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Ukuze ube nobudlelwano nentombazane enamahloni, udinga ukuhamba ngejubane lakhe kungenjalo, uzogxumela kolunye uhlangothi lwethrekhi. Ukuqonda intombazane enamahloni lapho uyinhloko phezu kwezithende othandweni nayo kuyinselele futhi kunzima.
Kodwa-ke, kunezindlela ezithile zokuphula iqhwa phakathi kwenu nobabili. Udinga ukuthatha isinyathelo sokubambezeleka futhi uzinze ukuze unqobe umjaho.
Ubudlelwano nentombazane enamahloni kungaholela ekutheni umfana alahleke emicabangweni yakhe. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukuqonda umqondo wokumenza azizwe eyinkosazana. Impela, kuzoba khona ipharadesi kanye noNovemba lina ngokungathi kungqongqoza umnyango wezulu uma eseqala ukumphatha ngendlela afuna ngayo.
Nakhu ukuthi ungaba kanjani nobudlelwano nentombazane enamahloni. Kulula futhi kulula ukulandela. Yenza ucwaningo oluncane ngentombazane ngaphambi kokuthi uthathe igxathu eliya phambili.
1. Thola isigaba samahloni angena kuso
Kunezinhlobo ezintathu ezahlukene zokuba namahloni uma kukhulunywa ngentombazane.
Unamahloni ngomlomo - Ukhuluma kancane kakhulu futhi imvamisa akabi nalutho engxoxweni.
Unamahloni ngokomzimba - Uyahoxa lapho ethintwa.
Vala unamahloni - Uma engavumeli ubudlelwano bakho budlule izinkulumo ezincane ezedlule.
Lezi yizinhlobo ezintathu futhi udinga ukuthola ukuthi ungowasiphi isigaba. Kuba lula kuwe ukwazi ukuthi ungamthinta kanjani empilweni yansuku zonke nokuthi yini okudingeka uyenze ukumenza avuleke ngaye.
2. Ukuba sebudlelwaneni nentombazane enamahloni kunzima
Udinga ukuhlonipha imvelo yakhe enamahloni futhi uhambe nokugeleza. Ungamcindezeli ukuthi enze noma yini angakhululeki ngayo. Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho lezi zinhlobo zamantombazane zingafuni ukuhlala zodwa nawe.
Muse endaweni lapho kunabantu abaningi khona, kuzomenza azizwe ekhululekile. Kunzima ukulungisa ngale ndlela, kepha kuzomenza anethezeke kakhulu ukuba nawe futhi kancane kancane uzodedela amahloni akhe futhi akhululeke nawe. Konke okudingeka ukwenze ukubekezela futhi uvumele izinto zenzeke ngendlela obekufanele kwenzeke ngayo.
3. Ukukhathazeka ngezinga lakhe lokunethezeka
Qaphela ukushukuma komzimba wakhe ukuthola ukuthi usendaweni engakhululekile yini. Uma kunjalo, mbuze ukuthi angathanda yini ukuhamba. Ukubheka intombazane yakho enamahloni ebudlelwaneni bakho ngelinye ilanga kuzodiliza izindonga zalolu hlobo. Khathalela kakhulu lokho akuthandayo nalokho angakuthandi futhi leyo yindlela ongamqonda ngayo, ungene ngaphakathi ekujuleni kwengqondo yakhe okuvame ukufakwa yingqondo enganakile yokuba namahloni.
Ukukhathazeka kumbonisa ngesimo sakho sengqondo kuye. Lokhu kumenza abe nendawo yokunethezeka uma useduze kwakhe.
4. Khetha isihloko esifanele ukukhuluma ngaso
Ngale ndlela, uzofunda ukuzethemba futhi izinto zizohamba kahle. Ungakhulumi ngomlando wakhe omubi uma wazi okunye kuze kube yilapho ekulungele ukukhuluma nawe ngakho. Myeke azivule njengoba ethanda. Ungamcindezeli ukuthi aveze imicabango yakhe kuwe. Ngeke ngaphandle uma engafuni. Lihloniphe lelo qiniso ngaye. Khuluma ngezihloko azithandayo, kunalezo ezingamvala umlomo.
Khumbula ukuthi ufuna avuleke kuwe angafani njengoba enjalo kubo bonke abanye abantu. Udinga ukukhuluma ngezinto ezinengqondo kuye nangezinto eziletha isimo esijabulisayo kuye. Thola izihloko athanda ukuzifunda, axoxe ngazo futhi abhale ngazo. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi nihlalisane kahle.
5. Mnike isikhala esanele ebudlelwaneni
Ukuba sebudlelwaneni nentombazane enamahloni kungathatha isikhathi eside ukuthi ivulele abanye ithuba. Amantombazane anamahloni athambile ngokomzwelo, ngakho-ke okusemqoka ukuba nomusa. Kungenzeka zingabi khona izizathu zokuba namahloni noma zingaba ziningi kakhulu futhi ngeke akuvumele ungene kulo inqobo nje uma engazizwa ethanda ukuba naye kuze kube phakade.
Unenhliziyo ethambile, okugcina lokho isihlangu sokuba namahloni. Ukuze azivulele wena, angahle adinge isikhala esiningi somuntu siqu futhi lokho kungenzeka kuphela uma umnika sona. Khumbula, kumayelana nokuba naye. Uma umfuna ngempela, udinga ukwenza izichibiyelo ezinjengalezi.
Landela lezi zeluleko futhi ufune uthando olufunayo entombini yakho enamahloni. Kuhle ukumbekezelela kule nqubo.