Ukhula nezingane zakini, kungenzeka ukuthi awuzange ucabange ukuthi abazali bakho babekuqhathanisa ngasese futhi bakubeke kwabanye. Abazali akufanele babe nezintandokazi, kodwa ku- 2005 isifundo , amaphesenti angu-74 omama namaphesenti angu-70 obaba avuma ukuthi banentandokazi—ngakho mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokukhuluma nabazali bakho ngakho.
Eyodwa I-TikTok Ubaba wephula le khodi yomzali engashiwongo futhi uchazela umhlaba ukuthi kanjani futhi kungani ekhethe ingane yakhe ayithanda kakhulu nengayithanda kakhulu .
Abantu bathi ‘Zach, awunazo izintandokazi ezinganeni zakho!’ ubaba , odlula ku-@forrealb inkundla , kusho ekuqaleni kwevidiyo. I-f*** angifuni! Nanku umehluko omkhulu wokuthi kungani ngithanda omdala kakhulu.
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Ingane kaZach eyintandokazi yakhe endala ngoba iyazwela futhi inomthwalo wemfanelo.
Uphula isibani sika- esivela ku-Walmart, ubungacabanga ukuthi ungidubule endaweni engenalutho. Uyavevezela futhi uyakhala futhi ngifana nokuthi ‘S’thandwa kulungile, ubujaha inja . S*** kuyenzeka!’ esho ngenkulu yakhe.
Uthunjana wami, lowo ngqondongqondo omncane, uza kimi enqunu-imbongolo bese ethi, ‘Baba ngiziphonse ngemuva kombhede,’ kuchaza u-Zach ku-TikTok. Uyisilwane esif***ing.
Ukhohlwe ukufunda imigomo nemibandela lapho ebhalisela ukuba ubaba… umuntu oyedwa waphendula, ebhekisela eqinisweni lokuthi, yebo, abazali kufanele babhekane nezinye izinto ezimbi uma kuziwa ezinganeni ezincane.
Uyintandokazi yakho encane kakhulu ngoba ufana nawe kakhulu, kuphendule omunye wamazwana.
Kodwa ingxenye enkulu, abantu babecabanga ukuthi isiqeshana sasihlekisa futhi siyisikhumbuzo sokuthi ukukhulisa umzali kungaba nzima kangakanani.
Abazali be-TikTok bayizilawuli zokuzalwa ezihamba phambili, omunye umuntu waphawula.
Angikwazi ukulinda baze babone lokhu lapho sebebadala, kwengezwe umsebenzisi oyedwa.
Kungani lokhu kuhlobene kangaka, omunye umuntu wabhala. Nginentandokazi, angibatsheli nje lokho. Wonke umzali unentandokazi yakhe futhi uma uthi awunayo, uqamba amanga!
Uma ukujabulele ukufunda lesi sihloko, ungase futhi uthande ukufunda mayelana lo mama ubhekene necala nge-TikTok yakhe.
