Owesifazane oneminyaka engu-25 wabuyela eReddit ukuyofuna izeluleko ngobudlelwano ngemuva kokuba isoka lakhe lihlatshwe wumqondo webhizinisi ohlekisayo.
Eposini ebhalwe ku-subreddit r/relationship_advice, umsebenzisi we- throwa_souptube uchaze ukuthi isoka lakhe ngeke liyeke ukumcela ukuthi atshale imali kumbono wakhe webhizinisi weshubhu lesobho.
‘Angizange ngikukholelwe engangikuzwa’
Umqondo, uma ungawubiza kanjalo, uwukwakha uchungechunge lwamashubhu kulo lonke idolobha eliholela emakhishini esobho aphakathi nendawo, echaza. Ngokubhalisa kwanyanga zonke, ikhasimende ‘lingabhalisela ishubhu lesobho,’ futhi ishubhu enwetshiwe izokwakhiwa ngeshubhu yomugqa omkhulu eseduze futhi ingene ngokuqondile efulethini lekhasimende noma ekhaya .
Lapho isoka lakhe liveza umbono walo webhizinisi, u-throwa_souptube wathi akakukholwanga [eli]kuzwayo.
Ngokusobala, lo mbono usangene ngokuphelele, esho. Umbono wokuthi idolobha lingagunyaza othile ukuthi akhe uchungechunge lwamashubhu kuyo yonke indawo afaka isobho ezindlini uyahlekisa impela. Futhi noma ngabe leso sinyathelo singavunywa, izindleko zalolu hlelo lokusebenza zingaba yindida.
‘Iyaqala ukungikhuphula odongeni’
Nakuba i-throwa_souptube ikubeke kwacaca ukuthi icabanga ukuthi umbono webhizinisi wesoka lakhe uyisiphukuphuku, uthe uyaqhubeka nokumcela imali.
Seliqala ukungikhuphula odongeni, kusho yena. Okokuqala, ngididekile ukuthi angakholelwa kanjani ukuthi umbono onjalo oyisiphukuphuku ubalulekile. Okwesibili, kuyacasula ngempela ukucelwa nsuku zonke ukutshala imali ohlelweni lwamashubhu esobho. Okwesithathu, ngikhathazekile nangokuphila kwakhe kwengqondo.
Ngingathanda iseluleko sokuthi ngingabonisana kanjani naye, noma kufanele ngiqhubeke nalobu budlelwano, wanezela.
‘Awukho esothandweni; usemkhunjini wolwazi'
Ku-Twitter, lapho i-throwa_souptube's umbuzo waphendulwa , abantu bamangala ngombono ongelona iqiniso wamashubhu esobho.
Ingabe isoka licabange ukuthi lizokwazi ukuthengisa uhlobo olulodwa lwesobho, ngaphandle kwalokho wonke ama-flavour azohlangana ndawonye ku-soup main, umuntu oyedwa kubuza .
Abantu abaningi baphinde baveza ukuthi isoka lika-throwa_souptube laliziphathisa okwengane .
Lona umqondo ohlakaniphile, wengane eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, umuntu oyedwa ubeke amazwana .
Nginesiqiniseko esingu-100% sokuthi ujola no-Homer Simpson, omunye umsebenzisi wancokola .
Uma uyijabulele le ndaba, bheka lona wesifazane odonswe ku-inthanethi ngemuva kokucela umakoti wakhe ukuthi amgunde .
Ezinye izindawo zokuhlala e- In The Know:
Lo baba uguqule igumbi lakhe elingaphansi laba uhambo lwangaphakathi lokukhempa
Shintsha igceke lakho libe indawo ye-zen oasis ngalawa ma-hammocks okufanele ube nawo
Umkhiqizo osebenziseka kalula uphendula umlilo wekamu ube amalangabi e-neon agqamile
Lezi zinhlanga ezingu- kufanele ube nazo zekhithi yakho yokusinda esimweni esiphuthumayo
