Ubaba ufuna ukwazi ukuthi iziteketiso zamadodakazi akhe amabili, eneminyaka engu-8 nengu-5, ziyinhlamba ngempela yini.
Ubaba wafuna usizo kwaReddit Ngingu-A****** inkundla. Uthe ukubiza amadodakazi akhe ngokuthi uPollyanna noPrima donna kufanele kuthandeke. Nokho, womabili la magama athathwa njengokwehlisa isithunzi kwabesifazane.
U-Pollyanna uchaza owesifazane ongaboni ithemba ngokulimaza kwakhe. Kuvinjelwe ukusetshenziswa kwaleli gama emakilasini yi-American Federation of Teachers ngokuba ngocansi. Ngaleso sikhathi, i-BBC News ibize u-prima donna, owesifazane onesimo esibi, igama elibi usahlala emsebenzini .
Indodakazi yami endala inobuntu bengane kufilimu kaKhisimusi ethola umnikazi webhange okhohlakele ukuthi asindise ikhaya lezintandane, wabhala . Ngokujulile ukukhanya kwelanga, uthingo, ubuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lapho esemncane, wadlulela esigabeni se-Disney sakudala, futhi intandokazi yakhe kwakungu-‘Pollyanna.’ Wayezenza umlingiswa wesihloko, futhi isiteketiso sibambelele.
Wabe esechaza ukuthi ingane yakhe eneminyaka engu-5 ubudala yayithola kanjani isidlaliso sayo.
Uyingane enekhanda eliqinile, enganyakaziswa engake ngahlangana nayo futhi enekhono lokudlala imidlalo, wabhala . Ngiyakuthanda lokhu ngaye! Wayevame ukuphonsa okumangalisayo. Phakathi nalokhu kuphazamiseka, umkami wambiza ngokuthi ‘Prima donna’ futhi isiteketiso sahlala sahlala.
Kodwa ubaba waqala ukungabaza lapho unina emshayela ucingo ebonisa ukuthi akakwamukeli.
Wathi bazokwenza izingane zami zizizwe zihlukene futhi ngidlala ezingxenyeni ezimbi zobuntu bazo. Angicabangi ukuthi zimbi! wabhala . Ngempela, mina nomkami sicabanga ukuthi zingamagama eziteketiso amahle futhi amantombazane awakaze azwakalise ukucasuka yizo. Cishe baphinde babizwe ngamagama abo angempela ngamaphesenti angama-80 esikhathi. Manje ngiyazibuza kodwa.
I-Reddit commentariat yayimnene kubaba onenhloso enhle, kodwa isinqumo siwukuthi: ubaba unephutha lapha.
Udinga ukubona ukuthi ukwenza isiteketiso sengane yakho kube inhlamba engokoqobo kuzokwehlisa kanjani ukuzethemba kwayo kwehlise izikhonkwane ezimbalwa. Umama wangibiza ngokuthi 'indlovukazi yedrama' impilo yami yonke, umsebenzisi oyedwa wabhala . Kwaqhubeka emndenini wami futhi ngenxa yokuthi kwakunezincazelo zokuzwela ngokweqile, ukungacabangeli kanye nolaka, akekho wangithatha ngokungathi sína.
Iziteketiso obanikeze zona zingamalebula, hhayi iziteketiso. Futhi uwabele ukuzijabulisa kwakho, hhayi ngoba izingane zizithanda, kusho oyedwa .
Ubona lokhu njengento enhle futhi engenacala futhi ngiyabona ukuthi kungani. Kodwa-ke, zombili lezi ziteketiso zinezincazelo ezingezinhle kakhulu, othile wabhala.
Uma usijabulele lesi sihloko, bheka lo baba ugqamisa ukuhlukana kwesizukulwane kulesi siqeshana esivula amehlo.
