Uma uyingane yaseNdiya eyazizwa ikhohlisiwe ngemva kokubuka idrama yakho yokuqala yasesikoleni esiphakeme saseMelika, ngena emgqeni. Uma ubheka emuva ezinsukwini zakho zesikole samabanga aphakeme, okukhumbulayo nje ama-plait agcwele uwoyela, umfaniswano ongcolile kanye namadevu afiphele abafana abahlekisa ngawo. Bekungekho prom, umfana obekuqabula emnyango wakho wangaphambili ngemuva kwedethi emnandi, iqembu lebhola elishisayo, iklabhu yedrama noma lowo dokotela/uthisha othembekile ophindeke kabili njengomngane wakho. Ngineminyaka engu-25 ubudala, futhi namanje, akekho umfana oseke wangiqomisa phambi kwabazali bami, ungacabanga nje ukwesaba kwabo uma kufanele bangibone ngizihlalele nomfana osemusha, ngiphuza ama-slushies futhi ngenza. izingxoxo ezingajwayelekile. Ungawatholi kahle; abawona ama-anti-boys; kuyinto nje yesiko elinsundu.
Njengayo yonke impikiswano yokuphola, okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi kwasesikoleni esiphakeme kwakuwumqondo wangaphandle wezingane zaseNdiya, kodwa nansi umehluko omkhulu wamasiko wesikole samabanga aphezulu awu-5 ongenza ngifune ukubuyiselwa imali ngezinsuku zami.
Casuals Over Umfaniswano
Isithombe: @prettylittleiars
Into yokuqala ehlaba inhliziyo yakho yintsha ebukekayo oyibona kulawa madrama esikole samabanga aphezulu. Abagqoki nje kuphela ngokupholile, kodwa futhi bavunyelwe ukwamukela isitayela sabo, umqondo owawungajwayelekile kubaphathi besikole samabanga aphezulu saseNdiya. Khohlwa izinwele ezipinki noma ijazi lesikhumba; sakhishwa ngisho noma amahembe ethu ayisiphukuphuku ayengashutheki emfaniswaneni noma umucu wezinwele zethu wawungekho endaweni.
Amalokha Abanzi
Isithombe: @ucansi Amalokha? Yiziphi izingidi? Sacishe sathwala isaka elisindayo kunesisindo semizimba yethu, ngoba uNkulunkulu akavumi ukuba sikhohlwe incwadi eyodwa yokufunda. Intsha yasezikoleni eziphakeme zaseMelika inamalokha ayo amangalisayo aqondene nawe siqu lapho igcina khona izincwadi zayo futhi iwasebenzise ngenkathi izungezisa ikilasi, esikhundleni sokuhlephula iqolo.
House Party
Isithombe: @euphoria Namuhla njengabantu abadala asebekhulile sixabana nabazali bethu futhi sithole izindlela zethu uma kuziwa emaphathini, kodwa emuva emini, umqondo weqembu lentsha egcwele ama-hormone ekamelweni elingagadiwe wawuyonikeza amaphupho amabi abazali ansundu. Kunesizathu sokuthi kungani iningi lethu lalixakile emphakathini kwaze kwaba sekolishi ngenxa yokuthi sasingenazo lezi zilwane eziphihliza iqhwa ezikusiza ukuthuthukisa ubuntu ngaphandle kwekilasi.
Imfundo Engokoqobo
Isithombe: @atypicalnetflix Ngenkathi izimpilo zethu eziningi zasesikoleni samabanga aphezulu sizichithe ngaphandle kwesitolo samaphrinta senza amakhophi ezabelo eziwubuwula. Izingane zaseMelika zazimatasatasa zinezilingo eziyinhlekisa, izinkulumo-mpikiswano zokuguquguquka kwesimo sezulu kanye nemisebenzi yangempela ebambe iqhaza elibalulekile ekukhetheni imisebenzi. Asizange sifundiswe indlela yokucabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi; empeleni, sacishe saphoqeleka ukuba sifake imibala phakathi kwemigqa.
Isikhala Somuntu Siqu
Isithombe: @neverhaveiever
Indawo yomuntu siqu yinto abazali baseNdiya ababengakaze bakholelwe kuyo. Ngikhumbula ngibona isigameko lapho umbhangqwana osemusha wawuthokomele ekamelweni lentombazane, futhi umama engena ngaphandle kokungqongqoza, futhi WAXOLISA! Ummmm yini?!
Ukube bekuyindlu yamaNdiya ngabe kukhona amaphoyisa, isangoma nezicishamlilo (kanye no-anti womphakathi) kungakapheli nemizuzu emingaki ngoba omama abansundu bancamela ukushisa umuzi kunokuba bakuvumele unikeze isithunzi sakho *ukukhwehlela kobuntombi nto* ngaphambi kokukushadisa. isihambi. Ngaphandle kwalokho, izingane zaseMelika zingazishiya ngokuphelele izingxabano ngokuthi, Angikwazi ukwenza lokhu njengamanje, abazali baseNdiya ngeke baphume ekamelweni lakho uze uxolise ngezilimi ezintathu ezahlukene.
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