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Ukungqubuzana kwe-Ego emshadweni kungesinye sezizathu ezinkulu zesehlukaniso. Kukhona umugqa omncane phakathi kwe-ego nokuzihlonipha. Ukuzihlonipha kusho ukuhlonipha izindinganiso zakho, kanti ukuzazisa kusho ukukhombisa ukungabahloniphi abanye noma umlingani wakho.
Ukungqubuzana kwe-Ego kuvame ukuba uphawu olujwayelekile lokuphazamiseka ohlelweni lomshado.
Lapho i-ego ingena phakathi kwemibhangqwana, khona-ke impilo yabo yomshado isengozini. Imibhangqwana idinga ukugcina igebe phakathi kwe-ego nokuzihlonipha.
Inkinga ye-Ego phakathi kwendoda nomfazi ivame ukuvela ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa ukulawula umlingani wakho noma ngenxa yokungavikeleki kokulahlekelwa oshade naye komunye umuntu.
Abantu abaqapheli nokuthi banezinkinga ze-ego futhi ekugcineni kuholela ekuhlukaneni noma kwezehlukaniso.
Ukuze kunqandwe lezi zinkinga, ngifingqe amaphuzu athile okudingeka uwabheke ukuze uvikele ukungqubuzana kwe-ego emshadweni wakho.
IZINDLELA ZOKUGWEMA IZINGUZI ZEGO EMSHADWENI
Ukuziqhenya
Ukuziqhenya kungaba yisizathu sokuxabana emshadweni. Ukuziqhenya kuholela ku-ego. Ukuziqhenya kukwenza uzizwe uphakeme kunabanye. Akufanele neze ucabange ukuthi ungcono kakhulu phakathi kwalokhu okubili. Wonke umuntu unamaphuzu athile amabi futhi amahle. Umlingani wakho uhlakaniphile ngokulinganayo futhi unesibopho njengawe. Zizwe unenhlanhla yokuba nomlingani wakho kunokuba ubonise ukuziphatha kwakho kokuziqhenya nokuphakama.
Ungazidumisi Njalo
Ukuzincoma njalo phambi kwabanye akusizi kangako ekuzijabuliseni. Yondla ukuzazisa kwakho futhi ikwenze uzethembe ngokweqile futhi ekugcineni iphumele ekuxabaneni kwe-ego emshadweni. Uma unomkhuba wokutshela abanye ngempumelelo yakho noma impumelelo yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, lapho-ke ungabambeka ngezinkinga ze-ego kalula. Ngakho-ke, zidumise ngokulinganiselwa. Ungayidluli.
Ungalokothi Wehlise Isithunzi Noma Wehlise Uzakwenu
Hlala ukhumbula ukuthi indoda nomfazi babaluleke ngokulinganayo ekwenzeni ikhaya libe nokuthula futhi libe nempilo. Akuwena ngaso sonke isikhathi obalulekile. Hlonipha umlingani wakho phambi kwabangane bakho nomndeni wakho. Lokhu kuzosiza ekugcineni ubudlelwano bakho bunempilo. Umshado uyachuma ngothando, inhlonipho nokwethembana. Uma ungamhloniphi umlingani wakho, umshado wakho nakanjani uzophela.
Ncoma Uzakwenu Njalo
Kulungile ukuba ngumgxeki omuhle lapho usebenza nabangani. Kepha nomuntu oshade naye, ufunde ukucabanga nokukhuluma njengamazwana amabi angabonakalisa ubuhlobo. Funda ukwazisa oshade naye. Mncome njalo. Lokhu kuzodala ubudlelwano obunempilo futhi kuzogcina ukuzazisa kwakho kutholakale. Imvelo yokuncoma ihlale idala umphumela omuhle.
Qondani Ubuthakathaka Komunye Nomunye
Ungakugwema kanjani ukungqubuzana kwe-ego? Ukuhlonipha ukwahluka kwemibono kungasiza ukugwema ukungqubuzana okuzazisa. Umuntu ngamunye unamanye amaphuzu abuthakathaka futhi aba yingxenye yobuntu babo. Ukuba ngumlingani kudingeka uqonde lelo qiniso ngomlingani wakho futhi uthande umlingani wakho ngomuntu ayikho. Ukwenza lokhu kungagwema izinkinga ze-ego phakathi kwabashadikazi.
Misa Ukuba Nenkinga Yokuphakama
Lokhu kungaba yinkinga hhayi kuphela kwabesilisa kepha nakwabanye besifazane. Gcina ukuphakama kobulili bakho eceleni futhi uhloniphe umlingani wakho. Angaphakama ngokulingana nawe. Uma umlingani wakho ebukeka emuhle kunawe noma uma umlingani wakho enza kangcono kunawe, ngakho-ke akufanele kungene phakathi kothando lwakho nokumhlonipha. Ngemuva kwakho konke, nabelana ngempilo efanayo, nezinkinga ezifanayo, nenjabulo efanayo. Ngakho-ke, bulala ukuzazisa kwakho hhayi uthando lwakho ngomlingani wakho. Kusiza kakhulu kini nobabili.
Chitha Isikhathi Ngomunye Nomunye
Ungazixazulula kanjani izinkinga ze-ego emshadweni? Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana futhi kungaba yisizathu sezinkinga ze-ego phakathi kwendoda nenkosikazi. Uma nichitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nomunye, kuba lula ukuqonda nokuthanda umlingani wakho. Uthando ngomlingani wakho ekugcineni luzobulala ukuzazisa kwakho futhi lokhu kungenzeka kuphela uma nichitha isikhathi sithandana futhi niqondana.
Khumbula la maphuzu, ngoba lawa azokusiza ekuhlanzeni isizotha emshadweni wakho. Yenza kahle emshadweni wakho, ubonise isenzo sothando esethembisayo kumlingani wakho futhi nibone indlela i-ego egeza ngayo ogwini kusuka ekujuleni kothando lwenu komunye nomunye.
