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Uma uzibuza ukuthi ungawuhlela kanjani umshado ngesabelomali, ukuqonda abaqashi abakhulu bokuhlela umcimbi kuzoba ukhiye ekusizeni ukuthi uhlale ebangeni lakho. Isibonelo, ungase ucabange ukuthi ubuhlobo obuseduze nokudla okumangalisayo, umculo kanye ne-ambience kuzobiza kakhulu kunokusho, umuntu ongu-400 ehholo lomcimbi-kodwa njengoba indawo yakho yokudlela encane ingayenzi imishado. ukuthi ngokuvamile, akukaze kuxoxwe ngakho ukuthi hlobo luni lwewayini olukumenyu futhi uMalume wakho uPhil wa-oda ibhodlela le-vintage Cab elingeziwe, hmmm , ,000 kumthethosivivinywa.
Ngakho-ke, yini engena kubhajethi yomshado evamile? Sangena nomhleli womcimbi waseNew York City UJennifer Brisman , aka the Wedding Planner, ukuze ufunde mayelana nesabelomali somshado esimaphakathi nezindlela zokusinciphisa ukuze ukwazi ukusebenzisa imali yakho ngokugcwele.
Ukuthi Isabelomali Somshado Sivame Ukuphuka Kanjani:
1. Imali ekhokhwayo esemthethweni (1% yesabelomali)
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ushadela esontweni elivamile, yenza umngane wakho u-Chad abhalisele ukuba umfundisi ku-inthanethi noma ukuzihlanganisa (yebo, ungashada ngaphandle komuntu wesithathu ezindaweni ezithile, njengasePennsylvania), kuzoba nohlobo oluthile lwezindleko— njengemali yelayisensi yomshado. Uma usebenzisa umfundisi, uBrisman uphawula ukuthi isikhulu sakho singakunikeza ukukhetha phakathi kokunikela endlini yabo yokukhulekela noma imali yezinkonzo zabo. Uma wenza okwangaphambili, kungase kudonswe intela. Kuqashelwe ngokufanelekile.
2. Izipho zephathi (2% yesabelomali)
Nakuba kungadingeki ngempela, kuhle kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma iphathi yakho yomshado ingene nge-bachelorette kanye neshawa. U-Brisman uphakamisa, nokho, ukubhekana nalokhu ekupheleni kohambo lokuhlela uma usuzikhiphile izinto zamathikithi amakhulu. Ngale ndlela, awusebenzisi noma iyiphi imali ongase ufune ukuyibeka kwenye indawo.
3. Amathiphu kanye nezibonelelo (2% wesabelomali)
Kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi lokhu kufanele kube yingxenye yesabelomali sakho—ngakho kuqaphele kusenesikhathi (futhi ukukhumbule njalo). Kucabange njengokubonga okufanele, uBrisman uyasitshela, hhayi nje ngomsebenzi owenziwe kahle, kodwa nokwenza ngaphezu kwalokho. Uma othile esebenzela inkampani, kufanelekile ukumcebisa; uma bezisebenzela futhi ubakhokhela, ngokuqondile, lokhu akululekwa kakhulu. Futhi, kulesi simo, imali yesikweleti ayilona iphesenti lesamba sezindleko—ngakho ungazizwa ubophekile ukukhokha ithiphu engamaphesenti angu-20 ku-,000 yokuthwebula izithombe. Cela lokho onomuzwa wokuthi kufanelekile!
Ezine. Izimemo nezimpahla zephepha (7% wesabelomali)
Zonke izinto zokwenza ngokwezifiso ziyengeza, ngakho uBrisman uncoma ukuthi amakhasimende akhe aqiniseke ukuthi ayazi ukuthi aphetheni nokuthi anokukhetha: Ziningi izinketho ezingabizi kakhulu zezinto zokubhala nephepha, eziphrintiwe nezedijithali. Yenza umsebenzi wakho wesikole futhi uqinisekise ngempela ukuthi uyakwazi okufunayo nokudingayo nokuthi kokubili kukubhajethi. Akunangqondo ukweqa isabelomali ezintweni abantu abavame ukuzilahla.
5. Izingubo zomakoti nomkhwenyana kanye nezinsiza (5% wesabelomali)
Lena indawo eyodwa abantu abaphuma ngayo ngaphandle kwesabelomali, uBrisman uyadlulisa ngemuva kokubona umakoti ngemva komshado ezama ingubo engu-,000 ukuze nje azijabulise bese eyithanda ngokuphelele. Uma uzama ukonga kulesi sigaba khumbula: Uyigqoka kanye kuphela.
6. Izithombe kanye nevidiyo (10% wesabelomali)
Uma kunento eyodwa ongafanele uyigwebe, yilesi sigaba, kusho uBrisman: Lena indawo eyodwa okufanele uyitshale ngempela. Izithombe zihlala impilo yonke! Futhi amavidiyo awukuphela kwendlela yokuthwebula umlingo namandla osuku futhi uwajabulele iminyaka ezayo, ngethemba ukuthi nezingane zakho nabazukulu bakho.
7. Umculo nokuzijabulisa (12% wesabelomali)
Awukho umthetho oqinile futhi osheshayo wokuthi yonke imishado idinga ukuphenduka iphathi yokudansa, kodwa uma ufuna ukuphuma, umculo omnandi uyisihluthulelo. Ingabe ukhathazekile mayelana nomgomo wakho oyinhloko? Uma isabelomali sakho singakwazi ukukhokhela ibhendi, u-DJ omangalisayo uzokwazi ukufunda isixuku futhi adlale umculo ofanele ngesikhathi esifanele.
8. Izimbali nokuhlobisa (13% wesabelomali)
Wonke lawo ma-peonies cishe azobiza ngaphezulu- kakhulu okungaphezu kwalokho obukucabanga. Lalela isixwayiso sikaBrisman: Ungahleli ku-Pinterest. Thola ugqozi lapho. Lezo zithombe zokuhlobisa umshado cishe ziphindwe kashumi kunalokho ohlela ukukusebenzisa.
9. Indawo yokwamukela, ukudla, isiphuzo kanye nabasebenzi (45% wesabelomali)
Ahhh, izinto ezimnandi. Lokhu kuwumama wesabelomali sakho futhi kuzoba nomthelela omkhulu ephathini langempela. U-Brisman uncoma ukuthi uzingele futhi wenze ukukhetha okuncane kokudla neziphuzo ngempela kahle esikhundleni sokuthi uzisakaze uzacile kakhulu ngoba kuzovela. Cabanga ngalokho okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe futhi usebenzele emuva, usho kanje.
Lapho usunakho-isabelomali sakho sekhekhe lomshado esinezigaba eziyisishiyagalolunye. Kungase kubonakale kungakhangi kakhulu kunalokho okwakwenza ngenkathi uphupha emini, kodwa ukuba neqiniso mayelana nokusebenzisa imali kuzokugcina kunoma yiziphi izimanga ezinkulu ezansi komugqa. Kungakho siphinde sabuza uBrisman mayelana nokungahambi kahle kwesabelomali akubonayo nokuthi angakugwema kanjani.
Amaphutha Avamile Wokuhlela Umshado Azophazamisa Isabelomali Sakho:
1. Uhlu lwakho lwezivakashi luyimpokophelo ehamba phambili
Iphutha elivame kakhulu elenziwa izithandani ukubukela phansi uhlu lwazo lwezihambeli. Ngakho-ke thatha isikhathi sakho ukuyakha ngaphambi kokuthi uhlele, ngoba uhlu lwezivakashi lungakwazi futhi kufanele kuthatha amaviki ukuya kuqanda. Ezikhathini eziningi, uBrisman uthola, uqala ngohlu oluqinile. Bese, uqhubeka nosuku lwakho lomsebenzi, izimpelaviki zakho zokuxhumana kanye nezingcingo zasebusuku phakathi nesonto nomndeni kuphela ukuze ubone ukuthi kunabantu abaningi obucabanga ukuthi badinga ukuba sohlwini. Ngakho-ke, ukhulisa uhlu ukuze ubone ukuthi luzwakala kanjani lapho luthuthukisiwe, uthole kuphela ukuthi udinga ukulihlehlisela phansi. Ukuthola leyo medium ejabulisayo kuyisihluthulelo. Isixazululo lapha ukubona ukuthi ungayenza ibe mncane kangakanani ngenkathi uhlukanisa uhlu luka-B.
2. Ukugwema izingxoxo ezinzima
Enye yezindlela ezilula zokudlulisa amaphuzu ajwayelekile ezinhlungu zokuhlelwa komshado iwukuba lezo zingxoxo ezingakhululekile zibe phambili enqubweni yokuhlela-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziphathelene nomndeni, inkolo noma, kunjalo, isabelomali. Uma ungakhulumi ngalezi zinto kusenesikhathi, zizokuhlupha lapho usunezinye izinto eziyisigidi okufanele uzikhathaze ngazo.
3. Ukungakhi emcamelweni wezimo eziphuthumayo
Phinda ngemva kwethu: Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngihlela kangakanani noma isipredishithi sami se-Excel siphelele kangakanani, ngizoba nezindleko ezingalindelekile. Awukwazi ukuhlela okungalindelekile, kodwa wena kungaba hlela okungalindelekile ngokudala umcamelo wokuphepha kubhajethi yakho. (Yehlisa imakrofoni.)
4. Ukuhlela umshado wakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana
Inkundla yezokuxhumana iyindawo enhle yokuthola ugqozi, kodwa futhi iyakhazimula ngezithombe zomshado ezinhle ngaphandle kokubhekisela okukodwa kunoma yiziphi izimpawu zedola, futhi uBrisman uyibonile imiphumela: Amehlo ethu makhulu kunezisu zethu. Khumbula ukuthi lezi zithombe ezinhle zenzelwe ukuchofoza, ukuthandwa namazwana. Ababonisi indlela eya emshadweni owenziwe kahle ngesabelomali. Futhi azichazi ‘umbhangqwana ojabulayo.’ Sebenzisa inkundla yezokuxhumana kanye nokunye ukuphawula kwedijithali njengezinkomba zokuxhumana nabathengisi mayelana nesitayela nombono onawo wosuku lwakho olukhulu.
Sithole iseluleko esiwusizo esingaphezu kokwanele kumuntu okwenzile izinhlelo imishado ukuze uziphilise, kodwa kuthiwani ngomakoti nabayeni bangempela abasanda kudlula kuyo? Sicele amathiphu okonga imali kanye nokuhlelwa kwesabelomali okukhaliphile kubangani bethu abake baxoxa indaba. Nakhu abasitshele khona.
Amathiphu okubhajetha avela komakoti nabakhwenyana bangempela
1. Yeqa izinsuku zokulondoloza ezithandwayo
Bheka, sithanda i-calligraphy yesandla futhi siphakamise amagama njengomuntu olandelayo. Kodwa ama-save-the-dates aphrintiwe azokubiza amarandi angamakhulu ambalwa (okungenani) kokuthile onakho ngaleso sikhathi kufanele wenze futhi ngomshado! Impela, zinhle futhi zinhle, kepha futhi azinalutho (futhi zimosha kancane, akunjalo?). Kunalokho, thumela idethi yokulondoloza yedijithali enhle usebenzisa isayithi elifana nalo Iposi Elingenaphepha . Kukhona futhi amathoni amaningi okukhuphuka kokuhamba kwedijithali: Ungaqoqa ama-imeyili, uthumele izikhumbuzi, uvumelanise amakhalenda futhi ube nokufinyelela okulula kuwebhusayithi yakho yomshado.
2. Yakha iwebhusayithi yamahhala
Yebo, kufanele ube newebhusayithi yomshado ukuze izivakashi zakho zikwazi ukufinyelela kalula kulo lonke ulwazi ukuze zingakuthumeleli imiyalezo ngosuku, ibhasi lisilanda kuphi futhi? Kodwa asikho isizathu khokha kuwebhusayithi yomshado kulezi zinsuku-futhi yebo, lokho kuhlanganisa igama lesizinda neseva! Amasayithi afana noZola kanye Minted nikeza amawebhusayithi omshado wamahhala enziwe ngokwezifiso, alula futhi kulula ukuwasebenzisa.
3. Yenza isimiso esijwayelekile esinciphisa uhlu lwezivakashi
Inombolo yakho yohlu ithi konke . Yazisa imenyu, indawo kanye nebhajethi yakho iyonke. Ngakho-ke, umngane ohlakaniphile usazise ukuthi ukwenza umthetho owodwa njengo-21 nangaphezulu
noma kungabikho okuhlanganisayo ngaphandle uma kubucayi ngempela kuyindlela elula yokunciphisa inombolo yakho ngaphandle kokulimaza imizwa.
4. Boleka iveyili yakho
Sebenzisa u-0 ngeveli? Noma…cela umngane osanda kushada ukuthi aboleke eyakhe. Amathuba akhona, uzothi yebo.
5. Nobucwebe bakho
Uma uzama ukwenza ibhajethi, ungashayi imali ngobucwebe bemfashini. Cishe uno-anti noma ugogo ongakuvumela ngenjabulo ukuthi uboleke amacici edayimane noma eparele ngalolu suku olubalulekile empilweni yakho.
6. Thenga ezinye izinketho ezindaweni zomshado ezisezingeni eliphezulu
Thanda I-BHLDN , Floravera kanye Indwangu .
7. Ungakhohlwa izindleko zokushintsha
Ingubo yami ibingu-0—ngakho-ke ngacabanga ukuthi ngingena ngaphansi kwesabelomali sayo…kuze kube ngithola umthethosivivinywa wokushintsha ngo-0. Qiniseka ukuthi ucabangela ukuthi yiziphi izinguquko ongase uzidinge lapho uzama izingubo zokugqoka, kuxwayisa uTanya, umakoti wakamuva.
8. Shada ngobusuku beviki
U-Anna, umakoti wakwaPampereDwabantu onobuhlakani besabelomali somshado, ube nomkhosi wakhe ngoLwesine futhi wasitshela, kubiza ngaphansi kwamaphesenti angama-60 kunendawo efanayo ngoLwesihlanu, kanye namaphesenti angama-80 ngaphansi kunoMgqibelo. Impela, bekumnandi ukusho ukuthi umshado wami ubungoLwesine, kodwa bekukuhle! Iningi labangane bami labonga ngokuthi angizange ngibalawule ngezimpelasonto zabo futhi babesakwazi ukuya emsebenzini ngakusasa uma befuna ngempela.
9. Buza umthwebuli wezithombe wakho ukuthi ingakanani isilinganiso sabo sehora
Bese uthola ukuthi yimaphi amahora abaluleke kakhulu kwakho. Mhlawumbe awudingi ukuba nezithombe zokulungisa. Lokho kungase konge kufikela ku-,000, kweluleka u-Anna.
10. Cabangela ezinye izindlela zomcimbi
Uma umcimbi ukhuphula izindleko ngokwezinkanyezi endaweni yephathi yamaphupho akho, thola enye indawo yomcimbi wakho. Amapaki ahlala ewumdlalo olungile, futhi adinga nje imvume, okuvamise ukuba ngamakhulu ambalwa kakhulu. I-Central Park ingu-0 futhi leyo yi-Central Park, omunye umakoti wasitshela.
11. Buza ukuthi abathengisi bakho bazokwamukela yini ukheshi esikhundleni sokukhokha intela
Hhayi ukukuyengela emakethe emnyama, kodwa uma intela endaweni efana neNew York ingamaphesenti ayi-9, lokhu kungakongela inqwaba yemali. Awuyizwanga kithi.
12. Bona ukuthi abathengisi bakho bazokuvumela yini ukukuxhasa ngezimali
Ezezimali nanoma yimuphi umthengisi ozokwamukela, omunye umakoti uyasitshela, futhi abaningi bavuleleke kuyo. Esikhundleni sokunikeza umthwebuli wezithombe wami isamba esikhulu sesamba sasekuseni somshado wami, ngisihlukanise phakathi kwezinkokhelo ezintathu ezincane. Ngikhokhe ngokugcwele ngezinyanga ukuthi ngihambe futhi ngizizwe ngimangalisa ukuthi ngihlole ngokuphelele lokho kuhlu lwami.
13. Vula ikhadi lesikweletu elinebhonasi enkulu yokubhalisa
Futhi khokhela inqwaba ye-honeymoon yakho ngamaphuzu (nawa amanye amakhadi angcono kakhulu okuqoqa imiklomelo emikhulu )—noma lonke iholide!
14. Shintshanisa ngezithombe zakho zomshado ukuze uthole i-albhamu yomshado
Ingabe ngokuphelele isidingo izithombe zomshado? Abathwebuli bezithombe abaningi bahlanganisa lezi ngamanani abo. Kwazi bani? Mhlawumbe ungakwazi ukuhwebelana ngezithombe zomshado ukuze uthole izithombe zokuzijwayeza ukudla kwakusihlwa noma i-albhamu yomshado.
15. Iwuphathele endaweni yokudlela
Ukubamba umshado wakho endaweni yokudlela kusho ukuthi ukudla, indawo yokucima ukoma kanye nabasebenzi sekukhona. Ingakusiza futhi (mhlawumbe) ukuthi ugweme izindleko zokuqasha indawo. Izinto ezimbili okufanele uziqaphele, kusho umfundisi wethu wokwenza ibhajethi u-Anna: Indawo yokudlela cishe izocela ukuthi unciphise ukudla nesiphuzo—okuvame ukuba nengqondo. Futhi wena kufanele iqinisekise ukuthi indawo yokudlela ikwenzile lokhu ngaphambilini. Awufuni ukuba yingulube ekuhlolweni komshado wabo.
16. Funda ukuthanda i-Excel
Ngomakoti wakusasa u-Rachel: Ngizoshada enyangeni eyodwa ngakho bengihlala ngaphakathi kwespredishithi se-Excel. Sinazo zonke izinto eziku-spreadsheet ngezindleko ezilinganiselwe zento ngayinye, izindleko zangempela, ukuthi sikhokhe malini kuze kube manje, amathiphu abo bonke abathengisi bethu, njll. ukuze sikwazi ukulandelela kalula zonke izindleko. Ngincoma kakhulu ukuba nomcamelo ozobuyela kuwo ngoba kunezinto ezincane eziyisigidi ezivelayo okungenzeka ukuthi ngeke uziphendule, njengokuthenga ibhulakufesi (nesidlo sasemini) sephathi yakho yomakoti ngenkathi uzilungiselela futhi uthatha izithombe.
17. Yenza uhlu lwe-splurge ngokumelene nohlu lwe-scrimp
Omunye umakoti wakamuva (ophinde aqanjwe ngo-Rachel) weluleka imibhangqwana yesikhathi esizayo ukuthi ibeke phambili lapho isebenzisa khona KAHLE futhi KULUNGILE ukupequlula, Kimina kwakuyingubo (ngangikwazi kahle lokhu), kodwa lokho kwakusho ukuthi ngeke ngibe nebhendi. (sasino-DJ); kuye, kwakuyi-photobooth (wayengu-ADAMANT ukuthi sinalokhu), ngakho-ke lokho kwakusho ukuthi sishibhile ngokuthanda izivakashi (senze o-M&Ms ngokwezifiso, kodwa bathola i-memento yesithombe, futhi, ngakho-ke kuhle lokho?). Iphuzu elibalulekile: Kusisize ukuthi sigxile ekusebenziseni kwethu imali ngokubeka phambili izindleko ndawonye kusenesikhathi.
