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Ngabe uphelelwa yizihloko zobudlelwano ozokhuluma ngazo? Ngabe uzithola ufuna izehlakalo noma izingxoxo ezithokozisayo ukulungisa igebe lokuxhumana? Yebo, lesi sigaba sivame kakhulu ebudlelwaneni nabalingani abaningi ababhekene nezinkinga ezifanayo zokuxhumana. Ukuba nezingxoxo ezinempilo kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo. Eqinisweni, izingxoxo ezinempilo nezakhayo ziyaqhubeka zichaze lokho kungafani okuncane phakathi kobudlelwano obudlamkileyo nobuyisicefe.
Uma usebudlelwaneni obusha, kulula ukugcina ukugeleza kuhamba, ngoba ngamunye wenu uzoba nenqwaba yemibuzo komunye. Uma usebudlelwaneni obuhlale bunempilo isikhathi eside manje, ukuthula kungabonakala njengokujwayelekile kunangaphambili. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi, kukwenza ubuze ngezinga elihlukile lokuthula okuyingxenye nenqwaba yabo bonke ubuhlobo. Manje lapho ungabaza ukuthula, ungahle ungene esikhaleni sokuxhumana, into engathandwa yinina.
Ngakho-ke, uma ukhuluma ngezihloko zobudlelwano ozokhuluma ngazo, le ndatshana ikunikeza ukuqonda okusabekayo okuzokusiza ukuphendula imibuzo: 'yiziphi izihloko okufanele ukhulume nentombi yami' futhi ngokufanayo, 'yiziphi izihloko okufanele ukhulume nesoka lami'.
Uncoma umlingani wakho
Ukuncoma umlingani wakho akuyona nje into okufanele uphendukele kuyo uma uphelelwa yizihloko zobudlelwano. Ukumncoma njalo kuzovula indlela yokuxhumana okujulile futhi okugxilile.
Izinhlelo Zempelasonto
Ukuhlela kuyingxenye ethokozisayo yobudlelwano. Ukuhlelela impelasonto kungaba yinto ongayenza uma uphelelwa yizinto ongakhuluma ngazo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uhlelo oluhle lwangempelasonto luzoletha nobabili nobabili.
Izinto Ezenzeka Emsebenzini
Kuzoba nokuthile okuthakazelisayo ukukhuluma ngomsebenzi cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukukhumbula izehlakalo ezithile ezihlekisayo nokuxoxa ngazo kungumbono omuhle impela.
Ukuvelela
Uma lowo mbuzo, yiziphi izihloko okufanele ukhulume nentombi yakho, noma yiziphi izihloko ozokhuluma ngazo nesoka lakho ezisalokhu zihlasela ingqondo yakho ngemuva kokufunda amaphuzu ashiwo ngaphambili, ukukhuluma ngezifiso kuyindlela enhle yokusondeza intombi yakho noma isoka lakho eduze kwakho.
Umndeni
Ngaphandle kokuba yisihloko esibalulekile ukuxoxa ngaso, kungaba mnandi kwesinye isikhathi nakho. Ukukhuluma ngezinto ezenzeka emindenini yomunye nomunye kungenza izingxoxo ezithakazelisayo.
Iziphakamiso Neseluleko
Ukuxhumana akudingi ukuthi kube mayelana nokwenza ingxoxo ngesihloko esithile. Kwesinye isikhathi, ukunikeza izeluleko ezizuzisayo nakho kuyadingeka.
Imigomo Eyabiwe
Ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela imigomo yomuntu siqu, kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngezinhloso ezabiwe, izinhloso noma imibono eqale yahlanganisa nobabili. Ubudlelwano lapho bobabili abalingani babelana ngezinhloso ezifanayo ngobo obuzohlala hhayi impilo eyodwa kuphela.
Izihloko Zokulala
Izinto zingahle zingahambi kahle ekamelweni lokulala kwesinye isikhathi futhi uma izinto ezinjengalezo zihlala ngaphandle kwengxoxo enempilo, ukuqinisa ubudlelwane kungaba nzima. Isibonelo, mhlawumbe awuzange uthande ukuya ocansini kwesinye isikhathi. Uma ungakhulumi ngemizwa yakho nezizathu, ukushiya umlingani wakho eqagela akuwona neze umqondo omuhle.
Okwedlule
Okwedlule kuyinto wonke umuntu athanda ukuxoxa ngayo - ikakhulukazi izehlakalo eziphathelene nobudlelwano obudlule. Ukuxoxa ngalesi sihloko kungajabulisa impela.
Ukunikeza Usizo
Ukunikeza usizo nokwenza umlingani wakho azi ukuthi ukhona ukumenzela kubalulekile. Ukuchaza ukuthi ungaba kanjani usizo kungaba yisihloko esakha kakhulu esingaqinisa ubudlelwano.
Zama lezi zihloko zobudlelwano bese ubona umphumela okuletha ebudlelwaneni bakho. Lokhu kulula kakhulu
izindlela zokuvala igebe lokuxhumana onalo nomlingani wakho. Yenza okungcono kakhulu ngakho ngaphandle kokulibala.
Uma ukuthandile ukufunda le ndatshana, yabelana ngayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ungakhohlwa ukunikeza impendulo ngezansi esigabeni sokuphawula.
Halala!