Esikhundleni sokupakisha ukudla kwasemini futhi ujikijele ingane ngayinye i-waffle lapho iphuma ngomnyango, nidla konke ukudla kwenu ekhaya njengomndeni kulezi zinsuku...futhi nigqoke ama-leggings 24/7. Lezi izingxenye ezinhle zokuncishiswa komphakathi. Kodwa kusukela kuvalwe isikole sezingane zakho, ubulokhu ukhathazekile ngokuthi ukufinyelela okulula kweziphazamiso (sawubona, Nintendo Switch) kuzozibuyisela emuva. Uzozigcina kanjani izingqondo zezingane zakho zibukhali? Kulula. Nansi imidlalo yobuchopho eyisithupha ehamba phambili, ngezilokotho zika-Becky Rodriguez, umama wangempela ofundisa ekhaya wezingane ezintathu (intombazane eneminyaka engu-4 nabafana ababili, abaneminyaka engu-8 nengu-9).
1. Yisho Leso Simo
Kulungele: Izingane zasenkulisa
Izimo eziyisisekelo esiqala ukufunda ngazo njengezingane—iziyingi, izikwele, onxantathu nonxande—zikhona yonke indawo emakhaya ethu. Indlela enhle yokufundisa izingane zakho ukuthi zizibona kanjani lezi zimo ukuzibuza ukuthi ziyini njengoba wenza umsebenzi ofana nokuhlanza.
Sizobeka kude amathoyizi endodakazi yami eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, futhi ngizothatha ibhlokhi ngenze sengathi ngiyakhohlwa ukuthi injani, kusho uRodriguez. Unolwazi oluncane ngakho konke futhi akakwazi ukuzibamba, ngakho-ke uzofana nokuthi, 'Isikwele, duh!' Ngakho-ke ngizozama ukumkhohlisa futhi ngibuze ngento efana nesihlalo sakhe esiyize, ingemuva elingunxande nesihlalo esiyisikwele. Kodwa wayithola!
2. Umsebenzi weTape
Kulungele: Abasacathula nabasenkulisa
Okudingayo kulo mdlalo umqulu wetheyiphu osuseka kalula, njengeteyiphu yomdwebi. Thola okuthile ingane yakho engafinyelela kuyo, njengetafula lekhofi. Susa izingcezu ze-tape futhi uzibeke phezu kwetafula-phezulu, ulenga onqenqemeni, emilenzeni. U-Rodriguez uphakamisa ukuthi ingxenye ye-tape, njengesiphetho noma igebe phakathi, ayithinti lutho. Lokhu kwenza kube lula ukuthi izingane zikubambe.
Umgomo lapha ulula: Susa ucezu ngalunye ngaphandle kokuluklebhula. Umsebenzi uhilela ubuchopho neminwe yengane yakho emsebenzini othile omnandi wemoto. Kuyamjabulisa, kodwa empeleni kumnandi kakhulu kimi ukumbona ezama ukuzitholela lokho eyedwa futhi eba nobuqili ngokwengeziwe, kusho uRodriguez.
3. Ukusabela kweChain
Kulungele: Iminyaka engu-6 nangaphezulu
Khetha uhlamvu, noma yiluphi uhlamvu, bese ukhetha igama eliqala ngalolo hlamvu. Ningaphindela emuva naphambili nezingane zakho kuze kube yilapho omunye wenu ephinda igama noma othile evala isikhathi eside kangangokuthi nonke niqhuma uhleko. Phinda kuze kube yizihlakaniphi.
Ngesikhathi sokugcina sidlala lokhu, sasidlala ngohlamvu C futhi ingane yami eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala yakhipha 'i-cardigan' ngaphandle kwendawo, kusho uRodriguez. Angikwazi ukukutshela okokugcina ngisho nokugqoka i-cardigan.
4. Okufanayo
Kulungele: Iminyaka engu-8 nangaphezulu
Izingane ezifunda ebangeni lesibili nelesithathu zifunda nje ukuthi igama elifanayo liyini, ngakho-ke kungani ungenzi umdlalo bese uzibuza kancane?
Sizoqala kancane, kusho uRodriguez. Ngemva kokuba uthunjana wami eyolala, mina nabafana sizoqala ngokuthi ‘muhle,’ bese omunye ethi ‘muhle’ noma ‘muhle.’ Bathola ukuncintisana kakhulu nakho!
5. I-Verbal Venn Diagram
Kulungele: Iminyaka engu-8 nangaphezulu
Leyo mibuthano egqagqene othisha bethu abayisebenzisile ukusisiza ukuthi sifunde ukuthi izinto noma imibono ingahlobana kanjani? Baseyinto. Kodwa ngenkathi wenza isidlo sakusihlwa futhi izingane zakho zikhala, Koze kube nini? ungabaphazamisa (futhi ubafundise).
Ngizokhomba izinto ezimbili—kule mpelasonto edlule bekuyishidi lokubhaka nephasela lama-chips kashokoledi—futhi ngizocela omdala wami, ofunda ibanga lesithathu, ukuba angitshele zonke izinto angacabanga ngazo eziphathelene nento ngayinye. , uthi. Uyoziqhenya kakhulu lapho bethi amakhukhisi we-chocolate chip noma isinkwa sikabhanana sikashokoledi, ngoba kusho ukuthi bayaqonda ukuthi ukwenza amakhekhe e-chocolate, udinga ishidi lokubhaka nama-chips, nokuthi ishidi lokubhaka lingena kuhhavini ngaphansi kwesinkwa. ipani uma senza isinkwa sikabhanana ngamashidi kashokoledi.
6. Odd Man Out
Kulungele: Yonke iminyaka
Awudingi umagazini ofundisayo onemifanekiso enemininingwane ukuze wenze ubuchopho bengane yakho busebenze. Lona futhi umdlalo umndeni wonke ongawudlala ndawonye, kungakhathaliseki ubudala.
Ngizobuza ingane yami eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala ukuthi yini engahlangene ne-apula, iwolintshi ne-baseball, kusho u-Rodriquez. Uyazi ukuthi bayimibuthano yonke kodwa uzoqonda ukuthi ezimbili ziyizithelo, ngakho ibhola seliphumile. Khona-ke ingane yakhe eneminyaka engu-8, ethanda ubuciko, izoba bomvu, owolintshi kanye nohlaza. Uzokwazi ukuthi oluhlaza, umbala opholile, yimpendulo. Futhi ingane yakhe eneminyaka engu-9 izothola uhlu olufana Iqandisiwe 2 , Ukuphila Okuyimfihlo Kwezilwane Ezifuywayo futhi VeggieTales , futhi kuyodingeka aqaphele ukuthi amabili okuqala angamamuvi kanti eyesithathu uhlelo lwe-TV.
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