Uma kukhulunywa ngendlela ingane yakho edlala ngayo, kuvela ukuthi akuyona yonke into ejabulisayo nemidlalo. Ngokusho kwesazi sezokuhlalisana kwabantu UMildred Parten Newhall , kunezigaba eziyisithupha ezihlukene zokudlala kusukela isewusana kuze kube senkulisa—futhi ngasinye sinikeza ingane yakho ithuba lokufunda izifundo ezibalulekile mayelana nayo ngokwayo nomhlaba. Ukujwayelana nalezi zinhlobo ezahlukene zokudlala kungakusiza uzizwe ukhululekile ngokuziphatha kwengane yakho (Hey, lokho kuthatheka kwesitimela kuyinto evamile!) kanye nokwazi ukuthi ungazibandakanya kanjani kangcono nayo.
OKUhlobene: Izindlela Eziyisi-8 Zokuxhumana Nezingane Zakho Uma Uzonda Ukudlala
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Uyakhumbula lapho u-ziro wakho oneminyaka emibili ubudala ejabule ngokuphelele ehlezi ekhoneni futhi edlala ngezinyawo zakhe? Nakuba kungase kungabonakali sengathi akenzi lutho olutheni, ingane yakho empeleni imatasatasa ithatha umhlaba omzungezile ( oooh, izinzwane!) nokubuka. Ukudlala okungenamsebenzi kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile esizomenzela isikhathi sokudlala esizayo (nokusebenza okwengeziwe). Ngakho-ke mhlawumbe gcina lawo mathoyizi amasha abizayo ukuze uwasebenzise lapho esethanda kakhulu.
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Uma ingane yakho idlala kakhulu kangangokuthi ayiboni muntu, usuke ungene esigabeni sokudlala sodwa noma esizimele, esivame ukuvela eminyakeni emibili nemithathu. Lolu hlobo lokudlala luyahlukahluka kuye ngengane, kodwa kungase kube lapho ingane yakho encane ihlezi ithule nencwadi noma idlala nesilwane sayo esigxishiwe esithandwayo. Ukudlala zodwa kufundisa izingane ukuthi zingazijabulisa kanjani futhi zikwazi ukuzimela (kanye kukunikeza isikhathi esiyigugu kuwe).
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Uma uLucy ebuka ezinye izingane zigijima izikhathi ezingu-16 kodwa angahlanganyeli ebumnandini, ungakhathazeki ngamakhono akhe okuxhumana nabantu. Usanda kungena esigabeni sokudlala esibukele, esivame ukwenzeka ngesikhathi esisodwa ekudlaleni uwedwa futhi okuyisinyathelo sokuqala esibalulekile sokubamba iqhaza kweqembu. (Cabanga ngakho njengokufunda imithetho ngaphambi kokugxumela phakathi.) Ukudlala kwabantu ababukele ngokuvamile kwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka emibili nengxenye kuya kwemithathu nengxenye.
asiseeit/Getty ImagesUkudlala okuhambisanayo
Uzokwazi ukuthi ingane yakho ikulesi sigaba (imvamisa ephakathi kweminyaka emibili nengxenye kanye neyesithathu nesigamu) lapho yona nabangane bayo bedlala ngamathoyizi afanayo. eceleni nomunye kodwa hhayi nge ngabanye. Lokhu akusho ukuthi bangama-frenemies. Eqinisweni, cishe banebhola (yize ithoyizi lami! I-tantrum ayinakugwenywa—ngiyaxolisa). Nakhu akufundayo: Indlela yokushintshana, ukunaka abanye nokulingisa ukuziphatha okubonakala kuwusizo noma kujabulisa.
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Lesi sigaba sibukeka sifana nokudlala okuhambisanayo kodwa sibonakala ngokusebenzisana kwengane yakho nabanye ngaphandle kokuxhumana (futhi ngokuvamile kwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka emithathu nemine). Cabanga: izingane ezimbili zihlezi eduze zakha idolobha lase-Lego…kodwa zisebenza ezakhiweni zazo ngazinye. Leli yithuba elihle lokwethula amakhono abalulekile njengokusebenzisana kanye nokuxhumana. (Uyabona ukuthi umbhoshongo wakho ungena kahle kanjani phezu kombhoshongo kaTyler?)
Izithombe zeFatCamera/GettyUmdlalo wokubambisana
Lapho izingane ekugcineni sezilungele ukudlala ndawonye (imvamisa ngesikhathi ziqala isikole zineminyaka emine noma emihlanu), sezifinyelele esigabeni sokugcina sethiyori kaParten. Kulapho imidlalo yeqembu noma imidlalo yeqembu iba mnandi kakhulu (ezinganeni ezidlalayo nakubazali ababukele). Manje sebelungele ukusebenzisa amakhono abawafundile (njengokuhlalisana, ukuxhumana, ukuxazulula izinkinga nokuxhumana) kwezinye izingxenye zempilo yabo futhi babe ngabantu abadala abasebenzayo ngokugcwele (cishe, cishe).
