Sithanda ukupheka komndeni kwakudala kakhulu njenge-gal elandelayo. Kodwa uma sikhuluma iqiniso, abantu bakho bebelokhu bewosa ama-hams akhathele afanayo kanye nama-hots at the barbecue yaminyaka yonke kusukela ekuphathweni kwe-Nixon. Izindaba ezinhle ukuhlela ukuhlangana komndeni okunenjongo, okukhumbulekayo nokujabulisayo—ngisho nohlobo olubonakalayo—akumele kube nzima. Sinemibono emisha kusukela kumageyimu ajwayelekile kuya kumadokodo ezithombe ze-DIY (konke okungakhonjiswa ku-inthanethi btw) ukuze sigcine lonke iqembu lezigelekeqe lijabulile. Manje, okuwukuphela kwento esele okufanele uyenze ukuthi bonke abazala bakho abayi-17 bavumelane ngosuku.
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Amashumi amabili namashumi amabili1. Yenza iphathi yokudansa.
Iqiniso: Wonke umuntu uyakuthanda ukudansa ngokulahlwa, futhi asikho isidingo sokulinda kuze kube umshado womkhaya olandelayo ukuze wenze kanjalo. Bhukha u-DJ womndeni wokushona kwelanga noma ubusuku bemvuselelo yama-'80s. Udinga ukwenza lokhu cishe? Usengaqasha u-DJ futhi wenze ukuthi Sondeza futhi acule izingoma.2. Kwenze kube ukubhaka-off okubonakalayo.
Yebo, ningathanda ukuba nonke ndawonye, kodwa ukuhleka ngeke kuphele lapho nishanela I-Great Britain Bake-Off futhi uthumele yonke imizi iresiphi yekhukhi likashokholethi elidumile likagogo wakho, bese nixoxa ngevidiyo njengoba wonke umuntu ewabhaka ndawonye. (Amaphuzu okwethulwa!)
3. Zama idlozi trivia night.
Gcoba ngamarekhodi omndeni bese uvotela wonke umuntu ukuze uthole amaqiniso ajabulisayo ozobuzwa ngawo. Ufike nini umkhulu uJoe eMelika? Washada ngamuphi unyaka umzala u-Amy? (Uma kufanele uhambise le Q&A ku-inthanethi, qiniseka ukuthi ushaya irekhodi ukuze ukuhlangana kwakho kube into ongayilondolozela abazukulu.)
4. Phrinta incwadi yokupheka yomndeni.
Cela wonke umuntu ukuthi alethe iresiphi eyintandokazi futhi ubabophezele encwadini abazoya nayo ekhaya. (Phila isikhathi eside isaladi yamazambane kaNana ebomvu. ) (Yebo, lokhu kungenziwa ngokuphelele futhi kusatshalaliswe ngemva kwalokho.)
5. Yenza idokodo lezithombe ze-DIY.
Asikho isidingo sokuqasha yangempela; vele wenze ubuciko. Lengisa amafreyimu esihlahleni bese uphatha umgqomo ojabulisayo esandleni. Bese usetha ifoni ku-tripod bese uhlwitha. Futhi, okubi kakhulu, uma ningakwazi ukuba ndawonye nonke, wonke umuntu makaqhamuke nezakhe izinto futhi athumele i-imeyili ingemuva le-Zoom elithi, I-Smith Family Reunion noma i-Bust enosuku. (Vumela izithombe-skrini ziqale!)
Izithombe Zeqhawe/Izithombe ze-Getty6. Phonsa i-movie yangaphandle ebusuku.
Qasha iprojektha futhi ulethe izingubo zokulala, imicamelo kanye nokudla okulula etshanini ukuze uthole ukungena okuhlekisayo. Kwenze kube yi-potluck ukuyiphakamisa. (Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ungakukhipha ngenkathi ukude nomphakathi…noma ungakuthatha ku-inthanethi usebenzisa i- Isandiso 'se-Netflix Party' .)7. Hlela ukuzingela kukadoti okubonakalayo.
Umsebenzi: Umuntu oyedwa ubiza amagama ezinto ezijwayelekile zasendlini. (Amabhethri! Isithombe somndeni! Okuthile kwesi-French!) Wonke umuntu okholi yevidiyo unemizuzwana engama-60 ukuthola nokwethula esifanelana nencazelo ukuze athole iphuzu.
8. Hambisa amabhuku ezithombe zomndeni.
Qoqa izithombe ku-Facebook—bese ucela amalungu eqembu anolwazi oluncane ngobuchwepheshe ukuthi akuthumelele ezinye—bese uzibophezela encwadini enhle futhi wenzela wonke umuntu amakhophi.
9. Phrinta izikhwama ze-tote ezibhalwe ngesihlahla somndeni wakho.
I-freebie enqunyiwe ewusizo, ethokozisayo nengacashi.
10. …Noma izifihla-buso.
I-Snapfish ikunikeza inketho yokwenza ngokwezifiso… ngezithombe . Khuluma nge-genius memento.
Izithombe ze-JGI/Jamie Grill/Getty11. Bamba umbukiso wamakhono.
Ubani kangcono ongahlulela amakhono akho okudansa kunezihlobo zakho? Alikho ihholo lekhonsathi elidingekayo. (Kodwa empeleni...lo mdlalo wawuhloselwe i-Zoom.)12. Kwenze kube umgubho onendikimba.
Uma ungumuntu, ungakwazi ukupheka into ebungaza ifa lakho-ithi, imenyu egcwele isiGreki. Uma usebenzisa i-virtual, khuthaza wonke umuntu ukuthi enze ama-PJs abo ahamba phambili. Noma isikibha sokujikijela emuva. Bese, bona iphoyinti #5 mayelana ne-photobooth.
13. Noma dlala umdlalo ongaqhudelani nawe.
Zama umdlalo wasehlobo ongenamthelela omncane (akukho ukulwa, ngiyabonga kakhulu) ofanela yonke iminyaka. Futhi uma ufuna ukwenza izinto zihehe, faka nemiklomelo emincane yeqembu eliwinile. (Uma ningakwazi ukuhlangana, khethani ukwenza igeyimu ebonakalayo—uhlelo lokusebenza Iphathi Yasekhaya yenzelwe izingxoxo zevidiyo zeqembu futhi inenqwaba yezinketho ezilungele umndeni kusukela ku-Head's Up kuya ku-Chips & Guac.)
14. Shintsha izinto.
Khuthaza amalungu omndeni ukuthi aphathe izimpahla angasazifuni (izingubo, ifenisha njll.) futhi enze i-round-robin yomndeni. Ungase uthole amathawula etiye ka-Anti Cindy athandwayo… (Uma ungokoqobo, yenza wonke umuntu u-Vanna White abe nezinto zakhe futhi uguqule indali lapho kuwina isizathu esingcono kakhulu sokufuna into eshiwo.)
15. Hamba uye endaweni ekhethekile.
Akuwona wonke ama-reunion adinga ukwenziwa ekhaya. Uma isabelomali sakho sivumelana nezimo, sisingathe ndawana thize ngezindawo ezikhangayo ezimnandi eningazizwa ndawonye. (Yebo, uhambo lwasebhishi oluqhelelene nomphakathi lapho wonke umuntu eshayela ngokuhlukana angasebenza uma wonke umuntu egqoke imaski futhi ethatha izinyathelo zokuphepha ezifanele.)
Klaus Vedfelt/Getty Izithombe16. Basa umlilo omkhulu.
Dala isilungiselelo esifanele sokuxoxa izindaba zomndeni (ikakhulukazi ezomndeni isipoki izindaba). Noma ngabe kungaphandle kwemvelo noma khona lapho egcekeni lakho, imililo ayigugi.17. Dlala ibhingo yokuhlangana.
Phrinta amakhadi ebhingo ngeimibuzo- kungukuthi, Izincazelo ebhokisini ngalinye (une-tattoo noma ukudla kwakhe okuthandayo kuyi-sushi). Abadlali babe sebezungeza, befuna amalungu omndeni afanele isigaba futhi bawatshele ukuthi asayine ibhokisi. Umdlalo uphela uma wonke umuntu ethola ibhingo. Ungase ufunde okuthile okusha ngoMalume uJohnny.
18. Yenza isipho se-monogram esifaka konke.
Hlobisa umndeni ngaphakathi kwehlaya noma ibinzana eliyintandokazi kuma-espadrilles, ama-hoodies noma amathawula. Wonke umuntu (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki) uthanda isikhwama se-goodie esiyisa ekhaya. Kodwa uma kufanele ukwenze cishe, cela wonke umuntu enze umusho ngenkathi bexoxa.
19. Dala ibha ye-nacho.
Impela, ungenza (noma uthenge) ipuleti le-nachos, kodwa ibha ye-DIY nacho ingaba mnandi kakhulu. Khetha itafula noma indawo yokucima ukoma yebha futhi ufake izitsha namapuleti okugcoba—yonke into kusukela kushizi kuya kuma-jalapeños kanye nenyama.
20. Thumela wonke umuntu ibhokisi elithi ‘Escape the Crate’ elibonakalayo.
Kubizwa Escape the Crate futhi wonke umuntu angasebenza ndawonye (ukude) ukuxazulula umkhondo ngamunye.
Klaus Vedfelt/Getty Izithombe21. Bhala phansi yonke into.
Thatha amavidiyo nezithombe zemisebenzi yakho yokuhlangana futhi ucele ukuthi izihlobo zisho amagama azo kanye nobudlelwano nabanye. Uma unolwazi ngobuchwepheshe, ungakha ireli futhi wenze amakhophi ukuze uthumele labo abebethamele (kanye nalabo abangakwazi ukuphumelela). Noma igcine ukuze uyibuke kumcimbi womndeni olandelayo. Okungcono nakakhulu, uma kufanele ube ngokoqobo ukuze uhlangane kabusha, hlela ukuze urekhode kusengaphambili izingxoxo, bese uzihlanganisa ndawonye ukuze uthole ividiyo ozoyisakaza lapho wonke umuntu edayela. Vele ubize wonke umuntu nge-PSA kusengaphambili: Iba nezicubu ezilungile.Mhlawumbe ithiphu elibaluleke kakhulu: Yiba nohlelo lokusekelayo. Iziphazamiso zesimo sezulu—noma ubhadane lomhlaba wonke—lungaphazamisa, kodwa inqobo nje uma unohlelo B, uzobe ulungele noma yini ephonswayo.
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