Ukutshela ukuthi ubona ikusasa nawe. Ubeka ubusuku bezinsuku ekhalendeni, abuze ukuthi ungubani igama likamama wakho, aphikelele ekuhlanganeni nabangane bakho, ashayele ucingo ngemva kocansi futhi ahlele nokuhamba kancane kwezothando.
Bese kuthi ngolunye usuku, athi akanaso isiqiniseko ngawe. Udidekile. Akakho esimeni sokuba serious nanoma ubani njengamanje. Futhi ngokuzumayo, ubuyisela ubudlelwano, uzibuza ukuthi wenzeni okungalungile, lapho uphuthe khona izimpawu. Isexwayiso se-Spoiler: Bezingekho izimpawu.
Yebo. Uphuphile, mngane wami.
Kuyini ‘ukuphupha amaphupho’ emhlabeni?
I-Dreamscapers abantu ababonisa iphethini yokwakha ubudlelwano be-castle-in-the-cloud obukhohlisa umuntu abambonayo ukuthi acabange ukuthi bekungeyona nje into yangempela kodwa into enhle. Amaphupho abawadalayo uwumbono ongabonwa, kodwa akukho lutho ongawasekela. Uma ibhidlika, awuzilungiselele, kodwa zihamba zingenamyocu futhi ziqhubekele enganekwaneni elandelayo.
I-Dreamscapers iyi-phobes yokuzibophezela enhliziyweni, kodwa abaqapheli ukuphoqelelwa kwabo. Ngenxa yokuthi bafisa zonke izinto ezinhle eziza nobudlelwano (futhi akukho okubi), bahlala echibini lokuphola elidala umonakalo.
Ingabe i-dreamscaping iyafana nokuholela umuntu phambili?
Kinda...kodwa cha. Uma othile ekuholela phambili, ngokuvamile bayaqaphela ukuthi abanayo imizwa ngawe kodwa kukhona abakutholayo kokuhlangenwe nakho—ukunaka, ucansi, injabulo, ukudlala umdlalo, njll. (Yebo, kuseyi-AF enomthunzi .)
Ama-Dreamscapers, ngakolunye uhlangothi, angama-surrealists. Abazi ukuthi imibono yabo ngalobu budlelwano isekelwe ekucabangeni kwemilingo. Bakha isimo esikahle sokuqomisana ngolimi nezenzo zabo—inguqulo engokomfanekiso ye-bistro yangaphandle ephuphile ehlotshiswe ngamalambu ezinganekwane acwebezelayo. Kodwa okwesibili ubuhlobo buphuma esigabeni sezimvemvane futhi buqala ukuba ngokoqobo, i-facade yehla-ubudla i-pizza ebandayo esiteji somsindo ongenalutho ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kungani umuntu angawela ku-dreamscaper?
I-Dreamscapers bahle ekuqomeni, futhi bahle ekwenzeni abantu bawele kubo. Abazicabangi ngokweqile izenzo zabo ngaphandle uma kufanele (bahefuze!) baziguqule. Bafunda imizwa namavayibhu ngokuhlanya kahle futhi bazi kahle ukuthi izinsuku zabo bafuna ukuzwa ini, bakha leyo nqaba emafini ngezitini. Baxhuma kalula, kodwa abanamathiseli. Hell, kunzima hhayi ukuwela i-dreamscaper.
Ngikugwema kanjani ukuba ‘umqaphi wamaphupho’?
Khumbula: Akekho okwazi ngomlingo ngemva kosuku olulodwa; akekho ophelele; futhi uma kuzwakala kukuhle kakhulu ukuba yiqiniso, mhlawumbe kunjalo. Qaphela izithembiso zakuqala kanye nezimemezelo zezinhloso. Amathemba amahle kakhulu enza ngemizwa yawo ngaphambi kokuba asho. Uma ubuhlobo buhamba ngendlela efanele, bebengeke bagweme ukukhuluma ngokuzibophezela, okwenza i-dreamscaper squirm. Umuntu okuthanda ngempela, futhi uyazibonakalisa kuwe, hhayi nje uma kumnandi futhi izinto zimnandi Amazing , kodwa lapho uzidinga ngempela—imoto yakho ifile, uyagula, ubhekene nenkinga yomkhaya. Futhi uma i-dreamscaper yenzeka ukuze ikubuyisele phakathi, zikhumbuze ukuthi ufanelwe okungcono kunephupho. Ufanelwe okuthile okwangempela.
UJenna Birch uyintatheli kanye nombhali we Igebe Lothando: Uhlelo Oluqinile Lokunqoba Empilweni Nasothandweni , umhlahlandlela wokwakha ubuhlobo wabesifazane besimanje, kanye umqeqeshi ukuphola (ukwamukela amakhasimende amasha ka-2020). Ukumbuza umbuzo, angawuphendula kukholamu ezayo kaPampereDpeopleny, mthumele i-imeyili kokuthi jen.birch@sbcglobal.net .
