Noma ubani owake wazama ukuqomisana nge-inthanethi okungenani unendaba eyodwa ethusayo (noma eziningi, eziningi ngaphezulu) , kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi konke ukuswayipha kwesokudla kuwubuwula obuphelele. Lapha, izindaba eziyisishiyagalombili eziyiqiniso mayelana nokuqomisana ku-inthanethi ezizokunikeza yonke imizwa.
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Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliNgakho-ke, bengikulo mdlalo wamahlaya futhi insizwa ehlekisayo, nenhle kunawo wonke yayisesiteji. Abangane bami babefuna ukuthi ngihlale ngixoxe naye ngemva kohlelo, kodwa ngazizwa ngixakile ngakho ngahamba. Shesha-phambili ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kamuva futhi saqondana ku-Tinder! Ngambona ngaso leso sikhathi futhi ngajabula lapho engicela ukuba ngiyodla isidlo sakusihlwa. Sayiqeda ngokushesha futhi sesineminyaka engaba unyaka manje sithandana. – Sally
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ngathatha ifoni yomngane wami, ngazivalela endlini yakhe yokugezela ngambhalisela i-Tinder. Ngabo lobo busuku, sashela isithandwa sakhe manje—bazoshada ngoSepthemba. Wamukelekile. – Ami
Lapho ubaba ebuyela emakethe ngemva kweminyaka eminingi kangaka, wanquma ukuzama le nto izingane eziyibiza ngokuthi ‘ukuqomisana nge-inthanethi.’ Ngaphandle kokuthi wayengaqiniseki ngempela ngokuthi amadoda akulo kufanele aziphathe kanjani, ngakho wakha i-akhawunti yowesifazane mbumbulu. ukuthola amathiphu. Lapho esefunde umnyakazo kwamanye amadoda esizeni, wabe esezakhela eyakhe (yangempela) i-akhawunti futhi manje usejola nowesifazane othandekayo ahlangane naye lapho. – Math
Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliNgemva kokuhlukana nesoka lami leminyaka eyisithupha, nganquma ukwenza i-Facebook purge. Njengoba ngangiskrola ohlwini lwabantu engangingakaze ngikhulume nabo unomphela futhi ngisusa abathintwayo, ukuchotshozwa kwami esikoleni esiphakathi kwangithumelela umlayezo ngokungahleliwe. Kwatholakala ukuthi sobabili sihlala edolobheni elilodwa futhi wabuza ukuthi ngiyafuna yini ukuthola inkomishi yekhofi. Ngenzile, futhi manje siyashada ngoMeyi. Ubani owayazi ukuthi i-Facebook ingaba usizo kangaka? – Megan
Mina nomyeni wami sahlangana endaweni yokuphola eminyakeni emine edlule futhi ngangingeke ngenze izinto ngendlela ehlukile. Ngokushesha nje lapho ngikhubeka kuphrofayela ka-Blaine, ngaso leso sikhathi ngacabanga ukuthi muhle kakhulu. Ngelula isandla ngesitatimende esinobuhlakani (okungithathe isikhathi eside ukuthi ngibhale) futhi waphendula ngaso leso sikhathi. Kodwa ingxenye engcono kakhulu yayiwukuthi wayengasebenzi kuphrofayela yakhe ye-inthanethi isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha futhi wayesayine ngalo kanye lolo suku ukuze akhansele i-akhawunti yakhe! Kodwa wawubona umyalezo wami futhi kwenzeka nje wanquma ukungithumelela umlayezo. Khuluma ngokudalelwa. - Amy (ohlukile)
Umzala wami wayeshiswe yi-ex yakhe eyayikhohlisa, kodwa ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa (nezingilazi eziningi zewayini), ekugcineni ngamqinisekisa ukuthi wayesekulungele ukubuyela lapho. Ngimenzele iphrofayili yeBumble nomuntu wokuqala kulayini wakhe? Umngane wakhe kusukela esikoleni esiphakeme. Bekulokhu kukhona okuthize lapho kodwa isikhathi asikaze silunge. Wathatha isithombe-skrini wasithumela kuye ethi, ‘Ngosuku lokuqala ngibuyele endaweni yokuqomisana futhi ubheke ukuthi ubani ozovela!’ Waphendula ngokuthi, ‘Ingabe kufanele ngilinde ukuze ngifane nawe ukuze ngikucele ukuba siphume? ndawonye cishe iminyaka emibili manje. – Mary
Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliMina nesoka lami uJoe sahambisana ku-Tinder ngo-Okthoba 2013 futhi amasonto amaningi, wayesaba ukuhlangana nami ngoba sasine-chemistry emangalisayo ku-inthanethi. Ekugcineni sathatha iziphuzo endaweni engangiyithanda kakhulu eMidwestern eBrooklyn, lapho ayethi ‘wayezoba ‘umsakazi ekhoneni namakhilimu kashizi.’ Sawuqeda ngokushesha futhi manje sihlala ndawonye ezansi ngqo nebhulokhi kuleyo bha namakati ethu amabili. , uPip noBoBo. Nokho, 'usenguJoe Tinder' ocingweni lami. Uzohlala eyisoka lami le-Tinder. – Leah
Ngemuva kwesehlukaniso sami, ngabhalisela i-Match.com, i-Tinder ne-Bumble, futhi ngajola namadoda angu-64 eminyakeni engaphezudlwana nje kwemibili (ezinye zinhle, ezinye ezimbi, ezinye ezimbi ngempela). Ngaso sonke isikhathi, bengihlezi ngibeka ibanga lami leminyaka esukela kwengama-33 kuye kwengama-42. Usuku lwami lokugcina (inombolo 65) bengikanye no-Troy futhi sachofoza khona manjalo, nokuyinto enhle futhi njengoba usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lwama-43 lwalusele izinsuku ezimbalwa nje—usuku lwethu lufike. isikhathi sasiphelele. Sihlela ukuhlala ndawonye kuleli hlobo.' – Elisabethe
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