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Sonke sizwile ngesaga esidumile- 'Umngane weqiniso.' Kepha, mhlawumbe asisebenzisi le ngxenye yokuhlakanipha kaningi futhi simatasa kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu kangangokuthi ukusiza abanye kube ngumqondo ongaziwa. Kulo nyaka, ku-2019, usuku lobungani lungo-4 Agasti futhi sonke manje sinesizathu sokusiza abangane bethu abaswele futhi sibenze bajabule ngokwengeziwe.
Umngani wakho kungenzeka ukuthi unengcindezi, unenkinga yemali, angahle abe umlutha noma kungenzeka ukuthi uke wahlukana. Angaba futhi ekucindezelekeni. Ukuze usize umngane wakho, kufanele ubheke ekujuleni kobuhlungu abakubo. Kufanele usiqonde isimo sabo, uzibeka lapho futhi ucabange ukuthi ubuzothini esimweni sakhe bese uqala ukucabanga ngesixazululo. Ubungani yithempeli lokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu ababili, lapho wena nomngani wakho nixhumene khona.
Ubungani budinga ukwethembana nokukholwa komunye nomunye futhi ikakhulukazi, ukulungela ukusiza omunye nomunye ngesikhathi sokudinga. Ngakho-ke uma ucabanga ukuthi umngani wakho uyakudinga, qala ngokumsiza aphume kulesi simo akuso.
Lapho Abangane Bakho Bakudinga
Kunezimpawu ezimbalwa ezibonisa ukuthi umngane wakho ukudinga kakhulu. Izimpawu ezithile ezikwenza ubone ukuthi umngani wakho uyakudinga ushintsha ngokungazelelwe ekuziphatheni kwakhe, izingcingo zakhe ezijwayelekile azikubizi lapho, uxhumene nabo ngokomzwelo futhi lapho bekuphazamisa uzwa lowo mqondo.
Uyazi futhi ukuthi umngani wakho uyakudinga lapho ubona ubuso babo obuhle futhi obudumisayo buguquka bube nsundu noma buthuntu. Lezi yizimpawu ezilula ezikwenza ubone ukuthi umngani wakho uyakudinga futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ubasize.
Siza Umngani Wakho Ngezikhathi Zonke
Kakhulu, abantu bathola izinkinga kulesi simo. Bazi ukuthi umngani wabo uyadinga kepha abaqiniseki ukuthi bangasiza kanjani ekusizeni umngani wabo aphume kulesi simo akuso. Yebo, le ndatshana izokusiza ekutholeni indlela yokuya kumngani wakho ngokusiza izandla.
Lapho wazi ukuthi umngani wakho udinga usizo lwakho futhi ubhekene nesikhathi esinzima, uhlala uzizwa unesifiso sokumsiza. Imvamisa awuqondi ukuthi ungasiza kanjani yize ungumngane osondelene kakhulu. Kwenzekile nathi sonke. Ngakho-ke, ungakhathazeki. Kunezindlela ezinhle kakhulu onganikeza ngazo usizo lwakho futhi ziyadingeka kakhulu kubo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Noma bengakhulumi bazokwazi nakanjani usizo olunikezayo.
Le yindlela ongasiza ngayo abangane bakho futhi wenze ukubopha kuqinise kakhulu-
1. Nikela Ukusekelwa Kwakho Njalo
Khethekile osizweni ohlela ukulunikeza umngani wakho. Uma kunguwe umuntu obabuza ukuthi ngabe lukhona yini usizo ongabanikeza lona, ngabe wenza iphutha. Umngani wakho usevele unengcindezi futhi isiphakamiso sakho sokumsiza sizomfaka ngaphansi kwengcindezi ngaphezu kokumkhulula. Ngeke azi ukuthi hlobo luni losizo ozokwazi ukulwenza futhi lokho kuzomenza angakubuzi.
Ngakho-ke, lapho usazi isimo akuso, nikeza usizo lwakho ikakhulukazi. Isibonelo, uma umngane wakho edinga isigingci futhi engenayo imali yokuthenga esinye ngaphezulu. Siza umngani wakho ngokunikela ngemali hhayi ngokunikela ngesandla sakho. Ukunikezwa okukhethekile yikho okubaluleke kakhulu futhi okusizayo ebunganeni.
2. Basize Babone Umbono Ogcwele
Uma ucela ukusiza umngani wakho odabeni oluthile, ucabanga kangcono ngosizo olunikeza ngesikhathi sabo sokudinga. Kwesinye isikhathi sithi futhi sinikeze usizo ngaphandle kokucabanga. Uma umngane wakho edinga kakhulu futhi ufuna aphume kuleso simo, kufanele unikeze izandla zakho ukuze uthole usizo.
Kepha uma ungenasiqiniseko sesimo, kungcono uthathe isinyathelo emuva ubuye ucabange ukuthi isimo sinjani. Qonda isimo umngane wakho akuso bese unikela ngesandla sakho ukuze uthole usizo. Kungcono ngaleyo ndlela.
Kufanele uqiniseke njalo ngosizo olunikezayo hhayi ukuthi unikele nje ngesandla sakho nganoma yini engenakwenzeka nakuwe. Ngale ndlela ungalimaza ubungane ngokunikeza igama futhi ungaligcini. Izinsiza zangempela yilezo ezicacisiwe futhi ezicatshangelwa kahle. Usizo lwakho ludingeka kumngane wakho futhi usizo lwakho kufanele luhlale lucacile futhi luqotho ngokoqobo. Ungalokothi unikeze noma yiluphi usizo ongeke ukwazi ukulwenza.
3. Hlonipha Isikhala Somuntu Siqu
Uma ungumngane oyedwa weqiniso ungayihlonipha indawo yomuntu wakho. Ubungeke uphoqe izandla zakho zokusiza lapho yena engazidingi. Yiba nesizotha futhi ube nobungane ngenkathi unikela ngezandla zakho ngosizo kepha ungamcindezeli umngani wakho. Uma umngane wakho enqaba usizo lwakho, ungamphoqi ngaleso sikhathi. Uma uqhubeka ubancenga ukuthi basize, bangazizwa bebabi kakhulu kunesimo abakuso.
4. Lalela Izinkinga Zabo
Kwesinye isikhathi lapho umuntu ebhekene nezinkinga, ufuna umuntu ovele alalele noma yiziphi izinkinga anazo. Uma ubona ukuthi umngane wakho unenkinga enjalo, benze bahlale futhi ubavumele bakuthululele isifuba sakho. Ungabenza bazizwe bengcono uma ulalela izinkinga zabo. Musa ukukhuluma nabo kuphela. Lokho ngeke kumsize umngane wakho. Ubadinga bathululele isifuba sakho kuwe futhi babelane ngezinkinga ababhekene nazo. Leyo ukuphela kwendlela ongazi ngayo ukuthi yini inkinga nokuthi yini ongayenza ukubasiza. Odinga ukukwenza ukulalela.
Lolu suku lobungani uma umngane wakho enanoma iluphi uhlobo lwezinkinga futhi edlula esigabeni esinzima, yiba ulayini wesiliva kubo.
Usuku Lobungani Oluhle kini nonke!
