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Ukujola nomuntu ongekho kuwe, kungaba okukhungathekisayo nokudidayo. Kepha kungani owesifazane engathandana nowesilisa ongenandaba naye? Yebo, kungahle kube nezikhathi lapho wena (funda: owesifazane) ungabona umfana okuqale kubonakale sengathi uyakuthanda kuwe bese ebonakala ngathi akanantshisekelo. Ungazama ukuthola ukuthi uyakuthanda noma cha futhi ukugcinela imizwa yothando ngawe.
Ungahle ufune akwenze uzizwe uthandwa futhi ukhethekile kodwa-ke awuqiniseki ukuthi uyafuna yini ukuba nawe. Ngezinye izikhathi angakuthumelela umbhalo omtoti onele ukukwenza ube namahloni kepha kuthi ngomzuzu olandelayo, akunikeze ukuphathwa buthule nokubanda. Lokhu nakanjani kungakudida futhi kubonakale kuyacasula ukuthola ukuthi ingabe uyakuthanda noma cha. Ukukusiza ngalokhu, silapha ngamathiphu awusizo kuwe. Skrolela phansi ukuze ufunde kabanzi.
1. Akaze Akubize Noma Akubhalele Kuqala
Kholwa noma ungakukholwa, uma umfana ekuwe, uzozama konke okusemandleni ukuxhumana nawe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uzokuthumela umqhafazo futhi akufonele futhi athole izindlela zokuxhumana nawe kaningi. Kepha uma engalokothi akushayele noma akuthumele imiyalezo, noma engaxakekile futhi enesikhathi esithile sokuphumula, lokhu kungaba uphawu lokuthi akakuthandi. Angahle angaphinde akufonele ngemuva kokuthi ephuthelwe ukuthola izingcingo zakho noma engaphendulanga imiyalezo yakho.
2. Uvamise Ukukhansela Izinhlelo
Lokhu kungaba ngesinye isibonakaliso sokuthi akakuthandi nakancane. Uzohlala njalo ekhansela uhlelo. Okwamanje lapho wenza noma yiluphi uhlelo bese umcela ukuthi aqhamuke, angakunika izizathu eziyikhulu ezisho ukuthi kungani engeke eze. Kungaba nezikhathi lapho angahle abe matasa ngokweqiniso noma abe nomunye umsebenzi obalulekile okufanele awenze. Kepha uma ehlala ekhansela uhlelo futhi angalokothi azame ukuluhlenga kabusha, lapho-ke ungakuthatha njengophawu lokuthi akekho kuwe.
3. Uhlala Ebeka Izaba Ezingacacile
Okwamanje lapho umbuza ukuthi kungani engazange akufonele noma akuthumele imiyalezo noma ukuthi siyini isizathu sokukhansela izinhlelo, kaninginingi, angenza izaba ezingacacile. Angakutshela ukuthi ikati lakhe liphethwe umkhuhlane noma ngephutha liphule ivazi. Noma ngabe nihleli ndawonye futhi niphuza ikhofi, uzomthola enza izaba zokuqeda umhlangano ngokushesha okukhulu.
4. Akaze Azame Ukuchitha Isikhathi Nawe
Njengoba sishilo ngenhla, uzokhansela izinhlelo noma uzobeka izaba zokugwema ukuzihlalela nawe. Ekuqaleni, ungacabanga ukuthi umatasa ngokweqiniso ngakho-ke, akakwazanga ukufika. Kodwa kuthiwani uma engalokothi azame ukuchitha isikhathi nawe? Zibuze, ngabe wenza noma yiluphi uhlelo lokuhlangana nawe noma ukuzihlalela nawe? Ingabe uzizwa ejabule ukukuhlangabeza ngemuva kwesonto noma ngaphezulu?
5. Uvame Ukhuluma Abanye Abesifazane
Ungamthola esho abanye besifazane, noma ngabe unawe. Hhayi lokhu kuphela, kepha angafuna neseluleko kuwe ngokuthandana nabanye besifazane. Noma angakubuza ukuthi abangane bakho bezintombi bayamthanda noma cha. Angakubuza ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani omunye wabangane bakho noma ungamethula kuye. Angasho ukuthi uthanda omunye wabangane bakho futhi ufuna ukumyisa ekhofi noma esidlweni sakusihlwa.
6. Akalokothi Abe Nomona Ngabangane Bakho Besilisa
Uma umfana ekuthanda, uzovame ukuzizwa enomona ngabanye abangane bakho bomfana. Kungenzeka angabathandi abanye babangani bakho besilisa. Kepha uma engenamona nhlobo, noma ngabe usho omunye umfana, khona-ke kukhona okungahambi kahle ngokuqinisekile. Angahle angakunaki uma uthi uya ebhayisikobho nomunye wabangane bakho noma uma umenyelwe esidlweni sakusihlwa ngumngani wakho. Angabukeka emuhle futhi angathandi ukubuza ngomfana.
7. Akafuni Ukukhuluma Ngempilo Nakusasa Lakhe
Lapho umfana enesithakazelo kuwe, uvame ukuxoxa nawe ngempilo yakhe nangezinhlelo zakhe zesikhathi esizayo. Uzokwazisa ukuthi impilo yakhe iqhubeka kanjani nokuthi yiziphi izinselelo nezinkinga abhekene nazo. Uzokwazisa futhi ukuthi yiziphi izinhloso namaphupho akhe. Kungani? Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukubheka njengokubalulekile empilweni yakhe futhi ufuna wazi okwengeziwe ngaye. Kepha uma umfana wakho engafuni ukwabelana nganoma yini ehlobene nempilo yakhe nezinhlelo zakhe zesikhathi esizayo, khona-ke lokhu kungaba yisibonakaliso sokuthi akekho kuwe. Noma uzama ukukhuluma ngempilo yakhe, uzoshintsha isihloko noma akhombise intshisekelo encane.
8. Akalokothi Akunake
Ngabe umthola engakunaki lokhu okushoyo? Akunandaba ukuthi ugqoka kahle kangakanani futhi wenza izimonyo, akananzeleli lutho kuwe. Lokhu kungaba uphawu olucacile lokuthi akekho kuwe. Hhayi lokhu kuphela, kepha naye angahle abonakale ephazamiseka, noma nindawonye. Ungamthola ehamba ngocingo lwakhe noma ematasa kwenye indawo. Ngeke akubone kubalulekile ukunaka okushoyo noma kukhona omenzele okuthile. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kuzofanela uyeke ukumjaha.
9. Akaveli Uma Umdinga
Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho ungamdinga njengokuthi usesimweni esibucayi futhi ufune usizo lwakhe. Ngaleso sikhathi, angakukhombisa umhlane wakhe bese ezenza sengathi umatasa ngomunye umsebenzi. Uzovele akhethe ukuhamba noma akwenqabe. Noma izinto sezibuyele emuva, angahle angasizwa isidingo sokubuza ukuthi uqhuba kanjani nokuthi udinga olunye usizo. Ngeke aze axolise ngokungatholakali ngenkathi udinga usizo nokuba khona kwakhe.
10. Uvame Ukuthandana Nabanye Abesifazane
Ngabe ukuhlaba umxhwele ngamakhono akhe okudlala ngothando nangobuntu obuhle? Yebo, lapho-ke udinga ukunaka indlela aziphatha ngayo. Bheka ukuthi uyajola yini nabanye besifazane. Amathuba ukuthi angahle angashiyi noma yiliphi ithuba lokudlala ngothando nanoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane. Angadlala ngothando nabo noma ukhona futhi angakubiza njengokuziphatha okuwukudlala nje. Kepha khumbula, angahle abe nezinye izinhlelo. Kungenzeka angabi kuwe futhi ngenxa yalokho, udlala ngothando nabanye besifazane.
11. Uyimvuthuluka Yesinkwa Kuwe
Labo abangazi, i-breadcrumbing yisimo lapho umuntu aziphatha ngendlela exakile. Uzokhombisa ukukuthakasela bese ezokwenza uzizwe ushiywe ngaphandle. Umuntu uzokhuluma nawe kuphela lapho ezizwa ethanda bese ekuziba uze ube nesifiso sokuphinde ukhulume. Uma abafana bakho benza okufanayo kuwe futhi njalo bakunikeze izimpawu ezixubile njengokukuthumela umbhalo omnandi bese bakunikeza ihlombe elibandayo, lapho-ke kufanele uqaphele. Kungenzeka angakuthandi futhi uzobe edlala ngemizwa yakho.
Ukuhlakulela imizwa yothando ngomuntu kungahle kungabi sezandleni zakho kepha ngokuqinisekile ungazisindisa ebuhlungwini benhliziyo obubuhlungu. Ungamjahi uma ekhombisa izimpawu ezingenhla. Esikhundleni salokho, ungabeka isikhathi sakho nemizwa yakho kumuntu okukhathalela ngokweqiniso nemizwa yakho.
