Lo nyaka ubunzima, ngisho nokuncane. Kodwa sesicishe safika ku-2021, okuyisizathu sokubungaza—nokulungiselela. Ukuze uqale unyaka omusha ngonyawo olufanele, singancoma ukuthi sithathe enye yalezi zincwadi ezikhuthazayo? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzizwa ubambekile emsebenzini wakho noma ubulokhu uzama ukuhlala unethemba, lezi zihloko ezikhuthazayo zizokusiza ukuthi ube nonyaka wakho omuhle kakhulu okwamanje.
OKUhlobene : Izincwadi Eziyisi-7 Esingakwazi Ukulinda Ukuzifunda Ngo-December
eyodwa. Cabanga Njengendela by Jay Shetty
Esikhundleni sokuya emcimbini wakhe wokuthweswa iziqu ekolishi, uJay Shetty waya eNdiya ukuze abe yindela. Ngemva kweminyaka emithathu, uthisha wamtshela ukuthi uzoba nomthelela omkhulu emhlabeni uma eshiya indlela yendela ukuze ahlanganyele ulwazi lwakhe nokuhlakanipha nabanye. Kule ncwadi, udonsa ngesikhathi sakhe njengendela, ehlanganisa ukuhlakanipha kwasendulo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe siqu ukuze embule indlela yokunqoba imicabango nemikhuba emibi, futhi afinyelele ukuzola nenjongo athi ingaphakathi kwethu sonke.
ezimbili. Drop the Ball: Zuza Okuningi Ngokwenza Kancane by Tiffany Dufu
Ingabe uke uzizwe ucindezeleke kakhulu ngemisebenzi yansuku zonke uze ulingeke ukuthi uthi nje ugoqe bese uthatha usuku lokugula? U-Tiffany Dufu ubekhona—futhi uqinisekisa ukuthi abesifazane bangaba nakho konke ngempela (umndeni onothando, umsebenzi onamandla, ikhabethe elihle kanye nesikhathi sokuphumula esihlanganisiwe) ngokudedela ibhola ezintweni abangazijabuleli noma abangazijabuleli. neqhaza enjongweni yabo enkulu. Ngakho-ke qhubeka, vumela lelowashi linqwabelane phansi ekamelweni. Une-yoga ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyenze.
3. Dlula kuyo! Ibhalwe ngu-Iyanla Vanzant
Lo mqeqeshi wempilo engokomoya ogunyazwe u-Oprah usiza bobabili abantu abanovalo asebekhathele ukuphila kanye nabantu abathukuthele ababambelele entukuthelweni yabo yokulunga. Ini. Uma. I. Inkinga. Uwena? uyabuza, okusho ukuthi izimo zethu zengqondo, hhayi izimo, ezinquma ukuthi siphila ukuphila okujabulisayo nokwanelisayo noma cha. I-Vanzant isebenzisa izivivinyo zokwelapha umcabango, inhlanganisela yamathuluzi angokomoya kanye nesayensi ye-neuroplasticity, ukuze kuqedwe amaphethini okucabanga angalungile namandla angokomzwelo.
Ezine. Umlingo Oshintsha Impilo Wokunganiki i-F*ck nguSarah Knight
Ukuphikisa isihloko se-smash-hit ka-Marie Kondo Umlingo Oshintsha Impilo Wokuqoqa , Incwadi ka-Knight imayelana nobuciko bokunakekela kancane nokuthola okwengeziwe. Ngokujabulisayo ubeka imithetho yokukhulula izibopho ezingafuneki ngaphandle kokuzizwa unecala, izinyathelo zokuhlakaza ingqondo yakho namathiphu okuhambisa amandla akho ezintweni ezibalulekile. I Ukubuyekezwa Kwencwadi Ye-New York Times ibize ngokuthi ukuzisiza okulingana nengoma ye-Weird Al ehlekisayo, futhi asikwazanga ukuvumelana okwengeziwe.
5. I-Professional Troublemaker: Incwadi Ye-Fear-Fighter by Luvvie Ajayi Jones
Kunethuba elinamandla lokuthi wazi u-Ajayi Jones ku-Instagram yakhe ehlakaniphile, eyedlule New York Times okuhamba phambili noma yena Inkulumo ye-TED emangalisayo . Faka ohlwini: Incwadi yakhe entsha, I-Professional Troublemaker: Incwadi Ye-Fear-Fighter , kulindeleke ukuthi ikhishwe ngoMashi 2021. U-Ajayi Jones uthi, Yincwadi engikholelwa ukuthi ngangiyidinga eminyakeni eyi-10 edlule lapho ngesaba ukuzibiza ngomlobi. Yincwadi engiyidingayo manje. Ngokuvamile ngithanda ukubhala izincwadi engifuna ukuzifunda…futhi ngiyazi ukuthi uma ziwusizo kimina, omunye umuntu uzothola ukubaluleka kwazo.
6. Umlingo Omkhulu: Ukuphila Ngokudala Ngaphandle Kokwesaba by Elizabeth Gilbert
Uyazi futhi uyathanda Yidla, Thandaza, Thanda , yingakho kufanele ufunde ngokuphelele incwadi kaGilbert yakamuva-ikwazi ukukhuthaza futhi inikeze amandla ngaphandle kokuba noshukela omningi. Kuyo, ungena ngokujulile enqubweni yakhe yokudala ukuze abelane ngezinto azifundile njengombhali, kanye nezeluleko ezijwayelekile zokuthi ungayiphila kanjani impilo yakho yokudala kakhulu. Uthando lukaGilbert lweqa ekhasini, futhi Umlingo Omkhulu ifundeka kahle futhi libalele.
7. Ama-Soulpreneurs nguYvette Luciano
Ingabe ufuna ukusuka emsebenzini wakho wamanje (noma ukungasebenzi) uye emsebenzini owanelisa kakhudlwana—kodwa wesaba ukuthi awunathalente, awunalo ulwazi noma ukhethekile ngokwanele ukusekela lo msebenzi? Le ncwadi, ebhalwe ngumqeqeshi wezempilo ozinze e-Australia, igcizelela ukuthi ngomphakathi, ukubambisana nesibindi, ungakha impilo yamaphupho esimeme, akukho plan B edingekayo.
8. I-Detox yokwahlulela nguGabrielle Bernstein
Lo mholi Womcabango Omusha othengiswa kakhulu nesikhulumi uqhamuke nezinyathelo eziyisithupha zokuzijwayeza ezibandakanya ukufaka esikhundleni sokuhlola okungekuhle kwabanye (kanye nawe) ngohlobo lokwamukela i-Buddhist Lite. Ukuzindla, ukwelapha okubizwa ngokuthi i-Emotional Freedom Technique (lapho uchofoza khona amaphuzu emzimbeni wakho ukuze uziqeqeshe kabusha ubheke ekucabangeni okuhle) kanye nomkhuleko kwengeza endleleni engeyona eyehlelo, ekhohlisayo ekuqaleni kodwa ekugcineni ezuzisayo yokuzithiba—cha. amakhadi esikweletu noma i-Chardonnay edingekayo.
9. Mhlawumbe Kufanele Ukhulume Nothile: Umelaphi, Umelaphi Wakhe kanye Nokuphila Kwethu Kwembulwa nguLori Gottlieb
Besilokhu sibona le ncwadi yonke indawo kusukela yaphuma ngo-Ephreli 2019. Ngakho-ke, asimangazi ukuthi okwamanje i-#7 eshadini Elifundwa Kakhulu lase-Amazon. I-twist eqabulayo yokuzisiza ilandisa ngesipiliyoni sika-Gottlieb sokuba ngumelaphi e-L.A., kuyilapho ebona umelaphi ngokwakhe, kuyilapho ezulazula ngokudabukisayo kwenhliziyo. Singenile.
10. Ukukhula Okunamandla: Ukuthi Ikhono Lokusetha Kabusha Liyiguqula Kanjani Indlela Esiphila Ngayo, Esothando, Umzali kanye Nokuhola nguBrené Brown
Ngokusho kukaprofesa wocwaningo kanye nesikhulumi se-TED esidumile uBrené Brown, ukwehluleka empeleni kungaba yinto enhle. Encwadini yakhe yesihlanu, uBrown uchaza ukuthi ukuzulazula ezikhathini ezinzima ezimpilweni zethu kuvame ukuba lapho sifunda kakhulu ngokuthi singobani.
OKUhlobene : Izincwadi Ezingu-40 Zokunikeza Wonke Umuntu Osohlwini Lwakho Kulo nyaka
