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Ngabe ubona sengathi isoka lakho alisakunaki? Uyakugwema yini ukukuyisa emicimbini noma emicimbini? Ngabe izingcingo zakho nemibhalo yakho kuyazitshwa njalo? Uyekile ukwazisa imizamo oyenzayo ebudlelwaneni? Ungase ube nomuzwa wokuthi isoka lakho lishintshe kakhulu kanjalo nobudlelwano bakho. Ungazizwa uthanda ukuthandana nohlangothi olulodwa.
Hhayi lokhu kuphela, kepha kungaba nezikhathi lapho angagxeka khona imikhuba yakho, izinkolelo, imibono nemicabango yakho. Uma lokhu kunjalo kuwe, ngakho-ke yisikhathi esiphezulu lapho udinga ukumenza abone ukubaluleka kwakho. Ukwazi ukuthi ungamenza kanjani abone ukubaluleka kwakho, skrolela phansi i-athikili ukuze ufunde kabanzi.
1. Vuma Ukuzihlonipha Kwakho
Ngaphambi kokwenza isoka lakho libone ukuzihlonipha kwakho, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazise okukufanele. Udinga ukuzikhumbuza ukuthi uyamangalisa futhi ufanelwe ukuthandwa futhi uzizwe ukhethekile. Awuyona into okufanele igcinwe ekhoneni lendlu yakhe. Ngakho-ke into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyenze yeka ukucabanga ngokudabukisayo futhi wazi ukuthi uzenyeza.
2. Yeka Ukumfonela Noma Ukumthumelela Imiyalezo
Ingabe nguwe ohlale ushayela noma ubhala kuqala? Ngabe ushiya imibhalo yakho nezingcingo zinganakiwe? Uma kunjalo ngawe lapho-ke singaqonda ukuthi uzizwa kabi kangakanani. Akunakubakhona okucindezelayo njengokuhlangabezana nokuziphatha okunjalo kusuka othandweni lwempilo yakho. Kepha-ke, yini iphuzu lokusula izinyembezi ngemibhalo yakho engabhekiwe nezingcingo? Esikhundleni sokumshayela ucingo noma umthumele umlayezo kaninginingi, menze akufonele noma akuthumele umyalezo. Ekuqaleni, angahle angakufoneli noma akuthumele imiyalezo ngenxa yokuthi ujwayele umbono wentombazane yakhe ethatha isinyathelo kuqala. Kepha lapho nje eqaphela ukwehla kwezingcingo nemibhalo yakho, nakanjani uzozama ukukuthola.
3. Zigcine Umatasa Kokuthize Okukhiqizayo
Esikhundleni sokuzizwa ulusizi futhi unxuse ukunakwa kwakhe, ongakwenza ukuzigcina umatasa kokuthile okukhiqizayo. Zibandakanye ekwenzeni izinto ezingakwenza uzizwe ungcono. Isibonelo, uma uthanda ukuthenga, hamba ngokufanayo, funda incwadi enhle, uziphekele okuthile okumnandi noma ubuke i-movie enhle. Ngale ndlela ngeke uzigcine umatasa nje kuphela kepha uzophinde uziphazamise ebumnyameni.
4.Chitha Isikhathi Nabangane Bakho
Ukuze wenze umuntu wakho abone ukubaluleka kwakho, udinga impilo ngaphandle kobuhlobo bakho. Udinga ukumenza aqonde ukuthi impilo yakho ayigxile kuye. Ngalokhu, chitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nabangane bakho. Uma ubulokhu ufuna ukuthatha uhambo negenge yakho yentombazane, manje-ke lesi yisikhathi lapho ungenza uhlelo bese upakisha izikhwama zakho. Ukukubona unesikhathi sakho noma ungekho kuzomenza azizwe enomona. Angaba nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa nguwe futhi kulapho-ke ezokunaka ngokwengeziwe futhi ngokwengeziwe.
5. Nciphisa Ukwenza Imisebenzi Yakhe
Esinye sezizathu sokuthi kungani engakuhloniphi ukuzihlonipha kwakho futhi akuthathe kalula kungenxa yokuthi akaqondi ukuthi umenzela malini. Angahle angaziqapheli izikhathi lapho umphekela khona, umwashela izingubo zakhe, unakekela impilo yakhe, njll. Empeleni, kungaba nezikhathi lapho angakuhleka usulu ungenzi lutho. Kepha yisikhathi lapho udinga ukumenza abone iqhaza olibambayo empilweni yakhe. Udinga ukukhawulela ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe. Akaziphekele athathe nezimpahla zakhe azowasha. Yilapho ezokuqonda khona ukubaluleka kwakho.
6. Veza Imizwelo Yakho Ngezenzo Zakho
Uke wayizwa le nkulumo, 'izenzo zikhuluma kakhulu kunamazwi'. Esikhundleni sokuzizwa kabi futhi ukhungathekile ngokuziphatha okubandayo kwesoka lakho, veza imizwa yakho ngezenzo zakho. Isibonelo, mtshele ukuthi awujabule ngenxa yokungazi kwakhe. Uma ekucela ukuthi wenze imisebenzi yakhe, lapho-ke ungaphika ukuthi uyayenza futhi uveze ukungavumelani kwakho ngezinqumo zakhe ezingohlangothi olulodwa. Akudingeki ukuthi umbone kaningi noma ube yintombi elalelayo.
7. Thatha Izinqumo Ngokwakho
Uma ungomunye walezo zintombi ezidla futhi zigqoke okuvunyelwa amasoka azo, lapho-ke udinga ukushintsha indlela oziphatha ngayo. Ungahle ungakuboni lokhu kepha ukuvumela isoka lakho likuthathele izinqumo kungamenza angakunaki ukubaluleka kwakho. Ungavumeli isoka lakho ukuthi liphoqelele izinqumo nezinqumo zalo kuwe. Uma ufuna ukugqoka isiketi ungavumeli isoka lakho likuphoqe ukuthi ugqoke amajini. Kubalulekile ukuthi uthathe izinqumo uwedwa. Akunangqondo ekudleni isaladi ngoba efuna ukuthi uyidle.
8. Zithande Futhi Uzithobe
Ngaphandle kokuthi awuzithandi futhi uzenze uzizwe ufanelekile, ungalindela kanjani ukuthi abanye bakuhloniphe ukubaluleka kwakho? Imvamisa abesifazane bavame ukungabanaki kangako ngoba bamatasa ekwenzeni amadoda abo azizwe ebalulekile. Udinga ukuqala ukuzithanda. Zithambise futhi uzivumele ube nokunakekelwa nothando oludingekayo. Ngalokhu, ungaya esaluni, uhlanganyele nabangane, uye eholidini, ulandele izintshisekelo zakho futhi usebenzise 'isikhathi sami' esiningi.
9. Gwema Ukubekezelela Ukuziphatha Kwakhe
Lokhu kungenye into ebalulekile okudingeka uyenze uma ufuna ukuthi isoka lakho libone ukuzethemba kwakho. Uma ungajabule ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe kokungazi, mtshele okufanayo. Mtshele ukuthi uzizwa kanjani uma engahambi izingcingo zakho noma imibhalo yakho ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo. Mvimbe ekulawuleni impilo yakho umazise ukuthi ufanelwe okungcono.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ubudlelwano obungeneme abusoze bakwenza ujabule. Kuzokwenza uzizwe ungaphatheki kahle ngezikhathi ezithile. Esikhundleni sokubekezelela ukungaziphathi kahle kwakhe nokungazi, ungaya ebudlelwaneni obungcono. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ubudlelwano obujabulisayo bumayelana nokuhloniphana nokuhambisana.