Uyini Umsindisi Omhlophe Futhi Kungani Kungewona Ukubambisana Okuhle?

Amagama Amahle Kakhulu Ezingane

Ku Usizo, Umlingiswa ka-Emma Stone uthwebula izindaba zabesifazane ababili abaNsundu futhi abe yintatheli eqavile ukuveza ukucwasa ngokobuhlanga emsebenzini wasendlini. Ku Uhlangothi Olungaboni, Umlingiswa kaSandra Bullock wamukela osemusha omnyama emndenini wakhe (ngemuva kokuzibonela ngawakhe indlela akhuliswa ngayo) futhi uba umzali wokutholwa owabona amandla kuye. Ku Incwadi eluhlaza, U-Viggo Mortensen wakha ubungane nomqashi wakhe omnyama womdlali wepiyano we-jazz futhi uyamvikela lapho ebhekene nokucwaswa njalo. Kubonakala sengathi amafilimu angenacala nanamandla akunjalo? Kodwa kunokudwebela intambo evamile phakathi kwabo: Ifilimu ngayinye ibeka izindaba eziMnyama kumshini ongemuva futhi yenza umlingiswa omhlophe abe iqhawe lesiqephu.



Futhi lokhu kuwumfanekiso nje wempilo yangempela. Lapho abantu abamhlophe bezama ukusiza abantu abamnyama, abomdabu kanye/noma abantu bebala ( I-BIPOC ), abanye bane-ajenda engaba yinkohliso futhi bazuze emizabalazweni yabo. Futhi nakuba kungase kubukeke njengobudlelwane obuvela kude, empeleni, lokhu kuziphatha kungabangela umonakalo omkhulu kumphakathi we-BIPOC noma umuntu kunokuhle. Nakhu konke okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba ngumsindisi omhlophe nokuthi ungakugwema kanjani.



Yini umsindisi omhlophe?

I-White saviorism yilapho umlungu ezama ukulungisa izindaba ze-BIPOC ngaphandle kokuthatha isikhathi sokuqonda umlando wakhe, amasiko, izindaba zezombusazwe noma okwamanje izidingo. Futhi ngenkathi leli gama laqanjwa ngu Teju Cole ngo-2012, umkhuba akuyona into entsha. Thatha noma iyiphi incwadi yomlando futhi uzothola isibonelo emva kwesibonelo salo mcabango we-knight-in-shining-armor: Kuqhamuke indoda emhlophe-engamenywa sengeze yona-isilungele ukuthuthukisa umphakathi ngokusekelwe yabo imibono yalokho okwamukelekayo. Namuhla, abasindisi abamhlophe, nakuba ngokuvamile bengahlosile, bazifaka ezindabeni noma ezindabeni ngaphandle kokucabangela izidingo nezidingo zomphakathi abazama ukuwusiza. Ngokwenza kanjalo, bazibiza ngokwabo (noma bazivumele ukuthi babhalwe) iqhawe endabeni.

Kungani *kuyinkinga* kangaka?

Ukuhlengwa kwabamhlophe kuyinkinga ngoba kubeka isithombe sokuthi imiphakathi yeBIPOC ayikwazi ukuzisiza kuze kufike umlungu. Kungukucabanga ukuthi ngaphandle kosizo lwalo muntu, umphakathi awunathemba futhi udukile. Umsindisi omhlophe usebenzisa ilungelo lakhe ukukhuthaza ubuholi kodwa akushaya indiva isisekelo, izinjongo kanye nezimfuno esezivele zikhona phakathi komphakathi othize. Kunalokho, lobu budlelwano buba kakhulu ngokuthatha ubunikazi ngisho noma kusho ukufana kanye/noma ukulawula iqembu labantu abangakaze bakucele kwasekuqaleni. Okubi kakhulu nokho, imiphumela, nakuba ivame ukugujwa, imvamisa igcina ilimaza umphakathi.

Umsindisi omhlophe udlala kanjani indima emhlabeni wanamuhla?

Nakuba sibona indlela yokuziphatha komsindisi omhlophe idlala ngezindlela eziningi, lokhu sikubona kakhulu kumavolontiya nakwezokuvakasha. Elinye lamacala ajwayeleke kakhulu ukuthatha izithombe nabantu bendawo bese bethumela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Isenzo esincane, esibonakala simsulwa empeleni singaba ukungahloniphi, ukucwasa ngokwebala futhi sibe yingozi. Ngokuvamile, lezi zithombe ozishuthe zona zinezingane ze-BIPOC (ngaphandle kwemvume evela kubazali bazo) bezibonisa njengezinsiza kunguqulo yokusebenza yomuntu omhlophe yokuzisiza.



Ake sikhulume ngohambo lwemishini. Kwabanye, kumayelana nokuzithola (noma kwezinye izimo ukuthola umaqondana ). Kodwa akumele kube wumbukiso-futhi-utshele ukuthi ungakanani umSamariya Olungileyo. Sekungumkhuba okhulayo ukuthatha indawo futhi ungaziba ukuthi umphakathi unjani empeleni uzizwa ngokugxambukela. Konke kuhambisana nomqondo wokuthi Siyazi ukuthi yini ekulungele esikhundleni sokuthi singakusiza kanjani, uzisize wena?

Futhi-ke kukhona izibonelo eziningi zesiko le-pop

O, akhona kakhulu yezibonelo zesiko le-pop ezisebenzisa i-white savior trope. Kuhlala kufana: Umuntu/iqembu le-BIPOC libhekene nezithiyo (kanye/noma 'izimo ezinzima kakhulu') kuze kube yilapho umlingisi oyinhloko (owaziwa nangokuthi uthisha omhlophe, umeluleki, njll) engena futhi asindise usuku. Futhi ngenkathi ucabanga ukuthi imuvi igxile kubalingiswa abazabalazayo, ukukhathazeka kwayo okukhulu ukubonisa ukuqina nezinselelo zomlingiswa omhlophe esikhundleni salokho. Lezi zethulo zisifundisa ukuthi abalingisi be-BIPOC abakwazi ukuba amaqhawe ohambweni lwabo. Futhi nakuba lobu budlelwano bunzima kakhulu, amafilimu afana nawo Usizo, Uhlangothi Olungaboni, Ababhali Benkululeko kanye neNcwadi Eluhlaza zisekhona kugujwa futhi kuklonyeliswe , okubonisa ngisho nangokwengeziwe amaphoyisa omphakathi wethu agxilile wokuvumela i-BIPOC ikhulume izindaba zayo.

Kodwa kuthiwani uma umuntu ezama ngempela ukusiza?

Sengiyawabona ama-imeyili egcwele ibhokisi lami lokungenayo, Ngakho-ke UKUSIZA kuyinkinga futhi??? Cha, akuyona inkinga ukusiza abanye. Kufanele sinyathele sihlinzekele noma yiliphi iqembu elibhekene nengcindezelo, ukucwasa kanye nokuntula ukumeleleka. Kodwa kunomehluko phakathi empeleni ukusiza umphakathi nokwenza ini wena , umuntu wangaphandle , cabanga kuzosiza umphakathi.



Ekupheleni kosuku, konke kumayelana nokukhulula ilungelo lakho. Imayelana nokuqeda ukuchema kwakho ongazi lutho ngomuntu, indawo noma iqembu. Cabanga, ungathanda yini uma othile engena emzini wakho futhi akutshele okufanele kwenziwe? Ubungathanda yini ukuba othile azithathele udumo ngokukusindisa nokudelela umsebenzi owenziwa abanye ngaphambi kwakhe? Kuthiwani ngokusebenzisa ubuso bakho nokufana kwakho ukuze ubheke ukuthi ngibasiza kanjani! Insta-isikhathi. Zinike isikhashana ukuthola ukuthi usizo lwakho luyazuzisa noma luyayilimaza yini imbangela.

Ngiyitholile. Ngakho singenza kanjani kangcono?

Kunezindlela ezimbalwa zokuba umngane ongcono futhi ugweme ukuwela ku-white saviorism.

  • Kulungile ngokungabi yisizinda sokunakwa. Ungazibizi umsindisi noma iqhawe. Lokhu akumayelana nawe. Kumayelana nokusiza lapho kudingeka khona.
  • Ungaphambanisi izinhloso ezinhle nezenzo ezinhle. Ufuna ukusiza. Kuhle lokho—izinhloso zakho zisendaweni efanele. Kodwa ngoba wena funa ukuba usizo akusho ukuthi izenzo zakho ziyasiza ngempela. Izinhloso ezinhle azizona izaba zokuchitha impendulo.
  • Lalela futhi ubuze imibuzo. Into enamandla kakhulu ongayenza ukulalela umphakathi owubonisayo ukuze usize. Babuze, Ungathandani? Yini engekho? Ngingakusiza kanjani? Xhumana namavolontiya endawo noma abaholi ukuze uqonde kangcono ukuthi ungaba kanjani usizo kusizathu (kunokuba wenze izinto ngendlela yakho).
  • Ungakuthathi njengomzuzu ofanele u-Insta. Sonke sifuna ukwabelana ngokupha kwethu nomhlaba ngethemba lokukhuthaza nabanye ukuba basize. Kodwa ingabe yisizathu sakho leso noma ufuna nje ukunconywa, ukuthandwa nokuphawula? Zibuze ukuthi lesi sithombe ngempela ukusiza noma kukubeka ekukhanyeni okungcono kakhulu?

Iphuzu elibalulekile

Umqondo wokusindisa othile wondla kuphela incindezelo yesistimu esizama ukuhlukana nayo. Bonisa uzwelo ngaphandle kokuba nesihawu noma ukuthela abantu ngezinsiza ezingazifezi izidingo noma izimfuno zabo. Zimisele ukufunda, ushintshe futhi wamukele ukuthi awusona isixazululo kuzo zonke izinkinga zomphakathi—kodwa ulapha ukuze uziphakamise.

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