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Abantu bashada eminyakeni ehlukene njengokukhetha. Njengoba kunje, ayikho ngokunembile iminyaka efanelekile yomshado yize abantu bezizwa ukuthi noma nini phakathi kweminyaka yobudala engama-25 nengama-30 yiminyaka engcono kakhulu yokushada. Lo ngumbono ojwayelekile wabo bonke abantu abahlala emphakathini.
Inkambiso yomphakathi ibalula lo mugqa wesikhathi njengokuhamba phambili ekushadweni. Kulesi sihloko, uzohlola izinkinga zokushada sekwedlule isikhathi, zonke izingqinamba ezibhekene nemibhangqwana ekhetha ukubambezela imishado yayo nokushada ngesikhathi wonke umuntu asithatha 'njengesishiywe yisikhathi'.
Iyini Iminyaka Ebhekwa 'Njengesikhathi Eside' Ukushada?
Yebo, yisikhathi esidlule iminyaka efanelekile yomshado engama-25-30. Kwabesilisa, ngisho i-30-35 ingaba yiminyaka yokushada. Imibono iyehluka futhi asikwazi ukusho ngqo ukuthi yimiphi iminyaka ephuzile. Kodwa-ke, ngokuya ngombono womphakathi ojwayelekile, iminyaka engaphezulu kwengama-35 yamadoda nangaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30-32 yabesifazane ibhekwa njengephuzile.
Ake siqhubeke sibheke izinkinga zomshado ophuzile futhi umuntu kufanele agweme ukuba nawo. Izizathu zilula futhi ziyaziwa kodwa sivame ukungazinaki lezi zizathu. Lo mbhalo uzokukhumbuza ngalezi zizathu futhi uzokuqondisa emshadweni.
Nazi izinkinga zobudlelwano ezi-7 zomshado obambezelekile.
Intshiseko Yentsha Isiphelile
Izinto obungazenza ukube ubumncane kahle, lokho kwenza ukushada sekwedlule isikhathi kube yinkinga enkulu. Intshiseko nentokozo yentsha ithatha isigqi uma ukhetha ukushada sekwephuze kakhulu. Izinto ongazenza nomlingani wakho nazo zikhawulelwe ngaphandle kokuthi wena nabalingani bakho ninomdlandla owedlulele emvelweni. Uma ushada sekwephuzile, izinto ozenza komncane zibukeka njengomdlalo wengane futhi ucabanga ukukuziba. Kepha lezi zinto ezenziwa imibhangqwana esencane, zigcina isasasa lazo emshadweni ziphila futhi zibasiza ukuba babe nesibopho esiqinile.
Emishadweni sekwephuzile, lo mdlandla awubonakali. Imibhangqwana ikhule ngokwengeziwe futhi icabanga ukwenza izinto ezenziwa ezinye izithandani eminyakeni yazo. Abayinaki imisebenzi yemibhangqwana yokuqala eshadile. Ngakho-ke ukubumbana phakathi kwabo kuncane kunalabo abashade ngesikhathi.
Izimali Ziba Kokubaluleke Kakhulu Kakhulu
Akunjalo ukuthi ezezimali azibalulekanga ngenye indlela. Kepha esimweni sokushada sekwedlule isikhathi, ukuhlela ezezimali kuza kuqala kunezinye izinto eziningi. Konke kuncike kwezezimali nokuthi ungaphatha kanjani nokuthi uwakha kanjani umndeni ungena esithombeni okwenza imali ibe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubo.
I-Rush Yezingane
Ukujaha izingane kungenye indlela esebenza njengobubi obukhulu bokushada sekwedlule isikhathi. Izingane ziba isihloko sengxoxo kaningi kunalokho futhi awukwazi ngempela ukuthi cha, akunjalo? Umndeni wakho ulokhu ubuza, izihlobo zakho, abangane nabantu bakho abangomakhelwane. Imibuzo engapheli eza nengxoxo ikwenza uzwe ukuthi isidingo sengane ingokoqobo bese uqala ukugijimela ukwenza umntwana.
Awunikeli Umcabango Owenele
Uma ngabe usebudlelwaneni nomlingani wakho isikhathi esihle ngaphambi kokushada, kulungile. Iningi labantu, uma libheka iminyaka, lishesha kakhulu futhi liyashada ngaphandle kokuqonda ngokunembile okungase kugcinwe.
Uzizwa Uxakile Ngawe
Ugcina uzizwa uxakile ngawe ngoba uvele ubone ukuthi umngani wakho usevele unengane efunda isikole usanda kushada. Kukukhathaza wena nomlingani wakho. Lokhu kuletha eminye imibuzo engqondweni yakho futhi kwesinye isikhathi ulokhu uzithuka wena ngokungashadi kusenesikhathi. Uyazisola ngesinqumo sokushada sekwedlule isikhathi.
Ukuthola Kunzima Ukunika Umlingani Wakho Isikhathi Esanele
Uma ushada sekwedlule isikhathi, kaningi kunalokho, umsebenzi wakho ubaluleke kakhulu. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngeminyaka, kuba nzima ngawe ukuguqula imigqa yomsebenzi futhi uncike ngokweqile emsebenzini wakho. Lokhu kukwenza unikeze izidingo zomsebenzi wakho, noma kungenangqondo kangakanani, kungavumeli isikhathi esanele somlingani wakho.
Umsebenzi Oncishisiwe Wezocansi
Ingcindezi ekhanda lakho yokulinganisela izinto ayikuvumeli ukwenza ucansi ngesizotha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-testosterone iyaphela ngobudala, kwabesilisa futhi injabulo ayifani ngenkathi usemncane. Kwabesifazane, isifiso sokwenza ucansi siyehla ngokuya ngeminyaka. Umsebenzi wezocansi owehlisiwe uba yisizathu sokuqalekisana nokushada sekwedlule isikhathi.
Lezi zizathu zisitshela ukuthi, umshado kufanele uhlelwe kahle futhi kufanele wenzeke ngesikhathi esifanele. Awukwazi nje ukushada nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngesikhathi. Umzimba wakho, ingqondo yakho nezinye izinto zibaluleke kakhulu emshadweni. Awukwazi ukuwabalekela nje. Sengikushilo lokho, umshado uyisenzo sabantu ababili abahlanganayo futhi uma kwenzeka phambilini kungcono.
Uma ukuthandile ukufunda i-athikili, nikeza impendulo yakho ngezansi esigabeni sokuphawula.
Khuluma nami uma unombuzo onobuhlobo. Ungangibhalela ku-boldsky@oneindia.co.in
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