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Enye yezinto ezingashiwo kangako kepha mhlawumbe into enhle kakhulu empilweni yomuntu ukubona abazali bakhe bejabule. Injabulo emehlweni omzali ihlukile kakhulu futhi ibaluleke kakhulu ngokuphelele. Kuzoza iphuzu empilweni yomuntu ngamunye, ikakhulukazi ngemuva komshado, lapho umuntu azolungela ukunikela nganoma yini ukubuyela emuva esikhathini futhi ajabulise abazali bakhe. Manje yini ngempela eyenza abazali bakho bajabule? Yiziphi izinto ezilimaza abazali bakho? Imibuzo efanele impela, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi, ngaphandle kokukhumbula, empeleni ulimaza abazali bakho ngezindlela eziningi.
UKWENZA ABAZALI BAQONDE
Singobani nokuthi siyini kungenxa yabazali bethu, izipho ezithunyelwe nguNkulunkulu uqobo. Uhlobo lothando nothando olulethwa abazali empilweni yengane alusoze lwacaciswa ngamagama- kungaphezu kokuchazwa ngamagama. Yize sinenhlanhla yokuba nemiphefumulo engakholeki kangaka ezimpilweni zethu, kubalulekile ukuthi sibahloniphe, sibahloniphe futhi sibazise abazali bethu, ngoba uma singakwenzi besekhona, impilo ezele ukuzisola izosilinda.
Lo mbhalo ubheka izinto eziyi-8 esizenzayo ezingalimaza abazali bakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi lezi zinto ezilimaza abazali bakho futhi uyeke ukuzenza.
Ukuqamba Amanga Kubazali Bakho
Yazi lokhu ngeqiniso- abazali bakho bazofinyelela manje uma ubaqamba amanga. Kwesinye isikhathi, bangavele bakholwe okushoyo kubo. Ungaqambi amanga kubazali bakho, ngoba uma bazi ngakho, nakanjani kuzobalimaza.
Ukuduka Empilweni
Iningi lethu linezigaba empilweni lapho siphambuka khona endleleni yokulunga noma leyo ezosenza sijabule. Njengabazali, kungumsebenzi wabo ukunitshela uma niphambuka nenza izinto ezizonilimaza. Ngisho nangemva kokululekwa kaninginingi, uma uqhubeka ngendlela efanayo, ngokuqinisekile kungenye yezinto ezizolimaza abazali bakho.
Ukukhuluma Emuva, Ukuphikisana Nokuzikhukhumeza
Lokhu kungenye yalezo zinto ezingalimaza abazali bakho. Kuyalulekwa ukuthi ungaphikisani nabo uphinde ukhulume nabo noma ngabe umdala kangakanani. Uma ungumuntu othobekile ofanayo nobenguye, yithi mhlawumbe ngendlela obufunda ngayo esikoleni, nakanjani kuzobenza bajabule kakhulu.
Ukhetha Ukungenzi Okusemandleni Akho
Khumbula, abazali bakho bakukhulisile ngemuva kokunqoba ezinye zezinselelo ezinzima kakhulu eziphonswa yibo. Ukwenza kwakho okusemandleni akho kuzobalimaza, ngoba balindele ukubona injabulo yokukukhulisa. Khumbula ukwenza konke okusemandleni akho, ngoba uma wenza konke okusemandleni akho, abazali bakho bayokuma eceleni kwakho ngezikhathi ezinzima kakhulu.
Ukusola Abazali Bakho
Kwesinye isikhathi, ukhohlwa iqiniso lokuthi abazali bakho bathwale kanzima bakukhulisa, kwesinye isikhathi babhekana nezinselelo ezinzima kakhulu. Ungasoli abazali bakho ngezinto okungenzeka awunazo nezinye izingane onazo, ngoba uzobona ngolunye usuku ukuthi izinto obasola ngazo bezingafanele.
Ukungahloniphi Abazali Bakho
Ukungabahloniphi abazali bakho kungalimaza imizwa yabo. Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, kuzo zonke izinto abazali bakho abakwenzele zona, enye yezinto ezimbalwa kakhulu abazokucela yona ukuthi uyabahlonipha futhi uyakuvuma ukubaluleka kwabo. Ungalokothi ungabahloniphi abazali bakho, ngoba lapho wenza okuningi, kukhula ubude obude oya kubo. Maduze nje uzobona ukuthi akukho ongakwenza ukulungisa izinto futhi.
Ukungaziniki Indawo Yokuqala
Yebo, ushadile. Yebo, iningi lethu liyakwenza. Ukufaka phakathi kwezinto ezingalimaza kakhulu abazali bakho ukungaziniki indawo yokuqala nokuchitha ukubaluleka kwazo kunomunye umuntu.
Ukubakhohlwa Lapho Bakudinga Kakhulu
Yazi lokhu- abazali bakho abasoze bakutshela ngqo ukuthi bayakudinga. Ukubakhohlwa lapho sebekhulile mhlawumbe kubalimaza kakhulu abazali bakho. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe lokho abazali bakho abakwenzele kona. Ungalokothi ukwehlise lokho. Indoda eyiqiniso ayisoze yavumela ukuthambekela okunjalo.
