Ukusuka kokukhansela isiko kuya U-Karen kanye no-Stan , uma ufuna ukuzibandakanya, noma okungenani ukulandela, inkhulumomphendvulwano ezinkundleni zokuxhumana noma etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa, udinga ukuhambisana nolimi oluhlala lushintsha. Kulokhu, ubuskrola ku-Twitter futhi wahlangana nebinzana ongakaze ulibone ngaphambili: ukusayina amandla. Ingabe kuhle? Kubi? Kukhona okuthile phakathi? Lapha, sichaza ukuthi kuyini ukusayinda ubuhle kanye nezibonelo ezintathu zokukusiza ukuthi ukhombe.
Kuyini ukubonakaliswa kobuhle?
Itemu lokubonisa ubuhle libe nezimpilo ezimbalwa. Ine izimpande zezemfundo emikhakheni ye-psychology nenkolo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, okuthakazelisa kakhulu, kodwa ngaphandle uma ubhala ithisisi yobudokotela mayelana nokusayina ithiyori noma ukuziphatha, cishe akusona isizathu sokuba ulapha. Okwesibili yigama elihlambalazayo elitholakala kuzo zonke izinkundla zokuxhumana. Idume okhethweni lwase-U.S. lwango-2016, incazelo eyisisekelo yokusayina ilapho abantu bebukisa (noma isignali ) izinkolelo zabo zokubukeka zizinhle eqenjini labantu abafuna ukunxeshezelwa.
Ngakho ingabe ubuhle bubonisa kubi noma kuhle?
Kuyinkimbinkimbi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izimiso nezimiso zokusakaza kuhle, akunjalo? Kodwa kuba kubi uma lokho kusakazwa kuba yisimeli saphakade sezinto ezidinga izixazululo ezingenzeka, ikakhulukazi kubantu abaphethe, njengosopolitiki, osaziwayo nezinkampani.
Hlukanisa lokhu kancane. Kungani lokho kuyinkinga?
Emhlabeni wedijithali kanye nomjikelezo wezindaba wezi-24/7, ukusayina okuhle kuba yinkinga njengoba kulula kakhulu ukusho noma ukuthumela into eyodwa ukuze ushweleze eqenjini elithile ngaphandle kokuthatha isinyathelo esibalulekile. Ngakho-ke, cishe, lapho ubona othile ebizwa ukuthi abonise ubuhle, yingoba wenza (noma ukusayina ) kusho ubuhle, futhi mhlawumbe bezuza ngandlela thize ekuboniseni ubuhle obushiwo, ngaphandle kokwenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi wangempela wokuphila ukukumela.
Yiziphi ezinye zezibonelo zokubonisa ubuhle?
Nazi ezinye izibonelo zakamuva zokubonisa ubuhle esizibonile.
1. Ukuthumela i-Black Square ku-Instagram ye-Black Lives Matter
Uyakhumbula ngoJuni 2, 2020 lapho wonke umuntu wayethumela izikwele ezimnyama ku-Instagram? Nokho, impikiswano eyayingemuva kwalokho yayiwukuthi abantu babethumela besekela i-#BlackOutTuesday ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi basekelani futhi empeleni beminza indaba yangempela—# I-TheShowKufaneleImiswe Isikhashana —okungabesifazane ababili abaNsundu, uBrianna Agyemang noJamila Thomas, abasebenzela ukubamba imboni yomculo iphendule ngokuhlomula ngabaculi abamnyama. Yebo, indaba ijula kakhulu kunebhokisi elimnyama kugridi yakho. Ingabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ungumuntu omubi uma uthumele ibhokisi elimnyama? Vele akunjalo. Kodwa kukhombisa ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukuyenza ibonakale futhi uzizwe sengathi wenza into enhle, kuyilapho ingawatholi amanzi.
ezimbili. Igama lika-Lady Antebellum lishintsha i-Debacle
Iqembu lesizwe lisanda kushintsha igama lalo lisuka ku-Lady Antebellum laba nguLady A, ngoba, njengalokhu GQ isihloko iveza ukuthi bebegxekwa, ukuhlotshaniswa [ko] nemibono yothando yangaphambi kwempi, eNingizimu yaseMelika egcwele ubugqila. Inkinga? Igama elithi Lady A lithathwe ngowesifazane omnyama oseneminyaka engu-20 eqamba lelo gama futhi iqembu emmangalela ngakho . U-Karen Hunter ukufingqa kahle kakhulu naye Tweet , Mangizwisise...bashintsha igama bethi uLady Antebellum ngoba bengafuni ukuzihlanganisa naleli qembu elicwasa ngokwebala babiza igama elalivele lisetshenziswa owesifazane OMNYAMA emculweni...manje sebemmangalela ngokuthi ufuna ukulahla igama? Lesi isibonelo sencwadi yokufunda sokubonakaliswa kobuhle ekubi kakhulu: Iqembu elinamandla labantu elibonisa ubuhle balo ephepheni, kodwa ngesenzo liyaqhubeka nokukhulula abantu abafanayo elibaguqulele igama labo kwasekuqaleni.
3. Ngokuyisisekelo Konke Ukumaketha Kwebhizinisi
Kusukela ku-JP Morgan kuya ku-NFL, kubonakala sengathi cishe zonke izinkampani ezinkulu bezikhiqiza okuqukethwe ukusekela inhlangano ye-Black Lives Matter. Ingabe kubi lokhu? Cha. Eqinisweni, kunemiphumela eminingi emihle evela kulolu hlobo lokushintsha kwethoni okusabalele. Khumbula: Kwakuyiminyaka embalwa edlule lapho u-Colin Kaepernick aguqa khona futhi empeleni waxoshwa eqenjini ngenxa yokubhikisha ngokuthula isihluku samaphoyisa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma kuziwa empilweni yangempela, imikhuba yansuku zonke kanye nabantu bangempela abathintekayo, ingabe lezi zinkampani ziphila ngokuvumelana namazwi azo kanye nezithembiso zokulingana? Ngokusho kwe I-Associated Press , cha. Kepha, uma udla kuphela izimakethe ezisuka enhliziyweni futhi uphinde ubhale kabusha ama-hashtag, lokhu kuyaqhubeka nokubhebhethekisa inkinga.
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