Uyazi ukuthi, Uhambo olubalulekile, hhayi indawo okuyiwa kuyo ? Kuyacaca ukuthi oqhamuke nalo akakaze ahlale emotweni nezingane ezimbili ezixabanayo. Uhambo lwasemgwaqweni lomndeni luvamise ukukhangiswa njengokuzizwisa okuhlanganisayo, okupheleliswa ngezingxoxo ezinde kanye nezingxoxo ezisuka enhliziyweni. Kodwa njengoba noma imuphi umzali oye wenza omunye azi, ukuhlala emotweni isikhathi esingaphezu kwemizuzu engu-15 nengane yakho kuwuhlobo lwako lokuhlukunyezwa. Eqinisweni, okuwukuphela kwento embi kakhulu kunokushayisa umgwaqo nabantu abancane ukubhekana nokulibaziseka kwendiza, imithwalo elahlekile kanye nokudla kwendiza ye-crappy. Ngakho kuleli hlobo, ushaya umgwaqo. Ungakhathazeki—sinemibono engu-15 yokuthi ungasenza kanjani isikhathi sidlule. Nazi izinto ezinhle kakhulu ongayenza ohambweni olude lwemoto nezingane. (Psst: Bazosebenza kahle futhi ohambweni olusheshayo lokuya esitolo.)
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Izithombe ze-Kinzie Riehm/Getty1. Lalela iphodikasti
Yebo, into efanayo ekugcina ujabulile ohambeni lwakho lwasekuseni izosebenza ukuze ithathe wonke umndeni ogibeleni lwakho lwemoto ukuvakashela ugogo. Kusukela kokuhlekisayo kuye kokucabangayo, nanka amaphodikasti ayisishiyagalolunye amangalisayo ezingane . Futhi ezinganeni ezindala kancane, zama enye yalawa maphodikasti yentsha . Ufuna okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu ezindlebeni ezincane (ngoba nje kusehlobo, akusho ukuthi ukufunda kuphelile)? Zama okukodwa kwalokhu amaphodikasti okufundisa ezingane .2. Noma zama i-audiobook
Ujabule kakhulu ngokuyifunda yonke u-Harry Potter uchungechunge futhi, kodwa kulokhu ukwabelana nomhlaba we-Hogwarts nengane yakho. Inkinga kuphela? Lezo zincwadi eside. Futhi ngesikhathi uxoxa nemini yakho ebusuku ukuze umfundele indaba ngaphambi kokulala, angakwazi kuphela ukuphatha amakhasi ambalwa ngaphambi kokuquleka. Hhayi-ke, ukugibela imoto okude kuyithuba elihle lokukhumbula umlingo. Landa uchungechunge lwe-wizarding nokunye okuningi ngokukhetha kwethu ama-audiobook ayishumi angcono kakhulu omndeni wonke.
3. Dlala umdlalo wepuleti lelayisense kahulumeni
Ungase ukhumbule lo msebenzi kusukela useyingane futhi lokho kungenxa yokuthi owakudala awuphumi esitayeleni. Ukuze udlale, yenza uhlu lwazo zonke izifundazwe ezingu-50 kusengaphambili noma ngenkathi usemotweni (ukuze uthole inselelo eyengeziwe, bona ukuthi ongqondongqondo bakho abancane bangakwazi yini ukusho zonke izifundazwe ngaphandle kokuzibheka phezulu). Khona-ke njengoba ingane ngayinye ithola ipuleti elivela endaweni entsha, iqala ukulikhipha ohlwini lwayo. Owokuqala ukuqeda zonke izifundazwe ezingama-50 (noma uthole inombolo ephezulu yezifunda eziweliwe) nguye owinile. Ibhonasi eyengeziwe? Ingane yakho izozijwayeza igeography yayo kanye namakhono okukhumbula ngekhanda.
4. Phumula
Uma uhambo lwakho lomgwaqo lude ngempela futhi unezingane ezincane nawe khona-ke i-naptime iyadingeka. Kodwa wenzenjani uma ingane yakho imelana? Yenza isihlalo sangemuva sithokomele ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze wandise amathuba okuthizela. Cabanga: ukufiphaza izibani (mhlawumbe nokutshala imali kwenye yalezi ifasitela shades ), bedlala izingoma ezipholile, besekela amakhanda abo futhi beletha ithoyizi abalithandayo.
I-MoMo Productions/Getty Images5. Dlala I-Mad Libs
Enye intandokazi okujabulisa kakhulu ukuyidlala manje njengoba kwakunjalo ngenkathi useyingane. Ngaphambi kokungena emgwaqeni, qoqa ezimbalwa amaphakethe we-Mad Libs bese niyashintshana ngokugcwalisa izikhala ngalokho okuqinisekisiwe kuzophumela ekuhlekeni okuningi nxazonke. (Psst: Inguqulo ye-Junior inhle kakhulu kusethi engaphansi kweminyaka engu-8.)6. Buka imuvi
Noma yiliphi icala onalo mayelana nesikhathi sesikrini, lishiye ekhaya. Umbukiso okhethwe kahle noma ifilimu ingasindisa uhambo lomgwaqo oluyingozi futhi yenze into ejabulisayo ngempela (kuwo wonke umuntu ohilelekile). Kusukela kopopayi abafushane kuya kumahlaya ahlekisayo, nawa wethu amafilimu omndeni ayintandokazi ongayiqasha noma uyilande ngaphambi kohambo lwakho. Sawubona, ungase uthole ngisho nalowo mndeni ucula nawe obuphupha ngawo (kuya Kuyeke kuhambe , ngokusobala).
7. Iba nesnack
Ujahidada olulambile luyingozi noma ngabe ukuphi—isihlalo sangemuva semoto sifakiwe. Qiniseka ukuthi upakisha ukukhethwa kokudla okulula okunempilo kohambo lwakho futhi ukukhiphe lapho uzwa ukuthi ingane yakho iqala ukudinwa. Sithanda ukushaya inqwaba yamabha we-cherry-almond granola noma ukulunywa kwe-mac-and-shizi ngaphambi kokuhamba kodwa futhi ungathenga izikhwama ezimbalwa noma ushizi wezintambo ozohamba nazo. Lokhu kuzosiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi awuhlanyi egalaji likaphethiloli futhi ulayishe ama-chips namaswidi (ngoba ingane egxumele ushukela ayiwona neze umqondo omuhle).
8. Xhumana nomunye nomunye
Impela, nibonana nsuku zonke kodwa kukangaki nihlala phansi nivulelane isifuba? Sebenzisa lokhu kugibela imoto njengethuba lokuphinde nixhumane. Kanjani? Ngokubuza imibuzo eshukumisa ingqondo engenakuphendulwa ngoyebo noma cha. Nansi eminye imibono: Iyiphi into engcono kakhulu eyenzeke kuwe? Iyiphi into embi kakhulu eyenzeke kuwe? Uma ubungenza umthetho owodwa okufanele wonke umuntu emhlabeni ulandelwe, ubungaba yini?
Izithombe ze-Westend61/Getty9. Funda ulimi
KULUNGILE, akekho okholelwa ukuthi uzofundisa izingane zakho isi-Mandarin ohambweni lwemoto lwamahora amathathu ukuya phezulu. Kodwa uma izingane zakho seziqalile ukufunda ulimi esikoleni, kungani-ke ungathathi leli thuba ukuze ubuyekeze ezikufundile futhi mhlawumbe uzifundise (nawe ngokwakho) amanye amagama ambalwa kanye nemithetho yohlelo lolimi. Landa uhlelo lokusebenza (siyathanda Stories By Gus on the Go ngeSpanishi noma Duolingo ngezinye izilimi ezingaphezu kuka-30) futhi niyifunde ndawonye. Vamanos.10. Dlala umdlalo wokuhamba
Uma izingane zakho sezizitholele zonke izifundazwe ezingama-50, udinga omunye umdlalo ukuze ugcine wonke umuntu ematasa. Kusukela ku-travel chess bese uxhuma oku-4 ekuhambeni uye kuma-teaser obuchopho namaphazili enkumbulo, lezi 21 imidlalo yokuhamba yezingane nakanjani kuzosiza ukugcina sisekhona? imibuzo okungenani.
11. Vumela izingane zihlobise amafasitela azo
Nali icebo elizothandwa izingane zakho: Zinike amasethi okunamathisela amafasitela kanye izimpawu eziwashekayo futhi badedele amantongomane efasiteleni lemoto yabo (ngenkathi beboshelwe ngokuphephile ezihlalweni zabo, kunjalo). Bayoba nokuzijabulisa okuningi ngokudala imisebenzi yabo yobuciko futhi uma upakisha indwangu kakotini esihlalweni esingemuva, bazokwazi ukusula indalo yabo futhi baqale phansi.
kate_sept2004/Getty Images12. Yenza ukuzingela kukadoti
Lokhu kudinga ukuhlela okuncane engxenyeni yakho kodwa inkokhelo inkulu (okungukuthi, ingane engakhonondi ukuthi inesithukuthezi esihlalweni esingemuva). Yenza uhlu lwezinto ongazicinga ngaphambi kokungena emotweni ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukumaka uma uhamba. Nansi eminye imibono yokuqalisa: izinkomo, amasonto, iloli lomlilo, imoto ephuzi, uphawu lokuma, inja...uyawuthola umqondo.13. Zindla
Ingabe umqondo wokuthola ingane yakho enamandla amakhulu ukuthi iphefumule futhi Nethezeka kubonakala kukude? Uma sikhuluma ngezingane kanye nokucabangela, umgomo akufanele kube ukufeza inguqulo yomuntu omdala yokuphumula okuphelele noma ukuzindla, kusho uRegine Galanti, Ph.D., umbhali wezincwadi Ukukhululwa Kokukhathazeka Kwentsha: Amakhono Abalulekile e-CBT kanye Nemikhuba Yokucabangela Ukunqoba Ukukhathazeka Nokucindezeleka . Engikuthandayo ukucabanga ngakho ngezingane ezincane wukubanikeza okunye okumele bakwenze ngemizimba yabo okubenza baphinde bagxile kuzo, usho kanje. Akudingekile ukubathulisa ngokuphelele. Lapha, imisebenzi eyisikhombisa yokucabangela yezingane , yonke yakhelwe ukuzisiza ukuthi zizinze.
14. Dlala imibuzo engama-20
Nansi indlela: Cabanga ngomuntu, indawo, noma into. Bese kuba yisikhathi sokuthi wonke umuntu ajike akubuze umbuzo othi yebo noma cha kuze kube yilapho ucabangani. Kuyajabulisa, kulula futhi inketho enhle kuyo yonke iminyaka.
15. Nicule
Woza, uyazi ukuthi uyafuna.
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