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Akuwona wonke umuntu othanda ukuvuma amaphutha namaphutha akhe kozakwethu, ikakhulukazi uma besebudlelwaneni. Ngezinye izikhathi imibhangqwana ingadlala umdlalo wokugxeka komunye nomunye kunokuxazulula inkinga. Futhi, kwesinye isikhathi asizinaki izinkinga ngenxa nje yobudlelwano bakho.
Kulungile ukungazinaki izinkinga ezincane, kepha esikhathini esithile lapho kuqala ukwanda, bese uqala ukucabanga ukuthi mhlawumbe ufanele umlingani ongcono.
Sibhale izimpawu eziyi-15, kungani ungahle ube yintombi embi nokuthi yini okudingeka uyishintshe.
1. Uvame Ukumngabaza
Ukwethemba kungenye yezinsika eziqine kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo. Ezizwa esola kakhulu, umzuzu lapho esebenzisana nanoma yimuphi umuntu osebenza naye wesifazane, kukhombisa ngokusobala ukuthi unezinkinga zokuthembana. Ukuhlola ifoni yakhe, lapho uthola ithuba noma ulalele phansi lapho ehlangana nabanye abantu kungakwenza ube yintombi embi. Ukungabaza umlingani wakho ngaphandle kwezizathu ezizwakalayo akuyona into enempilo okufanele yenziwe futhi lokhu kungathinta ubudlelwano bakho ngendlela engeyinhle.
2. Awusoze Wakholelwa Ekumnikeni Isikhala Kuyena
Kuhle ukuthi ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu nomuntu wakho kepha wenqabe ukumnika isikhala sakhe, akulungile neze. Sonke sidinga indawo yethu yomuntu siqu ukuzizwa sikhululekile futhi 'sinesikhathi' sami. Ukungamniki isikhala sakhe, kukhombisa ukuthi awuyihloniphi imingcele yakhe. Lokhu kungadala izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho futhi ngokungangabazeki kukwenza intombi embi.
3. Ulindele ukuthi Aguquke
Esikhundleni sokuba ngumuntu ongcono ngokwakho, uhlala ukhomba umlingani wakho ngeminwe. , Ukucela njalo isoka / umyeni wakho ukuthi ashintshe indlela aziphethe ngayo kungaphula ubuhlobo. Kungenzeka ukuthi umlingani wakho unamaphutha athile futhi udinga ukuzithuthukisa kepha ukuzama ukumshintsha ngokuphelele nakho akuyona into enhle.
4. Isimo Sobudlelwano Bakho ‘Singashadile’ Kuma-Social Media
Ukuveza isimo sobudlelwano bakho 'njengabantu abangashadile' ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngenkathi ubudlelwano obuzinzile kuyizimpawu zokuthi kungenzeka ungabi yintombi enhle. Kulungile ukungabelani ngemininingwane ngobudlelwano bakho nabantu abaseduze kwakho noma ngomuntu othandana naye, kepha bese uzibiza ungashadile uma unesoka, kusho ukuthi awuzimisele ebudlelwaneni bakho obukhona manje.
5.Ukhohlise Ozakwenu
Manje, lokhu kungaba ngesinye sezimpawu ezinkulu ezikutshela ukuthi ungaba yintombi embi. Uma ukhohlise umlingani wakho futhi ungazizwa unecala ngokwenza kanjalo, awuyena umuntu othembekile. Ukukopela kumayelana nokuzivocavoca nomuntu ongeyena umlingani wakho, kungaba futhi ngokuthumela imibhalo yezocansi nokuthokomala nomuntu ongelona umlingani wakho. Uma ubulokhu wenza kanjalo sonke lesi sikhathi, ungahle ungabi yintombi enhle.
6. Kuyaqabukela Uxolise Ngamaphutha Akho
Ngabe uyakuzonda ukufuna ukuxolelwa ngamaphutha akho noma ukuthola kunzima ukuxolisa lapho kuyiphutha lakho? Ngabe ulindele ukuthi umlingani wakho axolise kuwe noma ngabe kuyiphutha lakho? Uma kunjalo, maningi amathuba okuthi uyisisulu se-ego yakho.
Ukuxolisa ngamaphutha akho akusoze kwakwenza wehliswe isithunzi. Eqinisweni, kusho ukuthi ubazisa kakhulu ubuhlobo bakho.
7.Ufuna ngokweqile
Abantu abazinzile ngokomzwelo nabazimele babonakala bekhanga kwabanye. Akekho othanda ukuba sebudlelwaneni lapho umuntu oyedwa kuphela enza yonke imizamo, kuyilapho omunye engakhathazeki kangako. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlala uncike esokeni lakho ngakho konke ngenxa yezimfuno ezingapheli, lokhu akusona isibonakaliso esihle. Akukubi neze ukulindela umlingani wakho ukuthi enze kahle empilweni yakhe futhi abe nomsebenzi ochumayo, kepha bese ubeka izidingo ezingenangqondo nezengane zezinto ezibonakalayo, kukhombisa ukuthi uyintombi embi.
8. Uhlala Ugxeka Izinketho Zakhe
Kunethuba lokuthi wena nomlingani wakho kungenzeka ningabi nezinqumo ezifanayo. Ungahle ungavumelani nezinqumo zakhe futhi uzizwe ucasukile ngezinye izikhathi. Kepha lokho akusho ukuthi ungagxeka ukukhetha nezinketho zakhe. Ukwenza kanjalo kuzokwenza umlingani wakho azizwe engazethembi futhi naye angazizwa ephansi.
9. Uhlala Unomona Ngabesifazane Abakhelene Naye
Kunezikhathi lapho ungazizwa unesikhwele lapho kunabesifazane abaningi kakhulu abaseduze komlingani wakho. Kepha uma lokhu sekuwumkhuba wakho, kuzofanela ushintshe lesi simo sengqondo. Uma uhlala unomona ngabangane besifazane bomlingani wakho, lapho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi ube nokungazethembi.
10.Awuphatheki Kabi Ngenkathi Udlala Ngothando Namanye Amadoda
Ungazizwa kanjani uma umlingani wakho ehamba ethandana nabanye abantu besifazane? Ungahle ungavumi ngaso sonke isikhathi, akunjalo? Umlingani wakho angazizwa ngendlela efanayo uma uhlala uthandana namanye amadoda.
Ngezinye izikhathi ungazizwa udlala ngothando akuyona into embi futhi ungaphunyuka kalula kuyo. Kepha uma ujwayele ukudlala ngothando namanye amadoda futhi ucabanga ukuthi kungenye indlela yokuba nobungane nabantu abakuzungezile, nansi ifulegi elibomvu.
11. Uvamise Ukulawula Izinqumo Zakhe
Masithole into eyodwa iqonde, akekho umuntu othanda ukulawulwa ku-arelationship. Uma uhlala ufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela yakho ubuhlobo bakho bungase bufike ekugcineni. Awukwazi ukulawula okwenziwa umlingani wakho ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi uma wenza njalo, kungabacisha isikhathi esithile.
12. Awumvumeli Azikhiphe Nabangani Bakhe
Uma ungavumeli umlingani wakho ahlanganyele nabangane bakhe ngaphandle kwesizathu, kusho ukuthi awuyikhathalele injabulo yakhe. Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi baningi abanye abantu empilweni yomlingani wakho ngakho-ke, udinga ukunika isikhathi esilinganayo kubo bonke. Ukummisa ekuchitheni isikhathi nabangane bakhe kukhombisa uhlangothi lwakho olubi.
13. Uhlala Uwakhomba Amaphutha Akhe
Wonke umuntu unamaphutha athile noma omunye futhi akekho ophelele. Ngakho-ke, ukulindela ukuthi umlingani wakho abe ngumuntu ophelele akuyona into ehlakaniphile ongayenza ebudlelwaneni. Ukukhomba amaphutha akhe ngezikhathi ezithile, ukuzama ukushintsha indlela aziphatha ngayo, nokwakha indawo yesehlakalo akuyona into ehloniphekile ukuyenza. Uma ukhomba umlingani wakho ngeminwe, ulimaza imizwa yabo ngokungazi. Ukuziphatha okunjalo ekugcineni kuzoletha izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho.
14. Awumhloniphi Uzakwenu
Ebudlelwaneni, ukuhloniphana kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile. Njengomuntu futhi, udinga ukuhlonipha umlingani wakho. Ukuphatha isoka lakho njengesigqila, inceku noma umuntu ofanelwe ukuhlonishwa, kukhombisa ukuthi uyintombi embi. Kumele uqonde ukuthi ukungahloniphi umlingani wakho ngeke kwenze ubudlelwano bakho buqine. Kuzogcina kuholele ezingxabanweni ebudlelwaneni bakho.
15. AwunaNhlonipho Ngomndeni Wakhe Nabangane
Ukuthanda umlingani wakho akusho ukuthi konke okudingayo ukuhlonipha umlingani wakho. Sonke siyawuthanda umndeni wethu nabangane ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi nobabili nibonise inhlonipho kubangane nomndeni womunye nomunye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlala ungabahloniphi abazali besoka lakho nabangane bakho njalo, kukhombisa ukuthi awuyona intombi enhle.
Ngakho-ke, isikhathi sokuguqukela kokuhle, awucabangi?
