Umngane wakho womshado ulindele ingane yakhe yokuqala—intombazane!—futhi ube nedethi yokugeza ingane egcinwe ekhalendeni lakho izinyanga . Lawula ubhubhane futhi, njengayo yonke enye into emhlabeni ethintwa ukusatshalaliswa kwezenhlalo, iqembu liye lafakwa ku-inthanethi. Kodwa uyenza kanjani ukuthi ikhetheke nabangani abaningi nezihlobo Ezisondeza eduze nakude? Ngenqwaba yemidlalo yeshawa yezingane eminingi eningayidlala nonke ndawonye. Siqoqe imibono engcono kakhulu, kanye nemininingwane yokuthi ungahlela kanjani—futhi uhlaziye—iqembu.
Izithombe ze-JGI/Jamie Grill/GettyImidlalo Engcono Kakhulu Yeshawa Yengane Engadlalwa
Isimemo sesiphumile—manje sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ukuhlelwa kwephathi ebonakalayo kuqale. Uma kukhulunywa ngemidlalo, okwakudala kuseyinketho. Udinga nje ukudala ubuciko mayelana nendlela owenza ngayo ku-inthanethi.1. Ubani Lowo Mntwana?
Igeyimu yeshawa yengane ebonakalayo engagugi. Ngaphambi kwephathi, cela sonke isivakashi ukuthi sithumele i-imeyili isithombe somntwana saso. (Ngezindlela eziningi, lokhu kulula uma kubhekwa ukuthi kuyiphathi ebonakalayo—ngeke kudingeke ukuthi uphrinte lutho!) Okulandelayo, phonsa sonke isithombe kuphrezentheshini ye-PowerPoint noma i-albhamu kuhlelo lwakho lokusebenza lwezithombe oluyintandokazi. Phakathi nomcimbi, yabelana ngesikrini sakho neqembu ukuze wonke umuntu akwazi ukubheja ukuthi ngekabani isithombe sengane.2. Ubani Emndenini?
Omunye umdlalo ogxile esithombeni oziboleka kahle kulokhu kusetha okubonakalayo. Cela umama ozobe ekhona ukuthi aqoqe ukukhethwa kwezithombe zezihlobo kuzo zombili izinhlangothi zomndeni kanye nezomlingani wakhe womshado. Bese, phawula umbukiso wesilayidi. Umgomo uwukuba wonke umuntu aqagele ukuthi yisiphi isihlobo esinobuso obufana nohlangothi lukamama noma lukababa. Isivakashi esinezimpendulo ezifanele kakhulu siwina umklomelo we-virtual!
3. Baby Shower Gift Bingo
Yebo, le classic shower yezingane kuseyiyo ongayidlala cishe. Udinga nje ukwenza inhlekisa ithempulethi (noma usebenzise eyodwa onayo idonswe ku-inthanethi ) bese uyithumela nge-imeyili kuwo wonke umuntu ngaphambi komcimbi. Ngaleyo ndlela, bangakwazi ukuziphrinta bona futhi badlale kanye nabo. Umuntu obiza iBingo kufanele aqale aphakamise ikhadi lakhe ukuze umphathi akwazi ukuhlola umsebenzi wakhe.
4. Umazi Kahle Kangakanani Umama Ozoba?
Okubonakalayo noma cha, kunzima ukunqoba umjikelezo we-trivia eningawudlala nonke njengeqembu. Amaqembu alokhu akulula ukuhoxa uma nonke nisendaweni ehlukene, kodwa wonke umuntu usengakwazi ukuzidlalela. Uzodinga uchungechunge lwemibuzo mayelana nomama ozoba ngumama (mhlawumbe ihlukaniswe ngezikhathi zokuphila kwakhe njengokuthi, iminyaka yasekolishi noma owesifazane osebenzayo), bese umsingathi uzoyibiza. Izivakashi zingabhala phansi izimpendulo zazo bese umsingathi kuzomele athembele ezwini lakhe lokuthi ugcina izibalo ezithembekile zomphumela wazo. (Noma ungenza wonke umuntu uthumele izimpendulo zakhe nge-imeyili ukuze uzibale ngenkathi wonke umuntu ephuza ama-mimosa enziwe ekhaya—ucingo lwakho.)
5. Celeb Baby Name Game
UJennifer Garner. UGwyneth Paltrow. Michelle Obama. Bonke omama. Kodwa ingabe izivakashi zakho zingawakhumbula amagama ezingane zazo? Futhi, thula isikrini sakho ngochungechunge lwezithombe zosaziwayo, bese wenza ukuthi wonke umuntu aqagele mayelana namagama alungile ezingane zabo. (Amaphuzu ebhonasi uma bekwazi ukukhumbula iminyaka yabo, futhi.)
6. I-Baby Shower Charades
Ukuthi anindawonye mathupha akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukudlala umdlalo womzimba noma emibili. Ungakwazi ukuhlukanisa wonke umuntu ngamaqembu amabili, bese unikeza umuntu ngamunye isenzo esihlobene nengane. (Awusho, ukubhodla umntwana, ukushintsha inabukeni noma nje ukuba umzali ongakwazi ukulala ngokujwayelekile.) Khona-ke, njengoba elinye ilungu leqembu lifeza isabelo salo, iqembu lalo liyobheja ukuqagela ngesilinganiso sesikhathi esibekwe umninikhaya. (Ukunciphisa othile eqenjini elingafanele elimemezayo, usokhaya angathulisa labo abangabambi iqhaza kulowo mjikelezo othile.) Iqembu elinezimpendulo ezifanele kakhulu ekugcineni liyawina.
7. Baby Iculo Roulette
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthola isiqeshana samasekhondi angu-10 esithi Baby, Baby by the Supremes noma ethi Hit Me Baby One More Time ka-Britney Spears, umgomo uwukuba izihambeli zisho leyo ngoma enetimu yengane. Umuntu onezimpendulo ezifanele kakhulu uyawina. Ukuze ugcine izinto zihleleke kakhudlwana, ungenza abantu babhale ukuqagela kwabo futhi bakuphakamisele esikrinini, njengoba amapulatifomu evidiyo anomkhuba wokubeka phambili umuntu wokuqala ozokhuluma.
8. Virtual Scavenger Hunt
Umsingathi angenza uhlu lwezinto ezijabulisayo (nezinetimu yengane) okungenzeka noma ezingalele endlini yawo wonke umuntu, bese ebona ukuthi iyiphi kubavakashi engakhiqiza izinto eziningi. Ezinye izinto eziyisibonelo: ubisi, inabukeni, isithombe somntwana. Setha isibali sikhathi sokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele aseshe isikhathi esingakanani futhi uvumele umjaho obonakalayo uqale.
9. Iseluleko Kubazali - Ukufundwa Okubukhoma
KULUNGILE, lokhu akuwona umdlalo futhi kuyamangaza kakhulu. Kodwa, uma kubhekwa ukuthi amashawa ezingane ahlala ecela izihambeli ukuthi zabelane ngemizwa emnandi—ake sithi, iseluleko sikamama ozoba yiso—kungani ungasebenzisi esinye sezici ezihamba phambili zalezi zinsizakalo zokuxoxa ngevidiyo? Inketho yokurekhoda ingxoxo yakho ebukhoma. Nikeza isivakashi ngasinye ukuthi sizobekwa endaweni ukuze sifunde iseluleko mayelana nokukhulisa izingane bese ushaya irekhodi ngesikhathi sephathi njengoba uzungeza igumbi ubiza abantu ngethuba labo lokukhuluma. Ekugcineni, abazali bayoba nesikhathi esihle sesikhathi sosuku—kanye nesikhumbuzo sokusibiza lapho bedinga ukusekelwa okwengeziwe ngobusuku obungalali kahle.
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