo, khetha idethi futhi uthenge amathikithi obusuku obubodwa endaweni yomculo ebukhoma eseduze nawe, ngaphandle kokugcizelela ngohlelo. Kwazi bani? Ungase uthole intandokazi entsha.
Amashumi amabili namashumi amabili11. Yenza Iphathi Yezindikimba
Izinketho azipheli, kodwa nansi eminye imibono ukuze uqalise: A UGatsby Omkhulu iphathi (ephelele ngama-cocktails esitayela se-Prohibition kanye nemvunulo ye-retro), iphathi ye-movie (wonke umuntu kufanele eze egqoke njengomlingiswa wakhe oyintandokazi) noma Ubusuku e-Paris soirée (gcina i-Champagne igeleza futhi uphake ama-éclairs noma ama-macarons ukuze uthole uphudingi).12. Hlela Imfihlakalo Yokubulala
I-pasta, uthando namavolovolo kuleli phathi lesidlo sakusihlwa esine-twist ezokwenza zonke izihambeli zihlale ezinzwaneni zazo. Ukuthi usokhaya owakho (ungathola ikhithi yemfihlakalo yokubulala lapha ) noma wenze ukubhuka kwephathi yochwepheshe, lobu busuku be-whodunnit kuzoba yibo abangani bakho abazokhuluma ngabo iminyaka eminingi ezayo.
13. Umdlalo Wasebusuku
Uma imfihlakalo yokubulala izwakala njengezinwele eziphakeme kakhulu kuwe, zama okuthile okuncane. Khipha imidlalo yebhodi (siyingxenye yokukhetha kwe-retro njenge Chutes kanye Ladders noma Umdlalo Wokuphila ) futhi udlale ebusuku. Owinile uthola ucezu olukhulu lwekhekhe lokuzalwa.
14. Bhuka Igumbi elizimele endaweni yokudlela
Zinike isipho somunye umuntu ophekayo (nokuhlanza). Ukudla okumnandi endaweni esondelene nabangane bakho abaseduze noma i-S.O. yakho nje? Izifiso zosuku lokuzalwa ziyafezeka ngempela.
15. Noma Thatha Ikilasi Lokupheka
Ubulokhu ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungayigoqa kanjani i-sushi noma ubhake isinkwa esenziwe ekhaya. Thatha abangani futhi ufunde ukuthi ungaphehla kanjani ukudla okuthandayo ngaphambi kokuhlala phansi ukuze ujabulele izithelo zomsebenzi wakho. Ungathola umpheki wasekhaya ukuthi eze kuwe noma uye esikhungweni sendawo sokupheka.
PeopleImages/Getty Images16. Zithokozise Ngempelasonto Ye-Spa
Uphumelele eminyakeni engu-20s ngesiqephu esisodwa—ufanelwe ukutotoswa okuthile. Ingabe ufuna okuthile okunethezeka nokuseduze? Bheka i-spa yasendlini ehhotela likanokusho edolobheni. Uncamela indawo ehambisana neqembu elikhulu? Khetha i-spa yaseKorea enamazinga amaningi, amachibi nama-saunas. Noma ngabe ufunani, khumbula ukuthi ukubhucungwa kwezicubu ezijulile kufanele nakanjani.17. Hamba Glamping
Manje njengoba usukhulile futhi uhlakaniphile, uyazi ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokujabulela i-Mother Nature ukwenza ngesitayela. Futhi nezindlu zangasese ezifanele namashawa. Cwaninga amasayithi e-glamping eduze nawe anikezela nge-posh digs nezinsiza ezisezingeni eliphezulu (kodwa asenenqwaba yama-s'mores).
18. Bamba ifilimu (noma emithathu)
Chitha usuku kumamuvi, udla ama-popcorn futhi ubambe izindaba zakamuva okufanele zikubone. Ungagcina izinto ezithakazelisayo ngokunyakazisa uhlobo, kodwa njengoba kuwusuku lwakho lokuzalwa, akekho ovunyelwe ukukhononda uma ufuna i-rom-com double bill.
19. Hlela Usuku Lwensimu
Uyakhumbula ngesikhathi ujwayele ukuba nalezi esikoleni? Zazijabulisa ngaleso sikhathi, futhi yebo, zisemnandi manje. Cabanga ukudonselana, ukugxuma okude, umjaho wemilenze emithathu neminye imidlalo eminingi ezokwenza ithimba lakho lizulezule ngokuhleka.
20. Bamba Casino Ebusuku
Ubani odinga iVegas uma ungaletha i-blackjack kuwe? Ngobusuku obukhethekile ngempela, qasha umdayisi wamakhadi futhi ubheje ngemali (sikhuluma ngamasenti lapha—hhayi, niyazi, Benjamins).
UJohn Fedele/Getty Izithombe21. Thola Umzimba
Asiqondile ukugijima uzungeze ipaki nomngane wakho womshado (yize ungakwazi, uma ufuna). Ukuze ukhale eshumini leminyaka elisha, ziphonsele inselelo ukuthi wenze okuthile kancane...ngaphandle-lapho. Cabanga nge-yoga yasemoyeni, ukugibela amatshe noma ukutshuza esibhakabhakeni.22. Hamba nge-Bowling
Noma khetha umsebenzi weqembu ongashubeki kancane (kodwa osajabulisa). Thola izimbiza zikabhiya, hlukanani nibe amaqembu nibone ukuthi ubani ongathola iziteleka eziningi.
23. Hamba Igalari Hopping
Zitholele indawo yobuciko yedolobha lakho neqembu labangane futhi ubone ukuthi ungathola yini ucezu ongaluletha ekhaya ukuze ukhumbule umcimbi. (I-Psst: Amagalari amaningi anikezela ngobusuku obubodwa inyanga ngayinye yokubukwa okukhethekile neziphuzo zamahhala, ngakho yenza ucwaningo lwakho kusengaphambili.)
24. Bheka Umcimbi Wezemidlalo
Noma ngabe iyiphi isizini, kukhona umdlalo oqhubekayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubhekisa amabombo ku-ice-skating rink, inkundla ye-baseball noma ikhampasi yasekolishi, jabulela injabulo yokuhalalisela iqembu lasekhaya.
25. Yenza Ukushintshaniswa Kwekhekhe
Akunandaba ukuthi mangaki amakhandlela alapho, amakhekhe okuzalwa awagugi. Esikhundleni sezipho, cela abangani bakho ukuthi beze nekhekhe (e elenziwe ekhaya noma elithengwe esitolo) futhi ujabulele ukuwathatha wonke. Ukhuphukele phambili ngokuklomelisa oyedwa kubhakwe omuhle owinile.
Hinterhaus Productions/Getty Images26. Hamba Udanse
Mhlawumbe awufuni ukuphuma sekwephuzile njengoba ubujwayele ukwenza, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukudansa endaweni yokudansa. Uncamela ukweqa izixuku kodwa usafuna ukuganga? Yiya ekilasini lokudansa leqembu nabangani bakho esikhundleni salokho.27. Yenza Ukukhasa Kwekhekhe
Ukukhasa ibha kwaba ngakho oneminyaka engu-24 ubudala. Manje njengoba usungena eshumini lakho lesine leminyaka, umqondo wokubuyisela iziphuzo eziyisithupha emahoreni amathathu awunaso isikhalazo esifanayo. Ukuzama amakhekhe ahlukene, ngakolunye uhlangothi, lokho kuzwakala kujabulisa. (Ithiphu yochwepheshe: Hlanganyela ukuze ukwazi ukuhlukanisa ikhekhe endaweni ngayinye.)
28. Yiba nephathi Yetiye Yantambama
Ingabe ufuna okuthile okuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunamakhekhe nje? Kuthiwani ngamasemishi amancane, amacilongo kanye netiye? Leyo ndlela iphucuzeke kakhulu (futhi isemnandi).
29. Hamba Uphonsa Izembe
Kuzwakala, kuhle, kuwukuhlanya, kodwa kuyindlela yokwelapha eyinqaba. Kudume futhi ngokuhlanya kulezi zinsuku, okusho ukuthi akufanele ube nenkinga yokuthola indawo yokujikijela imbazo eduze kwakho.
30. Ubusuku be-Trivia
Hlanganisa abangani bakho oqhudelana nabo kakhulu bese ubhekisa amabombo kubusuku be-trivia (amabha amaningi nezindawo zokudlela banazo). Iya kumdlalo wolwazi olujwayelekile noma cindezela ku-niche yakho futhi uthole umcimbi lapho ongagqama khona ngempela (sawubona, Seinfeld - inhlebo enetimu).
Ubani ozoba nosuku lokuzalwa oluhle kakhulu lwama-30? Impendulo: Wena.
