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Ukuthanda umuntu akuyona ikhekhe lokuhamba noma ukuhlukana nalowo muntu. Lapho umthanda ngobuqotho umuntu, ubeka isikhathi sakho nemizwelo yakho kulowo muntu. Kungenzeka ukuthi awukaze ucabange ukuthi uzohlukana nomuntu omthanda kakhulu. Ukudedela othile ngenxa yengozi embi, ukugula, isehlukaniso noma ukuhlukana kubuhlungu kakhulu. Akunandaba ukuthi siyini isizathu sokwehlukana, ubuhlungu bukhulu kakhulu kangangokuba abantu bavame ukucabanga ukuthi bangadinga impilo yonke ukunqoba. Kodwa-ke, nazi izikhombisi ezizokusiza ukuthi unqobe lobu buhlungu ngendlela elula futhi udedele lowo obumthanda kakhulu.
Skrolela phansi i-athikili ukuze ufunde kabanzi:
1. Vuma ukuthi kungani ubudlelwano bakho buphelile
Okokuqala, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi yini okungahambanga kahle nokuthi kungani ubuhlobo bakho baphela. Ngabe kwakuwukulwa njalo nokungaqondani noma ngabe bekuyinto ebuhlungu? Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu sokuhlukana kwakho, udinga ukusamukela. Ngaphandle kokuthi ungasitholi isizathu sokuhlukana kwakho, ngeke ukwazi ukudedela umlingani wakho.
2. Dedela Izinyembezi Zakho
Siyaqonda ukuthi ungahle ulimale futhi ucindezeleke ngemuva kokuphela kobudlelwano bakho. Ungakhungathekiswa yimizwa mayelana nezikhathi ezinhle nezimbi. Esimweni esinjalo, ukubamba izinyembezi zakho nomunyu kungenza izinto zibe nzima. Uma uzizwa ufuna ukukhala ngicela wenze okufanayo futhi uzikhulule ebuhlungwini. Ukubamba izinkumbulo ezibuhlungu nezibuhlungu ngeke kukusize ekuqhubekeni phambili empilweni yakho.
3. Nciphisa Bonke Oxhumana Nabo
Ngaphandle kwamehlo, ngaphandle kwengqondo- lokhu kuzosebenza ngempela uma unqamula bonke ubuhlobo nomlingani wakho. Lesi ngesinye sezinyathelo ezibalulekile zokudedela umuntu omthandayo. Udinga ukususa inombolo yakhe, umsuse kwi-akhawunti yakho yezokuxhumana futhi ugweme ukuxhumana naye. Ukwehluleka lokhu, kungahle kungakusizi ekudedeleni lowo muntu nokwelapha inhliziyo yakho ephukile. Ungahle ungakwazi ukudlulela phambili ngoba uzohlala uzithola ubuyela kulowo muntu.
4. Yamukela Anisekho Ndawonye
Noma ngabe nobabili beninobudlelwano obujabulile nobunempilo futhi nanikela ngakho konke okusemandleni enu ukwenza ubudlelwano buhlale unomphela, kufanele nikwamukele ukuthi anisekho ndawonye. Kunemibhangqwana ezinikela ngokuphelele ebudlelwaneni kodwa engakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye ingunaphakade. Vele wamukele lokhu bese uzozizwa kulula ukudlulela phambili.
5. Shiya ngemuva kwesikhathi esedlule
Ukuyekela umuntu omthandayo akusho ukuthi udinga nje ukuyeka ukuxhumana naye bese uqhubeka empilweni yakho. Eqinisweni, kumayelana nokushiya emuva okwedlule. Udinga ukudedela izinkumbulo zabo futhi. Uma ukuvakashela lezo zindawo lapho nobabili nichitha isikhathi ndawonye, kunigcwalisa ngosizi nobuhlungu, ngakho-ke kungcono ukushiya okwedlule. Siyaqonda ukuthi ungahle ungakwazi ukukhohlwa isikhathi enisichithe ndawonye kodwa-ke akunasizathu sokubuyela emuva kokuphindaphindiwe.
6. Cabanga Ngokufanele
Ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho abuhlalanga unomphela, akusho ukuthi usephutheni. Lapho ucabanga ngokwengeziwe ngokwenzekile futhi uma ngabe kukhona obukwenzile ukusindisa ubudlelwano, ngeke ukwazi ukusuka kude nesigayegaye. Udinga ukugcina okuhle kuwe kuphila, kungenjalo izinto ngeke zibe lula.
7. Shayela Abangani Bakho Nabanye Abathandekayo
Abangani bakho nabathandekayo bakho bangakusiza ekudedeleni umuntu omthanda kakhulu. Kuthiwa abantu obathandayo bangenza izinto zibe lula ngisho nangezikhathi zakho ezinzima. Ngakho-ke uma ungeke ukwazi ukuqhubeka nokudabuka kwenhliziyo ungabiza abantu obathandayo. Ukuba khona kwabo kuzokukwenza uzizwe ungcono futhi ujabule.
8. Sebenzisa Isikhathi Sakho Ekwenziweni Komsebenzi Obalulekile
Kungcono ukuthi uzibandakanye ekwenzeni okuthile okukhiqizayo futhi okunenjongo. Akunangqondo ukukhala ngokuthi konakelephi njengoba ungeke wenze lutho manje ukulungisa izinto. Kepha ungenza impilo yakho ibe ngcono ngokusebenzela amaphupho akho nokwenza ikusasa lakho liqhakaze. Lokhu ngeke kukusize kuphela ekuphumeleleni kepha kuzokwenza ukuthi ushiye ubumuncu namagqubu.
9. Funa Injabulo Yangaphakathi
Ungazizwa udabukile futhi ucindezelekile ukuyeka umlingani wakho ngemuva kokuqeda ubuhlobo bakho. Lokhu akwenziwa ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho abuzange busebenze kodwa ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi ubungakulindelanga lokhu empilweni yakho. Ubufuna ukuhlala nomlingani wakho ngakho-ke, uphuphe okufanayo ngekusasa lakho. Kodwa njengoba impilo yashintsha ngokungalindelekile, ungazizwa udumele kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukujabula. Thola injabulo yakho, yenza izinto ezikwenza ujabule futhi ukhohlwe ubuhlungu bakho. Impilo iba lula uma uyeka ubuhlungu, amagqubu nentukuthelo.
10. Thatha Ukunquma Kuwo
Ngemuva kokumyekela ngempumelelo umlingani wakho wangaphambili, udinga ukuthatha inkomba ebuhlotsheni bakho obuhlulekile. Uma isizathu sokuqeda ubuhlobo bakho kwakuwukuziphatha okunobuthi komlingani wakho, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthi ungabuyeli ebudlelwaneni obufanayo. Esikhundleni salokho, ungafunda izifundo ezithile ezibalulekile futhi uzisindise kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwano obunjalo obunobuthi ngokuzayo.
