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'Ushintsho ukuphela kwesikhathi' futhi sonke siyakwazi lokho. Wonke umuntu kufanele enze ushintsho oluthile noma olunye empilweni yakhe yonke. Ngezinye izikhathi, ungahle ube nemicabango eminingi yokuthi ungaba kanjani umuntu onamandla ngokwengeziwe ngokomzwelo.
Awungeke uqine ngosuku olulodwa nje. Okuhlangenwe nakho nezifundo kuphela okungakuqinisa futhi kukusize ube ngumuntu ofisa ukuba yikho. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi, izinguquko zingazizwa zingakhululekile futhi kunzima ukwamukela. Esikhundleni sokuzizwa ukhathazekile futhi udidekile, udinga ukwamukela ushintsho, uma uhlose ukuba ngumuntu onamandla.
1. Uyazisola ngamaphutha akho adlule
'Ukwenza iphutha kungumuntu' okusho ukuthi kuhle ukuthi abantu benze amaphutha. Kepha, akukuhle neze ukuqhubeka nokuphinda lawo maphutha. Uma uwazi amaphutha owenze esikhathini esedlule, qiniseka ukuthi awaphindi futhi ngokuzayo. Lokhu ngokungangabazeki kuzokusiza ube ngumuntu ongcono.
2. Ufuna Ukuqeda Ubudlelwano Obunobuthi
Ngenkathi ukhula, kufanele ngabe waxhumana nabantu abahlukile. Kepha, wawungeke wazi ngaleso sikhathi ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abangaba umngane weqiniso. Abanye bangaphindisela impela.
Uyazi ukuthi uyaqina lapho ususa abantu abanezinhloso ezimbi empilweni yakho futhi uyakwazi ukubona abantu abakukhathalela ngokweqiniso. Awusafuni ukujabulisa noma ngubani okuvumela phansi njalo futhi asuse ukuthula empilweni yakho. Noma ngabe ubenesikhathi eside naloyo muntu, uyaqonda ukuthi akusizi ngalutho ukuhlala ebunganeni / ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi.
Funda futhi: Qaphela Ukuhamba Emanzini Ebudlelwaneni, Lo Mkhuba Omusha Awumnandi Kangako!
3. Ukhetha Obethembayo
Ukuba ongenalwazi kuyinto enhle, ukuba yisiphukuphuku akusikho futhi lapho uba umuntu oqinile, ukuqonda kahle lokhu. Uyakhetha impela uma kukhulunywa ngokukhetha abangani noma ukuphola nothile. Ngaleso sizathu, awufuni ukuthenga izingqinamba zabantu bese uvumela ukwethembana kwakho kuphulwe futhi. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kwangaphambilini akukuvumeli ukubeka ithemba lakho kumuntu osanda kuhlangana naye emcimbini noma ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ufuna ukuba nabantu abaqotho futhi abangadlali imidlalo yengqondo.
4. Uyaziqhenya Ngamaphutha Akho
Akekho umuntu ophelele futhi ophelele akekho. Isikhathi esiphezulu sokuthi sikuqonde lokhu. Wonke umuntu unamaphutha athile noma okunye futhi njengoba sikhula, siyaliqonda futhi siyalamukela leli qiniso.
Awusazenzi izinto zokufihla lezo zibazi zezinduna noma igebe eliphakathi kwamazinyo akho. Eqinisweni, ubheka lawo maphutha njengengxenye eyodwa yakho. Futhi-ke, awuzizwa unamahloni noma ucasukile lapho othile ekhomba amaphutha akho.
5. Uyaqonda Ukuthi Ufanelwe Ukujabula Njalo
Uqonda kakhulu ukuthi injabulo yinto eza kuqala kuwe ngakho-ke, noma yini eza endleleni yoxolo lwakho lwengqondo nenjabulo, umane uyilahle.
Uyakhetha lapho kuziwa ekukhetheni abangane futhi wazi ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo okufanele uzibheke kumuntu ofuna ukuba naye. Manje usufuna abantu abangakuvumela ukuthi ube yilokho oyikho hhayi lokho abafuna ube yikho. Futhi, ufuna ukuba nabantu abakhona ukukukhuthaza nokukusekela ezikhathini ezinzima.
6. Awunqeni Ukunikeza Umbono Wakho Othembekile
Uma kukhulunywa ngokunikeza imibono, awuyifihli imicabango yakho eqotho. Ukhuluma okuzwayo futhi ufunda ukukwazisa ukubonakala, kungaba ngumsebenzi noma ubudlelwano. Noma ngabe iqiniso linzima kangakanani futhi linzima kangakanani, uma uzizwa lifuna ukushiwo, umane ulisho ngaphandle kokungabaza.
7. Uyabazonda Abantu Abenza Izaba Eziyizigaxa
Manje usuhleleke ngokwengeziwe futhi ukhetha abantu abathembekile nabasebenza kanzima. Futhi, ubeka phambili izinhloso zakho zomsebenzi nezomsebenzi futhi ulindele ukuthi abangane bakho abasondelene nabo benze okufanayo. Uyazonda lapho bebeka izaba eziyize.
8. Ufunda Ukwehluleka
Impilo akuyona into eyenzeka kuwe kepha iyinkomba yezinqumo zakho. Uke wabhekana nezimo ezinzima futhi ukwehluleka kungaba ngenye yazo kepha kuhle ukuthi njalo uma uwa phansi, ufunde ukuma uqine. Wazi kahle ukuthi kunjani lapho amaphupho ephela, ngakho-ke, sifunda ukusebenza kanzima. Okufanayo kuyasebenza ebudlelwaneni, uyazi okulungile nokungalungile kuwe.
9. Usukulungele Ukuxolisa
Awusekho esikoleni ozobambela umuntu igqubu ngoba wenze iphutha. Uyakuqonda futhi nokuthi ukuxolisa kuyisibonakaliso sokungabi buthakathaka. Uqinisekisa ukusula ukungezwani phakathi kwakho nabathandekayo ngokushesha okukhulu.
10. Awucasuki Lapho Abantu Bakhomba Amaphutha
Uhlala uzimisele ukuthola izindlela zokuzithuthukisa futhi ube ngumuntu ongcono ngosuku ngalunye oludlulayo. Noma abantu beza bezokhomba amaphutha akho, awushintshi izindlela zakho zokuzivikela, kunalokho lalela izeluleko zabo noma iziphakamiso bese uhlala uvulekele imibono emisha.
Kubalulekile ukuthi uqonde ukuthi ukuzinza ngokomzwelo kuzo zonke izimo kubaluleke kakhulu futhi ekugcineni, uzomthanda ngempela lowo muntu oba yikho. Ukuba namandla kusho ukuba namandla ngokomzwelo, futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuba sibe yizidalwa ezihlakaniphile ngokomzwelo kunokuba sibonise amandla omzimba.