Uma uzwa uzwela futhi ucabange, Oh, uyakwazi ukufunda izingqondo? empeleni ubungeke ube futhi kude. Nakuba isici singeyona i-ESP yasesinema ncamashi, ukuzwelana kuvumelana ngokujulile nalokho abantu ababazungezile abakuzwayo— ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama —futhi uzizwele leyo mizwa njengokungathi eyayo, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kokukhipha izwi. Ngakho yebo, ngendlela ethile kuyinto amandla amakhulu. Uyazibuza ukuthi ngabe uyinzwa eyi-super-sensor? Nazi izimpawu eziyi-11 zokuthi uzwela, ngokusho kwazo UJudith Orloff M.D. 's I-Empath's Survival Guide .
1. Utshelwe ukuthi une-mood.
Mhlawumbe ngoba…unjalo. Uma ungunwabu ongokomzwelo, imibala yakho inamandla okushintsha ngokushesha.
2. Waziwa njengomenzi wokuthula phakathi kwabangane bakho nomndeni wakho.
Amandla amabi ayakuqeda ikakhulukazi, ngakho uzokwenza konke ongakwenza ukuze ugcine ukuthula. Futhi, njengoba uvumelana nemizwa yabanye, cishe ungumlamuleli omuhle kakhulu.
3. Awuyena owezindawo zomphakathi ezinkulu, ezinomsindo noma ezimatasa.
Uma uthola izindawo ezifana nezitolo ezinkulu noma amapaki etimu ziqeda amandla ngendlela exakile, kungenzeka ngoba awazi ukuthi ungayivimba kanjani yonke leyo mizwelo yamagundane enxanxathela yezitolo ukuthi ingangeni emqondweni wakho.
4. Uzizwa ugula emzimbeni lapho othile ekuthethisa noma ekucasukela.
Kokuzwela kakhulu, ukushuba kobuso bakho kungase kube kukhulu kakhulu.
5. Uthola ukubukela udlame noma unya kumabonakude kungabekezeleleki.
Yebo, uma u-Sarah McLachlan ekuthole ukuthi uklebhule futhi unikele, wena miiiiight abe nozwelo.
6. Abantu bazizwa bethambekele ekukhipheni izinkinga zabo kuwe.
Mhlawumbe ngoba ungumlaleli omkhulu, onozwelo, futhi unenkinga yokutshela abantu ukuthi cha.
7. Unokuqonda okuqinile.
Uyazi nje izinto ungatshelwanga. Ngakho uma uthatha izinqumo, uhola ngamathumbu akho.
8. Uzizwa uyinqaba kakhulu uma unabantu mbumbulu.
Mhlawumbe ngoba ungabona ukuthi kukhona abakufihlayo, futhi kukwenza ungakhululeki.
9. Uyakhangwa ezindleleni eziphelele zokwelapha.
Reiki? I-acupuncture? Ukuthepha ? Ungumdlalo. Kungenzeka kungenxa yokuthi uzwa ubukhona be-metaphysical ozama ukukukhulula futhi ukuqonde.
10. Uzwe ukuxhumana okujulile nemvelo nezilwane.
Uzwela oluningi ludlulisela ukuthi ukuba ngaphandle noma nezilwane kuyisisekelo esimangalisayo—ikakhulukazi ngenxa yokuthi awekho amandla amabi avela kubangane abanobuthi noma ama-vampire wamandla.
11. Udinga isikhathi sakho uwedwa.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungokwemvelo noma ukuzithokozisa embhedeni nge-TV engenangqondo, nakanjani udinga ukubalekela konke ukuze ushaje futhi uzizwe njengawe futhi.
Uma usadinga ulwazi olwengeziwe, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo.
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