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Ngenxa yokuthi wena (funda: amadoda) uhambe naye usuku futhi kwavela kwaba kuhle kakhulu, akusho ukuthi uzocabanga ukuthandana nawe ngasikhathi sinye. Kukhona ithuba eliphezulu lokuthi uzokufaka ezivivinyweni eziningi ukuthola ukuthi ngabe uyisoka yini noma cha. Umangele, awusho? Isizathu salokhu kungaba ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bavame ukubheka ukuphola njengento enzima. Bazozama konke okusemandleni abo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bangena ebudlelwaneni nomfana ohloniphekile. Mhlawumbe, yingakho abesifazane bevame ukuthatha isikhathi sokunquma ukuthi kufanele bathandane nomfana yini.
Kepha ungahle ungabi nenhlanhla njalo ukuthola ukuthi ngabe intombazane yakho ikubeka esivivinyweni. Isizathu ukuthi abesifazane bavame ukukwenza lokhu ngendlela ecashile. Bazoqinisekisa ukuthi awulazi iqiniso lokuthi bayakuhlola. Ngakho-ke, ukukusiza ekwazini ukuthi ngabe intombazane yakho iyakuhlola yini, nazi ezinye izimpawu ongadlula kuzo.
1. Ubuza Ngomlando Wakho
Owesifazane kungenzeka angabi nentshisekelo yokwazi ukuthi uthandane nobani noma belunjani uthando lwakho nabalingani bakho. Empeleni, angahle afune ukwazi ukuthi buphele kanjani ubudlelwano bakho nokuthi kungani ulahle i-ex yakho futhi okuphambene nalokho. Indlela okhuluma ngayo ngobudlelwano bakho obudlulile nabasendulo iyamsiza ekukuhloleni. Ngokubuza imibuzo enjalo, uzama ukuthola ukuthi ungumuntu onokwethenjelwa yini nokuthi wenza okufanele ngokuya ezinsukwini zakho.
2. Uhlala Ebangeni Lengalo Kude Nawe
Uma ucabanga ukuthi abanye besifazane kunzima ngezinye izikhathi ukukuthola, khona-ke lokhu kuyiqiniso. Ungakukholwa lokhu kepha kwesinye isikhathi abesifazane abaningi badlala kanzima ukuthola futhi bangenza noma yini ukuhlala kude nengalo kuwe. Benza lokhu nje ukubheka ukuthi uzomhambela kude kangakanani nokuthi uzimisele ngempela yini. Angazenza ngathi akanandaba nawe noma akubalekele. Isizathu sokwenza lokhu kungaba ukwesaba ukuthi ungalahlekelwa yisithakazelo kuye lapho eqala ukuthandana nawe futhi etshala imizwa yakhe nesikhathi sakhe ebudlelwaneni.
3. Uvame ukuletha umngani wakhe omkhulu
Phakathi nezinsuku zokuqala, ungathola intombazane yakho iza nomngane wayo omkhulu. Angaphikelela ukuthi uhlangane nabangane bakhe abakhulu kepha sethembe ukuthi lokhu kungahle kungabi ngumhlangano nje kepha kube isimo esivivinyayo kuwe. Owesifazane angakuthanda kodwa angahle angabi nesiqiniseko sokuthi uyimpahla yesoka. Angasaba ukuthi imizwa yakhe ingamsiza ekukhetheni umlingani ohloniphekile ngakho-ke, angaletha umngane wakhe omkhulu noma afune ukuqinisekiswa kwawo.
4. Ukhansela Amasu
Angakhansela izinhlelo hhayi ngoba engafuni ukuphuma nawe noma umatasa nokuthile okubalulekile. Esikhundleni salokho, angakhansela izinhlelo kuphela ukubheka ukuthi usabela kanjani kukho noma ukuthi uzozama ngokusemandleni akho ngokuzayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwenza lokho kumsiza ukuthi abone ukuthi uzozama kangakanani ukuchitha isikhathi naye noma uma uzozama konke okusemandleni akho ukumkholisa ukuthi aphume nawe. Ngakho-ke, uma owesifazane wakho ekuthanda kodwa eqhubeka nokukhansela izinhlelo, ungadikibali kalula. Kungenzeka ukuthi ulinde wena ukuthi umqinisekise ngendlela engcono.
5. Ukhuluma Mayelana Nezifundo Zakhe
Siyazi ukuthi ungahle ungathandi lapho intombazane yakho ikhuluma ngama-ex (ama) akhe kodwa uyazi ukuthi angakhuluma ngawo ukuze abone ukuthi uphendula uthini. Angase akhulume ngazo ukuze abone ukuthi ulahlekelwa yini ukuphola futhi ucasuke ngokweqile noma uma uhlala uzolile futhi umethemba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wenza kanjalo ukuze abone ukuthi uba nomona noma uvikela ngokweqile lapho ekhuluma ngabadala bakhe. Okwamanje lapho ucasulwa khona nje, lokhu kungamenza akholelwe ukuthi awuyena umuntu okufanele athandane naye.
6. Ucela Ukumsiza
Okwamanje lapho intombazane yakho ikucela ukuthi uyisize, sicela ungayibheki njengesicelo esisobala. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kungaba esinye sezimpawu zokuthi uyakuhlola. Wonke umuntu wesifazane kulo mhlaba ufuna indoda esebenza ngokulinganayo futhi ekhuthele. Noma ngabe uyakwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi eyedwa, uzozama ukucela usizo lwakho ukuze abheke ukuthi ungumuntu owusizo nophanayo yini. Ukucela usizo lwakhe kuyindlela yokuthola ukuthi angakwazi yini ukuthembela kuwe ngezikhathi ezinzima.
7. Uvame Ukubheka Yonke Imininingwane Eyodwa Ngawe
Ukumbambela amasango noma ukumdonsela izihlalo kungabukeka kukujabulisa kodwa lokhu kusitshela okuningi ngobuntu bakho. Uma ucabanga ukuthi abantu besifazane bayazibona futhi lezi zinto, khona-ke uqinisile impela. Hhayi lokhu kuphela, kepha bangahle babheke nendlela odla ngayo, okhuluma futhi uphathe ngayo abanye abantu. Angahle a-ode isidlo sikanokusho ukuhlola ukuthi udla kanjani noma anganaka indlela okhuluma ngayo noma ohamba ngayo. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi udinga ukuzenzisa phambi kwentombazane yakho ngoba ngeke ikuthole isikhathi.
8. Ubuza Ngokushisekela Kwakho Nezinjongo Zakho Zesikhathi Esizayo
Yize ungakuthola kukuhle futhi kumnandi ukukhuluma ngezinhloso zakho zesikhathi esizayo, lokhu kungaba ngesinye sezivivinyo owesifazane angakufaka kuzo. Angafuna ukubheka ukuthi ziyini izinhloso zakho nokuthi uzimisele yini. Impendulo yakho izomsiza ekwazini ukuthi ulibona kanjani ikusasa lakho nokuthi ungena kulo yini. Ngakho-ke, ngokuzayo lapho intombazane yakho ikubuza ngezinhlelo nezinhloso zakho zesikhathi esizayo, qiniseka ukuthi awuphenduli ngenxa nje yalokho.
9. Ukhuluma Ngabangane Bakho
Kukhona ithuba eliphezulu lokuthi intombazane yakho ingakhuluma ngabangane bakho futhi kwesinye isikhathi, ingaze ikhalaze ngabo. Isibonelo, angahle athi awukho ebudlelwaneni obufanele noma unabangani abaxakile. Hhayi lokhu kuphela kepha kungaba nezikhathi lapho angahle angakhombisi intshisekelo yokuzijabulisa nabangane bakho.
Uma uqondana nezimpawu eziningi, lapho-ke kungacaca ukuthi intombazane yakho iyakufaka ezivivinyweni ezithile. Kepha lokho akusho, kufanele uzizwe uphoxekile noma umyeke. Esikhundleni salokho hlala ubekezele bese uzama ukufaka umzamo owengeziwe ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukungazibonakalisi nje kuphela ukuthi ungaba yisoka kodwa futhi uzuze ukuzethemba kwakhe.
