Owesifazane waba buhlungu lapho isimemo somshado kadadewabo singafiki ne-plus one.
Wabuza uReddit Ngabe ngingu-A******? inkundla ukuze uthole iseluleko. Unentombi ashade nayo iminyaka emibili, kodwa umndeni kadadewabo kadadewabo awuzithandi izitabane. Ukuze agweme ukungqubuzana emshadweni, udade akavumeli iphosta ye-Reddit ukuthi ilethe intombi yakhe emcimbini.
Ngingongqingili, futhi sengihlale nentombi yami cishe iminyaka emibili manje, yona wachaza . Umndeni wami, kuhlanganise nodadewethu, konke kuhamba kahle njengoba ngiyisitabane futhi ngisekela ubuhlobo bami. Kodwa-ke, umkhwenyana wakhe uvela emndenini ohlukumezayo futhi okholwayo, kanti nakuba yena ngokwakhe ephilile, umndeni wakhe owandisiwe unendabuko futhi uphikisana nezitabane. Udadewethu wanginika isimemo sami mathupha esikhundleni sokusithumela futhi wachaza ukuthi angitholi plus eyodwa ngoba ukuba nezithandani ezithandanayo emshadweni kungase kugcine kudala idrama eminingi ngasohlangothini lwakhe lomndeni.
Iphosta yakwaReddit yayicabanga ukuthi uphathwa ngendlela ehlukile kunezinye izingane zakubo.
Zonke ezinye izingane zakithi zine-plus one futhi zamukelekile ukuletha (i-hetero) ozakwethu, yena wabhala . Ngiyaqonda ukuthi uvelaphi, kodwa kusezwakala njengempama enjalo ebusweni. Ngeke ngizame ukumphoqa ukuthi angihlanganise, kodwa ngicabanga ngokungananazi ukungayi. Ngiyamthanda udadewethu, kodwa angikhululekile ukuchitha usuku lonke ngedwa, kuyilapho ezinye izingane zakithi zivunyelwe ukuletha ophathina bazo, ngenxa nje yokuthi udadewethu ufuna ukuhlinzeka inqwaba yabantu abakhulu.
AbakwaRedditors bathole isenzo salo dade sicasula.
Udadewabo [wesithombe sangempela] kanye nomlingani wakhe bakhethe ukugunyaza inzondo yabantu abathandanayo abathandanayo, futhi lokho kulimaza kakhulu, umsebenzisi ubeke amazwana .
Ufanelwe ukuphathwa ngenhlonipho efanayo nezinye izingane zakini, enye kusho .
Udadewenu usekulungele ukukuzwisa ubuhlungu nokukuthuka kunokunyakazisa umkhumbi, othile wabhala .
I-In The Know isiyatholakala ku-Apple News - silandele lapha !
Uma uyijabulele le ndaba, hlola lo mama oqophe ngephutha isikhathi esiqondile esisindise umshado wakhe.
