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Sonke sizwile ukuthi akekho umuntu ophelele futhi ukungapheleli kuyinto enhle. Siyakukholwa? Yebo, siyakwenza. Wonke umuntu uyawenza amaphutha. Ngakho-ke, akekho ophelele.
Kepha uma kukhulunywa ngokuba ngumfazi, amadoda afuna ukuphelela. Linda! Ukuphelela kokungapheleli abanakho. Abesilisa banezidingo ezithile ezivela kubafazi babo futhi ngokufanayo.
Ake sikhulume ngokuthi yiziphi zonke izinto owesifazane angazenza emshadweni ukuze aphelele endodeni yakhe.
Akuyona isayensi ye-rocket okudingeka uyiqonde. Lawa ngamaqiniso alula futhi ayisisekelo ayimfuneko yomuntu ngamunye kumfazi wakhe. Uma ufuna umyeni wakho ajabule, khona-ke kufanele ulandele lezi zinto eziyisisekelo ezilula zomshado.
Umshado unzima futhi sonke siyazi. Kepha ukusebenzisana nozakwenu kuya ngokuthi wena nesithandwa sakho nizibophezela kangakanani.
Abesifazane beba nzima kakhulu futhi abesilisa beba uhlobo olulula, kulula ukuthi umshado usebenze. Kepha akubonakali kulula njengoba kuzwakala.
Izizathu zalokhu yizisekelo ezincane abesilisa nabesifazane abakhohlwa ukuba nazo nabazilandelayo emshadweni.
Le ndatshana ingeyabo bonke abesifazane abakulungele ukuzithuthukisa kunalokho abekwenza phambilini emshadweni. Kungukubenza baqonde lapho konakala khona.
Ake sibone zonke izisekelo zokuba ngumfazi ophelele.
1. Ukwethembeka
Yebo, ukwethembeka kuyisisekelo esibaluleke kunazo zonke emshadweni ngamunye. Emshadweni, kumayelana nokwesekana nokuma nomunye nomunye, ngezikhathi ezithile. Ukuze wonke umshado usebenze, noma ngabe usesigabeni esikuphi, umuntu kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi athembeke kumlingani wakhe, njengokuthi kufanele bathembeke kanjani kuwe.
Udinga ukwethemba umlingani wakho ngokungakukhohlisi. Ukuze ube yinkosikazi ephelele, kufanele futhi uthembeke kumlingani wakho umzuzu ngamunye. Noma ngabe wena nomyeni wakho nidlula esigabeni esinzima, kusamele nithembeke kumyeni wakho. Uma umthanda umyeni wakho naye ekuthanda, nakanjani uzokusebenza nasesigabeni esibi kakhulu somshado wakho.
Noma ngabe kuyini, ukuhlala uqotho emshadweni kuyisihluthulelo sokuba yinkosikazi ephelele.
2. Ukwethembeka
Ukwethembeka futhi kuzoba yinqubomgomo engcono kakhulu empilweni nasemshadweni futhi.
Ukuze ube yinkosikazi ephelele, udinga ukuthembeka noma ngabe isimo sibi kangakanani noma ngabe siphambene nawe. Ukwethembeka kuyindlela eya emshadweni ophumelelayo.
Kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ezibalulekile ezidingekayo kuyo yonke imishado. Akuyona indoda kuphela, unkosikazi kufanele futhi athembeke. Imishado iyawohloka uma omunye wabalingani engathembeki.
Ukuqonda izizathu zemishado, kuhlale kutholakala ukuthi imishado ingawa uma omunye wabalingani engathembekile.
Ukuba yinkosikazi ephelele kudinga ukwethembeka nokuzinikela eqinisweni. Uma unayo, uphelele, unamandla!
3. Ukukhathalela
Umuntu wesifazane ngokuzalwa unakekela ukwedlula owesilisa. Kepha owesifazane oshadile akumele azinakekele, kepha futhi nomyeni wakhe nabasekhweni lakhe. Yonke indoda iyathanda ukuba nenkosikazi enakekelayo. Bayalithanda iqiniso lokushada nowesifazane onakekelayo. Bazizwa ukuthi bangaxhumana kakhulu nabo.
Amadoda afuna umngani, umlingani, isithandwa nomama osesimeni senkosikazi. Uma umnika lokho, khona-ke unakekela ngokwanele ukuthi akubize ngenkosikazi ephelele.
4. Ububele
Kuyisidingo esiyisisekelo emshadweni. Ububele bukukwenza ube nenhliziyo enhle futhi wonke amadoda afuna umfazi onenhliziyo enhle. Ukuba nozwelo kunoma imiphi imizwa engemihle umyeni wakho ayizwayo kungenye into ebalulekile yokuba yinkosikazi ephelele. Udinga ukukhombisa ukuthi umkhathalela ngokwanele ngaye futhi umusa wakho yiwo omenza azizwe emuhle. Uma unomusa maqondana nemizwa yakhe futhi uyayiqonda, usuvele uphelele emehlweni endoda yakho.
5. Ukusondelana
Ukusondelana kuyinto esemqoka okudingeka wonke umuntu wesilisa nowesifazane emshadweni. Ukusondelana nomyeni wakho kuyisihluthulelo senkosikazi ephelele. Ukusondelana kungaba ngamazwi noma ngokomzimba. Kungaba futhi ngezimpawu. Inqobo nje uma kukhona ukusondelana ebudlelwaneni, kunzima ukuthi umshado uqhekeke. Ukulahlekelwa ukusondelana kudala umehluko emshadweni futhi ngaleyo ndlela kuholele ekuqhekekeni.
Unkosikazi ophelele nguyena onazo zonke lezi zinto eziyisisekelo empilweni yakhe nasemshadweni, naphakathi komyeni wakhe. Uma uzizwa ushoda okukodwa kwalokhu, qala ukukugxilisa ukuze ube yinkosikazi ephelele kumyeni wakho.
Khumbula, akuyona isayensi ye-rocket ukuphelela emaphutheni onawo nomlingani wakho. Vele uthembeke kwisisekelo ngasinye okukhulunywe ngaso futhi uzochuma emshadweni wakho.