Ukuqhelelana komphakathi kuyashintsha ukuthandana njengoba sikwazi. Ngekusasa elibonakalayo, ukuphela kwendlela yokuxhumana nomuntu omusha ubuso nobuso ngengxoxo yevidiyo.
Nansi into, nokho - ukuqomisana kungenzeka ehluke kakhulu kokujwayelekile njengamanje , kodwa akunjalo kubi. Eqinisweni, isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokuthandana, ngokusho kwesazi sokuqomisana esisodwa.
Serene F ******* Kerrigan , umgqugquzeli wenkundla yezokuxhumana owaziwa nge Indlovukazi Yokuzethemba , wabelane ngezizathu ezinhlanu zokuthi kungani kufanele wamukele okujwayelekile okusha futhi uziphathe ngendlela ehlehlisiwe nomuntu omthandayo.
1. Azikho izingxoxo zemali ezixakile
Ikhredithi: Serena Kerrigan / In The Know's AmiLin McClure
UKerrigan utshele In The Know ukuthi izinsuku ezingokoqobo zilula kakhulu ukuzihlanganisa ngoba imali ayiyona into. Leyo ingxoxo eyodwa engathandeki ongadingi ukuba nayo.
Akumele sikhathazeke ngokuthi sizoyaphi ngosuku lwethu lokuqala, sizothenga iziphuzo ezingaki, kusho yena. Ngabe uzokhokha? Ngabe uzokhokha? Imali ayisekho etafuleni.
2. Ingcindezi encane yokusondelana ngokomzimba
Ikhredithi: Serena Kerrigan / In The Know's AmiLin McClure
Njengoba kuzohlala okungenani kunezinyawo eziyisithupha ezikwehlukanisa nosuku lwakho, uKerrigan uthe ngeke kudingeke ukhathazeke ngezinhloso zabo.
Akumele ukhathazeke, uma ngingakumemela ukuthi ubuyele efulethini lami, kusho yena. Eqinisweni, okuwukuphela kwento ozokwenza ngempela uma usuhlangane nomuntu ohlelweni lokusebenza lokuqomisana ukukhuluma.
3. Inkulumo encane encane
Isikweletu: Serena Kerrigan / In The Know's AmiLin McClure
Yize abantu abaningi benza okuncane kakhulu manje kunangaphambi kokuvalelwa, lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele uthembele enkulumweni encane eyisicefe ukuze uqhubeke nengxoxo.
Eqinisweni, wonke umuntu njengamanje olandela imihlahlandlela yokuqhela emphakathini uhambisana nalelo qiniso - ngakho-ke ngokuzenzekelayo uba nesihloko esisodwa esibalulekile ongaxoxa ngaso nosuku lwakho.
Ngenze isinkwa sikabhanana izolo, ngacishe ngashisa indlu yami. Kwakuyisiqalo esihle sengxoxo, kusho uKerrigan. Futhi bengingeke ngikwenze ukube bekungengenxa yalokhu.
4. Izigxobo eziphansi
Ikhredithi: Serena Kerrigan / In The Know's AmiLin McClure
Sonke sike saba khona - usosukwini lwakho futhi kuqala kahle ekuqaleni, kodwa ekugcineni, uyabona ukuthi awunalo nhlobo ikhemistri nalo muntu.
Kunokuba uqedele ukudla kwakho bese uhlela indlela yokubaleka kahle, u-Kerrigan uthe ukuqomisana okubonakalayo kukunikeza inketho yokumane uvale ucingo ubuyele ebhizinisini lakho.
Nobabili ninamandla okuvele nicindezele ikhefu ukuze niqede ingxoxo, etshela u-In The Know. Abantu banomqondo ovulekile nje. Yini embi kakhulu engenzeka?
5. Isikhathi esengeziwe endaweni yakho yokunethezeka
Ikhredithi: Serena Kerrigan / In The Know's AmiLin McClure
Amadethi abonakalayo aphephile ngokwemvelo kunalawo okumele uwashiyele indlu yakho. Akudingeki ukuthi ushiye usofa wakho noma ushintshe amabhulukwe uma ungafuni.
Awuyi endaweni yokucima ukoma noma yokudlela ukuyohlangana nomuntu ongamazi, kusho uKerrigan. Njengokuthi, uphephile ngokoqobo ekhaya.
Yize ukuthandana nomuntu ovalelwe yedwa kungase kungabonakali kukuhle, zikhona zonke izinhlobo zezinzuzo ezifihliwe. Ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye, sebenzisa lesi sikhathi esiyingqayizivele ukwenza izinto obungajwayele ukuzenza.
Uma ukhuluma nomuntu, futhi uyamthanda ... landela, kusho uKerrigan. FaceTime nabo. Awunalutho ongalahlekelwa.
Uma uyijabulele le ndaba, ungase futhi uthande ukufunda ngayo S'More, uhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana olulingana nokuthi 'Uthando Luyimpumputhe.'
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