Siye emishadweni ecishe ibe yizigidi ezi-4 kule minyaka embalwa edlule, futhi cishe uhhafu wayo ufaka phakathi okubhaliswa kwe-honeymoon ngaphezu kwedili elivamile le-Crate & Barrel. Nakuba singakaze sicabange kabili ngakho, sekufike ekuqapheleni kwethu ukuthi lesi isihloko esishisayo somshado esinezingxabano ezimbili: Abanye bathi kulungile ukucela izifundo ze-scuba e-Bali…futhi abanye bacabanga ukuthi akunambitheki nhlobo. Lapha, izinhlangothi zombili zendaba nesiphetho sethu sokugcina.
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Imishado ingene shí esikweni lakudala—uma sifuna ukuyinyakazisa, kungani sisabona abaningi kangaka? izingubo ezimhlophe eza phansi ngendlela? Futhi nakuba indawo yokubhalisa eBloomingdale ibonakala ikude kakhulu nelobolo elakhiwe umhlambi wezimvu nezinhlamvu zemali ezintathu zegolide, lifana nesimanjemanje elilingana nombono wamakhulu eminyaka: Umndeni nomphakathi uhlela abasanda kushada. isisekelo somuzi wabo. Ezinsukwini zakudala, lokho kwakusho ukudlulisa ubunikazi bemfuyo (negolide uma ubuyi-ballin'). Namuhla, lokho kusho i-KitchenAid. (Hhawu, leyo nto kuyinto empeleni ihhashi lokusebenza futhi lizohlala nawe phakade.)
Ngakho-ke lapho u-Anti wakho Omkhulu uLinda ebona ukuthi ukubhalisa kwakho kufaka ikilasi lokudansa le-salsa elingaphansi kwamanzi lika-0 lezithandani ezinoshaka abakhulu abamhlophe ngasogwini lwaseNingizimu Afrika, cishe uthanda, kwenzekani nge-flatware?! Nakuba i-bone china ingase ingabi nalusizo endleleni yakho yokuphila yekhulu lama-21 njengomhlambi wezimvu, isikhwama se-honeymoon esicela ukheshi ukuze uthole izinto eziwubukhazikhazi obuwubukhazikhazi senza ezinye izihambeli ezincike ngokwesiko zinwaya amakhanda—ikakhulukazi lezo ezicabangayo: Kungani ngikhokhela iholide lakho eliwubukhazikhazi?
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Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izithandani ziyanda ( Amaphesenti angama-89 awo ) bahlala ndawonye ngaphambi kokuba bakwenze kube semthethweni. Ngakho-ke amathuba akhona, amapheya amaningi athembisene umshado kade edlala indlu ngaphambi kokuba uthole isimemo ezifungweni zawo, okusho ukuthi cishe asebevele banokuningi izinto . Futhi masibhekane nakho: Ngisho noma bengacelanga zipho, ngiyacela, wonke umuntu ubengakhipha amehlo akhe kakhudlwana kunokuba ebengenza ebhukwini lokubhalisela i-honeymoon. Futhi ngempela, yini umehluko phakathi kohambo lwasebusuku lwe-zip-line ehlathini lase-Costa Rican kanye ne-oven yase-Le Creuset Dutch ? Zombili ziyizinto umbhangqwana okungenzeka ukuthi ubungeke ujwayele ukuzichitha kuzo (futhi zombili zibiza ngempela).
Kodwa iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu lapha ukuthi akufani nawe ukuphoqa noma ngubani ongangena ohambweni lwakho lwaseThailand. Amandla asahleli ngasohlangothini lwesiphiwo, hhayi umamukeli. Uma othile efuna ukukutholela ukunikezwa kwempilo yakho konke kwe-Crisco, hhayi okuthile ekubhaliseni kwakho, wonke amandla kuye. (Kodwa iminwe yawela banamathela kurejista.)
Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliIsinqumo
Ngemva kokuhlola amaqiniso ngokucophelela, sifinyelele esiphethweni sokuthi kulungile, futhi ngokusemthethweni hhayi tacky, ukusetha irejista ye-honeymoon. Ngisho I-Emily Post Institute iyavuma: KULUNGILE futhi ukusetha irejista ye-honeymoon (njengenye yezindawo zakho zokubhalisa ezifika kokuthathu). Lapho kungenzeka khona, chaza ukuthi iminikelo ehlukene izosetshenziswa kanjani: : imoto eqashwayo ngosuku luka-Rob esishayela amagquma aseTuscany. Ngakho-ke, njengoba uNkz. Post ephakamisa, bhala ukuthi uzobe uchitha ngani imali njengoba ukucela imali eqondile kuzophazamisa ezinye zezihambeli zakho ngendlela engafanele. (Futhi uma ungathola idili lemoto eqashisayo lika-, sicela usazise ngakho.) Icala livaliwe; amapotimende apakishiwe.
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