Isikhathi sokwengeza enye into ohlwini lwakho lokuhlola oluyinkimbinkimbi yezimboni zomshado: i-pre-honeymoon. Siyazi-iphathi yomshado, ishawa (noma ezimbili), i-bachelorette kanye, um, umshado wangempela akwanele? Nakuba kungase kubonakale kuncane (noma okuningi) kukhululekile, yingakho eminye imibhangqwana ipakisha izikhwama zayo ukuze ihambe ngothando ngaphambi kokuba ishade.
Abasanda kushada babambezela amaholidi abo omshado wangempela. Mhlawumbe othile uqala umsebenzi omusha. Mhlawumbe umbhangqwana wongela uhambo olukhulu kakhulu esikhathini esizayo (ikakhulukazi ngemva kokudlala ibhendi). Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, imibhangqwana eminingi ibambe uhambo ngokushesha ngemva komshado wayo. Ukwenza ngaphambi kwesikhathi nakho kukhulula kancane ukuthi kufanele kube ingcindezi ephelele.
Ukuhlela umshado kuyacindezela. Kweminye imibhangqwana, zonke izinto eziholela emcimbini omkhulu zingafaka ubunzima obukhulu ebuhlotsheni. (Akuzona zonke izimvemvane kanye ne-KitchenAids, bantu.) Ikhambi? Yini enye ngaphandle kwekhefu lombhangqwana oqinile?
Badinga isikhathi somuntu oyedwa. Ngisho nakuba abashadikazi abaningi bahlala ndawonye ngaphambi kokushada , bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi isikhathi sabo ndawonye sidunwa umshado wabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho noma bendawonye, ngokuvamile baphinde babe nomunye umuntu—kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngumama obuza mayelana ne-boutonnieres noma umukhwe wakusasa omangele ngokuthi uzodlisa kanjani u-Anti u-Helga njengoba manje eseyimifino eluhlaza.
Hmm, sidinga iholidi nje ngixoxa ngokuhlela umshado. I-Pre-honeymoon e-Mozambique, noma ubani?
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