Umbhali wase-Los Angeles usanda kwabelana ngendaba edabukisayo lapho elahlwe khona ngohlelo lokusebenza lwenkomfa yevidiyo Sondeza .
Esihlokweni se I-BuzzFeed ngo-Ephreli 13, uJulia Moser oneminyaka engu-26 ubudala uchaze ukuthi indoda ayekade ethandana nayo - ayibiza ngokuthi uJosh - yaqeda izinto naye ngokungalindelekile ngekholi yevidiyo. Laba bobabili baqale ukuthandana ngaphambi kokuba kube nenkinga yezempilo emhlabeni.
Ngahamba naye ngezinsuku ezintathu ezinhle ngaphambi kokuthi ukuqubuka kwe-coronavirus kuvale izinhlelo zethu, uyakhumbula. Ukuqabula kwami okuthathu kokuhlanu okuphambili kwezikhathi zonke kwenzeka ngalezo zinsuku.
Empeleni uMoser ubonakale ebambe imizwa ngomuntu angamcabangeli ngisho isoka lakhe ngesikhathi esifushane laba bobabili behleli ndawonye mathupha.
Wayengumfana wokuqala esikhathini eside kakhulu engangizizwa ngijabule ngaye, wabhala. Saba ne-chemistry enhle, i-banter emangalisayo, kanye nendaba ende ngo-Stanley Tucci okwangenza ngaphupha ngomlingisi ngolunye usuku ephethe umshado wethu.
Inkinga yezempilo, nokho, yamisa izinhlelo zomshado kaMose. Yize yena noJosh bebenezinhlelo zokusahlangana, bekunokukhathazeka ngokuthola i-coronavirus. Ngakho-ke, esikhundleni salokho, uMoser noJosh babenezinsuku ezingokoqobo - baFaceTimed futhi baxhumeke ku-Zoom ezinyangeni ezimbili ezilandelayo.
Naphezu kokungavunyelwe ukubeka ubuso bami ebusweni bakhe, kuzwakale kumnandi ukuba nomuntu engimethembayo ngalesi sikhathi esingaqinisekile, noma ngabe ubudlelwano bethu babukulesi simo esimisiwe, se-limbo lapho bengingazi nokuthi ngizobona nini. naye futhi, uMose wabhala. Ukuba nomuntu engangimazi, owayengaphandle kwempilo yami, futhi engangixhumene naye ngokuqinile kwazizwa kuwukuphela kwento enhle neqhubekayo eyenzekayo kimi.
Nokho, izinto zaba zimbi kakhulu lapho uJosh ebhalela uMoser ngolunye usuku embuza ukuthi ukhululekile yini ukukhuluma kuZoom. Mhlawumbe okuphoxa kakhulu ukuthi uxhumano lwe-inthanethi lwaluntekenteke lapho ekugcineni emtshela izindaba zokuthi ufuna ukuqeda izinto.
Kwakuyi-surreal kakhulu - angikwazanga ukuzibamba kodwa ngicabanga ngesiqephu se-'30 Rock' lapho uLiz Lemon no-Floyd beqeda ubudlelwano babo bebanga elide ngendlela efanayo, kubhala uMoser.
Sekukonke, ukuhlukana kwakucishe kube ihlazo ngendlela obungayilindela, wabhala.
Yize uMoser ethe ubesebudlelwaneni obubodwa obubalulekile phambilini, uvumile ukuthi waduduzeka ngokuthi uJosh wayethembekile ngesizathu sokuqeda ubudlelwano babo (ngokusobala wayesanda kuphuma ebuhlotsheni beminyaka eyisikhombisa).
Wayethembekile futhi engagwegwesi, kwakuyinto ehlonipheke ngendlela emangalisayo kuyena, futhi ngidabukile, wabhala. Ayikho indlela elula yokukuzungeza.
Lapho ishicilelwa, indaba kaMoser idonse ukusabela okuhlukahlukene kubafundi, abanye bemsola ngokuzitika ngaye.
Uma uJosh wayengeyena ngempela i-bf yakho, kungani-ke ubhala lesi siqeshana sokuzibamba ngokweqile okuthiwa ukhokhelwe ukusibhala? kwaphawula umuntu oyedwa. Akumangalisi ukuthi i-BuzzFeedNews yehla ngamashubhu.
Ngizama ukuqonda ukuthi hlobo luni lokusabela umbhali abelufuna lapha, ngaphandle kokuthi ‘uyindlovukazi yedrama’ futhi ukuthanda ushizi akuyona indlela yokuphila, omunye wabhala. Wtf.
Noma kunjalo, okungenani umfundi oyedwa wazwelana noMoser.
Angazi ukuthi kungani] u-ppl ekhohlakele kakhulu kumazwana, wabhala. Ukuhlukana kuyamnandi. Angabhala nganoma yini ayifunayo.
Uma uyijabulele le ndaba, ungahle uthande ukufunda ngayo imibhangqwana ene-polyamorous ediliza ukucwaswa.
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