Uthishanhloko wase-Utah usegxekwe ngokutshela intombazane yebanga lesithupha ukuthi idanse nomfana ngoSuku Lwezithandani nakuba intombazane yayiphikisa, I-Salt Lake Tribune imibiko.
NgoFebhuwari 14, u-Azlyn Hobson, ongumfundi e-Rich Middle School eLaketown, wayejabule futhi ethukile ngomdanso wesikole we-Valentine’s Day ngoba wayefuna ukudansa nomuntu othile, ngokusho kukanina u-Alicia.
Ubejabule kakhulu ngalo mdanso. Wayengitshela ngakho amasonto amabili, umama wentombazane wakhumbula. Kwakukhona umfana esikoleni ayemthanda, wayefuna ukudansa naye, wayezoba nesikhathi esihle kunazo zonke.
Omunye umfana weza kumfundi webanga lesithupha wamcela ukuthi adansele. Lowo mfana ngaphambili wayemenze wazizwa engakhululekile u-Azlyn, ngakho wathi cha.
Nokho, ngendlela exakile, uthishanhloko, uKip Motta, kuthiwa watshela u-Azlyn ukuthi kufanele adanse nalo mfana.
Wayengathi, ‘Bafo hambani niyodansa. Akukho ukuthi cha lapha,' kusho umfundi webanga lesithupha etshela iphephandaba.
U-Azlyn akazange athande ukulalela kodwa wavuma ukuthi lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwakubuhlungu.
Angizange ngikuthande nhlobo, etshela i-Tribune. Lapho ekugcineni bethi sekuphelile, ngathi, ‘Yebo!’
Ngokusho kwengane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala, izingoma ziyashintsha phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana emidansweni. Abafundi kuthiwa kumele babuze uma sekuyithuba labo futhi kumele bamukele uma bebuzwa. Imithetho yesikole iphinde ivimbele noma yimuphi umfundi ukuthi acele abanye ukuthi baqhelelane uma kuvela isimo esingesihle, esho.
Ngemva kokuzwa ngalesi sigameko, uHobson wathumela i-imeyili kuMotta, kubika i-Tribune.
UHLALA enelungelo lokuthi cha, i-imeyili kamama ifundwe. Abafana abanalo ilungelo lokuthinta amantombazane noma ukuwenza adanse nawo. Abakwenzi. Uma amantombazane efundiswa ukuthi akanalo ilungelo lokuthi cha kubafana, noma ukuthi cha akusho lutho, ngoba bayophoqeleka ukuba bakwenze noma kunjalo, siyoba nesinye isizukulwane esinomuzwa wokuthi isiko lokudlwengula livamile ngokuphelele.
Ngokusho kukaHobson, uthishanhloko ofundisa imidanso esikoleni, uphendule wathi umfundi webanga lesithupha bekumele aveze ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngalo mfana ngaphambi kokuba kudanse.
Sifuna ukuvikela ilungelo layo yonke ingane yokuphepha nokunethezeka esikoleni, kusho uMotta etshela iphephandaba engxoxweni. Siyakholelwa kulokho 100%. Sikholelwa nokuthi zonke izingane kufanele zifakwe emisebenzini. Isizathu salo mgomo njengoba besinawo (esikhathini esidlule) wukuqinisekisa ukuthi azikho izingane ezizizwa sengathi ziyashiywa ngaphandle.
Uthishanhloko kuthiwa uphinde watshela abazali bentombazane ukuthi bebengayikhipha ngokuphelele indodakazi yabo emdansweni ukube ibingaphathekile kahle ngabafundi abathile. Nokho uHobson uthe isixazululo siyinkinga.
Lokho kungaba yihlazo ngempela ngoba u-Azlyn uyayithanda le midanso yasesikoleni, ngaphandle kwalesi sikhathi lapho kudingeke ukuthi adanse nomuntu ayengafuni ukuthi amthinte, kusho umama. Kuyingozi ukuthi izingane zingabi nelungelo lokuthi cha. Siyabafundisa ukuthi akufanele babekezelele noma yikuphi kwalokho, bese sibathumela esikoleni futhi bafunde okuphambene.
Emuva kwalesi sigameko, uthishanhloko utshele i-Tribune ukuthi yena nonsumpa bazobuyekeza umgomo wesikole mayelana nokuziphatha emidansweni.
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